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  • What advice would you give to your teenage about Marriage 2

    What advice would you give to your teenage about Marriage 2

    Yesterday, I said I will give tennage to read about marriage now even though the union is the next 5, 10 or 15 years for many.

    I am not leaving them in the loop. The link below 👇👇👇 takes you to where you can download free ebooks that will benefit your live for many to come.

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    You can get such titles like, The Tearless Courtship, God Doesn’t Want You To Be A Virgin, Meet and Marry and many more.

    Also stay tuned to this site for many Christian contents on Courtship that’s both fun and purely normal for Christians.

    Remember to download for your teen kids, students, cousins and friends.

    I love you!!!

  • World Little Kindness Day

    World Little Kindness Day

    Hello, dear friends of Courtship Arena!

    Today is World Little Kindness Day, a day that celebrates the importance of being kind to each other, to yourself, and to the world in a little, not-often-regarded ways.

    On this special occasion, I want to express my gratitude and appreciation to all of you who have supported my blog and my mission. You are the reason why I did what I did. You inspire me to share my insights, tips, and stories on how to build healthy, happy, and lasting relationships. You motivate me to keep learning, growing, and improving ourselves and my content. You encourage me to spread kindness and positivity in our community and beyond. I am honored and humbled by your loyalty, feedback, and engagement. You have made this blog a vibrant and welcoming space for everyone who values love, respect, and commitment. You have also made this blog a source of hope and joy for many who are seeking guidance and support in their courtship journey. I want to thank you from the bottom of my hearts for being part of this Courtship Arena family. I hope that you will continue to join me as we explore the wonderful world of courtship and romance. We also hope that you will celebrate World Little Kindness Day by showing some kindness to your partner, your family, your friends, and yourself. Remember, kindness is not only a virtue, but also a powerful way to express your love and appreciation. Kindness is what binds us all together. Kindness is what makes the world a better place. Happy World Little Kindness Day, everyone! With love and gratitude,

    Aládé Joel

    The Courtship Arena.

  • Happy Valentine.

    Happy Valentine.

    From the dearest part of my heart, I am saying that I love you.

    Happy Valentine.

  • Love Conquers All: A Reflection on World Cancer Day

    Love Conquers All: A Reflection on World Cancer Day

    World Cancer Day is observed annually on February 4th. It serves as a global initiative to raise awareness about cancer, encourage its prevention, detection, and treatment, and unite individuals and organizations in the fight against this devastating disease.

    On this World Cancer Day, let’s take a moment to reflect on the strength and resilience that love brings, especially in the face of challenges like cancer. As a marriage content creator, I believe that the power of love within a marriage can provide comfort, support, and hope during difficult times.

    In times of illness, couples often find solace in each other’s presence, becoming pillars of strength for one another. It’s a reminder that love is not just about the joyful moments but also about standing united when life throws its toughest battles our way.

    Reflecting on this, the Bible offers wisdom in 1 Corinthians 13:7 (NIV): “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” This verse beautifully encapsulates the essence of love within a marriage, emphasizing the strength that comes from enduring challenges together.

    As we observe World Cancer Day, let’s extend our love and support to those facing this formidable foe. Together, we can be a source of hope and encouragement for those navigating the journey of cancer. Remember, love is a powerful force that can conquer even the most challenging circumstances.

    Wishing everyone strength, hope, and love on this important day.

  • Fatherhood; Make it Count.

    Fatherhood; Make it Count.

    Good morning. How you have a good night rest.

    I was discussing with a friend who is a nursing mother last December and opined and I quite agreed with her that, ‘ baby growth is both scary and teary.’

    Why did she say that and why did I agree? Because, in the space of 6 months, we have seen our boys and girls grow and develop, dropping our character or the other and displaying another one – both funny, not-so-funny, good and bad, bumbling and sick, in a jiffy.

    And I won’t deceive you, they will still overgrow their present stages but as a father (or mother) you can make it memorable for you and baby by doing the following:

    • Play with them. Laugh with them because a baby smile can disarm the formidable USA Army 😀😀😀. I can bet it with you that the smile won’t come every time you are with him/her, but each time you are opportune to have one, you will enjoy it and trust me, it doesn’t last 😭😭😭
    • Document his/her milestones. Be it crying, naming, baptismal, crawling, first step, starting school, family visits, grandma’s backing, play moments, one achievement or the other, etc. Take as many pictures and videos as possible – not necessarily for social media posting but for you to see the growth and development and be happy that you are in the lives of your kids and two, to preserve their childhood for them*

    If you can take them two steps, baby fatherhood can be enjoyable for you.

    Thanks for reading.

    *make sure you backup your videos and photos to Google Drive/photo to safeguard it.

  • Happy New Year 🇱🇷🇬🇧🇦🇩🇦🇪🇦🇹🇦🇬🇦🇮🇦🇱🇧🇸🇧🇬🇧🇷🇨🇩🇨🇭🇨🇮🇨🇦🇧🇿🇨🇳🇳🇬🇸🇦🇹🇳🇺🇲🇺🇾🇾🇪🇿🇼🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

    Happy New Year 🇱🇷🇬🇧🇦🇩🇦🇪🇦🇹🇦🇬🇦🇮🇦🇱🇧🇸🇧🇬🇧🇷🇨🇩🇨🇭🇨🇮🇨🇦🇧🇿🇨🇳🇳🇬🇸🇦🇹🇳🇺🇲🇺🇾🇾🇪🇿🇼🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

    ENGLISH -This year for me and you is a Year of inevitable turnarounds.

    As we step into the new year, let’s embrace the promise of renewal and hope that comes through our faith. May God’s love guide our paths, granting us strength, peace, and grace. Let’s reflect on His blessings, cherishing the opportunity for spiritual growth in the coming year. Happy New Year!

    Welcome to fortune 2024.

    FRENCH – Cette année, pour vous et moi, est une année de changements inévitables.

    En entrant dans la nouvelle année, embrassons la promesse de renouveau et d’espoir qui découle de notre foi. Que l’amour de Dieu guide nos chemins, nous accordant force, paix et grâce. Réfléchissons à Ses bénédictions, chérissant l’occasion de croissance spirituelle pour l’année à venir. Bonne année !

    Bienvenue à la fortune 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    YORÙBÁ – Ọdún yi fun mi ati rẹ ni ọdun ti ìyípadà ailegbe.
    Bi a ṣi ṣẹ lọ nínú ọdun, jọwọ gba isọdọtun ati ìrètí tí o wàá lati inú ìgbàgbọ. Ki ìfẹ́ Olódùmarè, t’owa sónà, funwa ni ookun, alafia, ati òré ọfẹ. A jékí a ronú nípa ìbùkún Rẹ, ki a sì karamasiki idagba l’ẹmi wa. Ẹ ku ọdun tuntun!

    Káàbọ̀ sí ọdún orire 2024.

    #dadkylexy


    IGBO – Ọdụ a na-ebi na a gị na mụọ na-akọrọ nile.

    N’otu n’otu gaa n’anya ọnwa, ka anyị gosipụtara iwu nke ọbụla na ọnọdụ dị n’ihu anyị. Ka ụbọchị nke Chineke chọrọ anyị n’ala anyị, tinye anyị n’ọkwa, ọdụ, na mmadụ. Ka anyị gosipụtara na ndọdụ nke Chineke, cheta otu-otu ndụ ya, kwesịrị ọnụ ya na-echi anyị. Ọdụ a bụ ọdụ afọ.

    Nnabata anyị na ọdụ afọ 2024.

    #dadkylexy


    HAUSA – Shekarar nan na ce na kai da kai shekarar mai amfani.

    Wakar shekarar tana hira masa tsayawa da kuma damuwa da ke dacewa game da imani. Amma mun tafi ɓangaren shekara saboda kawo mako wa duk wanda ya yabawa, Allah ya taimake masu isar da lafiya, tsakar gida, da kuma kyauta. Mu je kun kawo cewar laifin Shi, mu taya irin wannan sabuwa na samun abin mamaki a shekara mai tsarki. Barka da Shekara Mafiya!

    Karibuni ga wakokin daga shekarar 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    SPANISH – Este año para mí y para ti es un año de inevitables cambios.

    Al adentrarnos en el nuevo año, abracemos la promesa de renovación y esperanza que proviene de nuestra fe. Que el amor de Dios guíe nuestros caminos, otorgándonos fuerza, paz y gracia. Reflexionemos sobre Sus bendiciones, valorando la oportunidad de crecimiento espiritual en el próximo año. ¡Feliz Año Nuevo!

    Bienvenido a la fortuna del 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    PORTUGUESE – Este ano para mim e para ti é um ano de mudanças inevitáveis.

    Ao entrarmos no novo ano, abracemos a promessa de renovação e esperança que vem através da nossa fé. Que o amor de Deus guie nossos caminhos, concedendo-nos força, paz e graça. Vamos refletir sobre Suas bênçãos, valorizando a oportunidade de crescimento espiritual no próximo ano. Feliz Ano Novo!

    Bem-vindo à fortuna de 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    ARABIC
    هذه السنة بالنسبة لي ولك هي سنة لتحولات لا مفر منها.

    عندما نخطو إلى العام الجديد، دعونا نحتضن وعد التجديد والأمل الذي يأتي من خلال إيماننا. ليكن حب الله هاديًا لمساراتنا، ممنحًا لنا القوة والسلام والنعمة. دعونا نتأمل في بركاته، نقدر الفرصة للنمو الروحي في العام القادم. عام جديد سعيد!

    مرحبًا بكم في سنة 2024 المليئة بالتوفيق.

    #dadkylexy

    HINDI – इस साल मेरे लिए और आपके लिए एक परिवर्तनों भरे वर्ष का है।

    नए वर्ष में कदम बढ़ाते हैं, चलिए हम उन नए और आशीर्वादपूर्ण संवाद का स्वागत करें जो हमारे आस्था के माध्यम से आता है। भगवान का प्रेम हमारे मार्ग को मार्गदर्शन करे, हमें बल, शांति, और कृपा प्रदान करे। हमें उसके आशीर्वादों पर विचार करने दे, आने वाले वर्ष में आध्यात्मिक विकास के लिए मौका को मूल्यवान ठहराएं। नया साल मुबारक!

    2024 की भाग्यशाली यात्रा का स्वागत है।

    #dadkylexy

    KOREAN – 올해는 나와 당신에게 피할 수 없는 전환의 해입니다.

    새해에 우리는 믿음을 통한 새로운 시작과 희망을 간직합시다. 하나님의 사랑이 우리 길을 인도하며 힘과 평화, 은혜를 주시기를 바랍니다. 그의 축복을 돌아보며 오는 해에 영적 성장의 기회를 소중히 여기죠. 새해 복 많이 받으세요!

    2024년의 행운을 환영합니다.

    #dadkylexy

    CHINESE (SIMPLIFIED) – 对于我和你来说，今年是不可避免的转折之年。

    迈入新的一年，让我们拥抱通过信仰带来的更新和希望的承诺。愿上帝的爱引导我们的道路，赐予我们力量、平安和恩典。让我们反思祂的祝福，珍惜在即将到来的一年中属灵成长的机会。新年快乐！

    欢迎来到2024年的好运。

    #dadkylexy

    GERMAN – Dieses Jahr ist für mich und dich ein Jahr unausweichlicher Wendepunkte.

    Wenn wir ins neue Jahr eintreten, wollen wir das Versprechen der Erneuerung und Hoffnung umarmen, das durch unseren Glauben kommt. Möge Gottes Liebe unsere Wege leiten und uns Stärke, Frieden und Gnade schenken. Lasst uns Seine Segnungen reflektieren und die Gelegenheit zum spirituellen Wachstum im kommenden Jahr schätzen. Frohes Neues Jahr!

    Willkommen im Glücksjahr 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    SWAHILI – Mwaka huu kwangu na kwako ni Mwaka wa mabadiliko yasiyoweza kuepukika.

    Tunapojitayarisha kuingia mwaka mpya, na tuukaribishe ahadi ya upya na tumaini linalotokana na imani yetu. Mapenzi ya Mungu yatufundishe njia zetu, kutupa nguvu, amani, na neema. Tuzingatie baraka zake, tukithamini fursa ya ukuaji wa kiroho katika mwaka ujao. Heri ya Mwaka Mpya!

    Karibu kwenye utajiri wa 2024.

    #dadkylexy

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    Happy Thanksgiving to All my American followers
  • October Challenge Day 31 – What I have been working on.

    October Challenge Day 31 – What I have been working on.

    Waoh!!!! 31 good fantastic days down. Thank for all your likes, reads, views, follows.

    You have been amazing for so far! But let me put you into some of the things I have been working with lately purposely for the remaining of this year and the next one.

    First, my scheduled Talk With Me Episode 2 with @tonified that was unable to hold due to unforseen circumstances, will now hold on Sunday 5th November, 2023 by 6pm WAT.

    Also, I will also be living with Damilola, Founder of Praise Foods in December for Third Episode of Talk with Me. We will discussing our preparing your family for Christmas in food matters. Watch out!

    The original BigMary and I are also cooking big things for you. Feminists and plagiarists, make una run for your life ,🏃🏃🏃🏃

    In addition, next year, February I will be launch a new digital book (with plenty bounces) titled HOW TO MEET AND MARRY WITHIN 3 MONTHS. Watch out too!

    You can preorder here on Selar.co via Here or via Amazon through Here

    Furthermore, my annual Blogmas is starting on December and it runs for 25 days.

    This year’s theme is The Essence of Christmas and we are studying from the book of Gospel according to Dr. Luke which has 25 chapters.

    I won’t tell you lies, there are loads of activities slated going forward. All you need is to stay tuned to this page.

    Thanks you for being here but before you go, check the comment section and do accordingly. Loveeeee!

    #dadkylexy #octoberchallenge

  • October Challenge Day 30 10 – What food would you say is your specialty?

    October Challenge Day 30 10 – What food would you say is your specialty?

  • October Challenge 29 – How to strengthen Your Family through Food – Damilola Àlàó, CEO Praise Foods

    October Challenge 29 – How to strengthen Your Family through Food – Damilola Àlàó, CEO Praise Foods

    A personal story quickly; during courtship, while we were discussing conflict resolutions, we agreed to demarcate how far our anger or reactions will go. One of those demarcations, is that no matter the gravity of our disagreement, family food must not be affected.


    Staying aloof or alone, being angry is permitted, occasional malice can be done for some time but the family cook, must not say she is angry, she will not cook neither should the eater, which is definitely me, should not reject the food.


    One, an healthy food promotes family well-being which drugs and some medication will not be able to, to an extent.

    Remember an adage that says, ‘ Eat your food as you would eat your drug.’


    Also Good foods can be avenue for the family to appreciate the goodness of the Lord over your affairs. After all, Deuteronomy 8:10 says, ‘when you have eaten and are satisfied, Praise The Lord your God for the good He has given you.


    A hungry family can hardly praise the Lord.


    Food also helps to create indelible family moments. Eating at the same time tells you, you are valued. Eating at the same table connotes that you are part of the family system. Eating from the family pot shows that unshakeable love binds us together.


    Tell me, who wouldn’t want a bonded family?


    Fourthly, Family food is a reenactment of Marriage of Lamb. Jesus at the end of age will gather all his family for an unparalleled feast of foods, fruits, and wines. By eating together now, we are simply rehearsing our future endeavors.


    Furthermore, Good family delicacy also boosts the happiness of the family members, as this will in turn, eventually strengthen the cord of the family.


    On addition, through quality food, we are confirming the covenant. Notice why there is always a state banquet after the signing of the treaty? Of course, it’s to reaffirm and establish the covenant.


    Moreover, this boils down to how each family will combine and manage the different classes of foods and what each supplies to the body system.


    The family can have a food time-table/meal plan consisting of all the classes of food according to their availability in their locality. This will save time and money.


    Also the mother of the house should know how to prepare some sweet and healthy delicacies that will make the family to stay sane and mentally okay and there should be once-in-while eat-outs.


    Lastly, we should allow the situation of this country to determine the intake of the food but as a family you can adjust your food time-table. Good food are not costly to made and they are easy to make.

    Thanks for reading. Have a food day


  • October Challenge Day 28 – How to spot a Godly Sister For Marriage.

    October Challenge Day 28 – How to spot a Godly Sister For Marriage.

    Make sure you share this post after reading. It will save your destiny from wreakers of purpose via Marriage.

    You know the Bible talks about a man obtaining favour from the Lord by marriage a good wife in Proverb.

    Furthermore, Bible still say a good wife is from the Lord.

    Therefore, a good wife is from the Lord and He can only give godly ones and I believed you want one for yourself.

    A godly sister is first of all a Christian. A believer in the Lordship and Saviourship of our Lord and Saviour. Any acclaimed godliness asides that, is a filthy one and an affront on the Lord that leave me alone, I can live my life anyhow.

    Her born-againability is the first proof of godliness.

    Two, godliness sister don’t have their nudes on their phones talk less of sending them about. They don’t reduce themselves to that gutter behaviour.

    Three, a godly sister won’t test you. She will not test you whether you care about her or not. She won’t test you to know whether you are sexually okay or not. Christians are tempters

    Moreover, a Godly lady won’t pressurize you for sex. Not only that she won’t seduce you. Our sisters are not seductresses.

    A godly sister is not a feminist. Godly sister don’t have problem with problem with submission. Such fellow doesn’t hate men.

    She won’t be comparing you with the other guys for she is not unwise. If she is pushing you towards desperation, know that she isn’t from God.

    In addition to that, a Godly Sister is not using you as poverty alleviation scheme. She is in a relationship with you not in business transaction.

    Less I forget, a Godly Sister have credit on her phone, can hold meaningful conversation, have transport fare to visit and can take care of her personal bills.

    Christian sisters doesn’t cohabit for it’s an act of great ungodliness. Aunt, go and pack your bags, have small shame now oooo, go home!

    He doesn’t have any zaddy somewhere.

    Because she fears the Lord, her loyalty is to one man, you. She isn’t a side chick to anyone.

    And lastly, she is not a baddie and she covers herself appropriately

    May God helps you to find a godly sister for marriage in Jesus name

    #dadkylexy #octoberChallenge

  • October Challenge Day 27 – How To Spot A Godly Man for Marriage

    October Challenge Day 27 – How To Spot A Godly Man for Marriage

    First of all, thank you for celebrating my mum yesterday. She sends regards.

    Also welcome to day 25. I am happy having you here and sharing this.

    Like I said, this is the last week of the challenge will be focused on relationship. Therefore, let’s dig in

    I believed as a woman you are looking for a Godly Man for a husband because I know you love God and love a happy home plus being loved by a good husband.

    And who could be a good husband if not a godly man whose delight is in the laws of the Lord.

    Now this how to differentiate between a Godly brother and ungodly one;

    My sister, he is not godly if he agrees to no-sex-before-marriage with you but he is having it somewhere and or his room is the slaughterhouse for his fornicating friends. Godliness must touch all his relationships.

    He is ungodly if he practised abstinence with you then encourages unfaithfulness. His actions must encourages faithfulness and godliness.

    He is not godly if he treats you well but very unkind to others, especially those beneath him. He is expected to be kind to you but everyone deserves respect because we are all created in God’s image.

    There is no single iota of godliness in him if he is asking for your nudes or pressuring you for sexting and you too won’t have any naked pics of you on your phone if you too are godly.

    He has a consistent records of being abusive and not for once seek help, he is ungodly. Godliness must touch his hand and emotions.

    But he is nice, is not a sign of godliness. There are nice demons.

    Lastly Godliness is far from him if he doesn’t have Jesus as his Lord and Saviour.

    That is how to spot a godly man because Godliness with contentment is all encompassing and it must reflect in every area of one’s life.

    Thank you reading. Make sure you share this.

    May God direct your path in Jesus name. Amen.

    #dadkylexy #Octoberchallenge

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