Number one, there are people who are keeping the sexual purity ideal up in this 21st century. Don’t let sinners’ voice mislead you contrawise.
Number two, God’s commands is still No sex before Marriage and I am 100% saying this, you can’t regret ever keeping yourself till you are rightfully married.
Furthermore, start praying now. Don’t wait until you are about to settle down before praying about your future home.
Pray for your future spouse, kids, in-laws, friends, neighbours, anything and everything that have to do with marriage.
Fourthly, believe that Godly, lovely and enjoyable Marriage is very much around and you can have one.
Lastly, invest in Godly books, conferences, seminars to prepare yourself for the actual day.
She said to me, ‘since we are going to marry, let’s do it.’
I said no. Number one we are not married. Two, it’s ungodly.
‘Hmmm, what about kissing, or do you want to say that one too is a sin.’
‘It’s not but it can lead us to where we don’t know,’ I replied.
She brought up the subject of pornography.
I replied watching porn is one of the surest ways to destroy the marriage before it even starts because it places you and your spouse in fantasy – unrealistic expectations; a world created by video directors, videographers, video editors, and actors.
Your marital sexual life will be utterly destroyed because you can’t attain a world that doesn’t exist.
Two, watching porn is promoting sin and encouraging sinners not to repent.
By downloading porn materials, you are encouraging them to put out more ungodly content.
By visiting their site, you are telling them that more sinful materials are needed.
Watching porn is one of the surest ways to destroy the marriage before it even starts
Liking and viewing their pages only mean one thing; more money from the motinesation of their idea which in turn you are contributing monetarily to Satan’s kingdom.
I refused to do adverts for Satan in my life.
God forbids I am unwilling tools for the propagation of evil and its agenda.
Lastly, this evil will open doors for other evils like the objectification of the opposite sex, insanity, sodomy, etc.
It may look harmless but the repercussions are far fetch.
May the grace of God be with us.
Disclaimer: the story at the beginning of this write-up is fictional.
I remembered the story of Bro. John and how Pastor told the Media department to please off the mic on Bro John and mandated him to retake his discipleship classes.
Bro John was (and I believed is still) a Christian. He is the sort of Christian that you can adequately label firebrand, devil binding, tongued, holy and no-nonsense Christian. Mere relating with bro. John, you will think he belongs to S.U class of old but lo and behold! he is a thoroughbred orthodox.
Not all testimony is a testimony.
You can never see Bro. J as we used to call in that day with a fellowship sister gisting or playing and even if you see him with one it is with Sis. Shikemi, her fiancee and they are either praying or studying the Bible.
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Furthermore, bro. J stands on purity is well-known. No hfhkenhystericus 🤪🤪🤪 till hfmgfdtsee 🙄🙄🙄. Not even hftybffddtb. 😃😃😃.
By my description of Bro. J, you think he was some wacko, out-of-reality, earthly useless kind of Christian. Far from it, he is the definition of what a Christian should be in school, church, neighbourhood, etc.
To cut the long narrative short, John went to school. Graduated with flying colours. Secured a job. Married our dear sis. Shikemi and live happily after till one day, trouble sleeps, John goes and wakes him up!
It happened that the pastor permitted Bro J to speak to engaged singles during the church singles’ retreat on purity in Relationships. As per se, he will have practical examples of how God helped them ( sister shikemi and him).
On D-Day, it was now the turn of our speaker to chuck us with the word as Zibo Jnr Elabha used to do in RCCF house then, Bro John, said in impeccable Queenueen Elizabeth English
‘lemme first thank our daddy in the Lord for this fantastic opportunity. I celebrate you, sir. And to my wife of inestimable value, I love you.’
“Lemme start this teaching with a testimony. I don’t know what is wrong with you young people of nowadays. When I was single, a sister and I will sleep overnight and nothing will happen.”
“What did you just say,” the pastor asked.
“I say, when I was single, a sister and I can sleep overnight and nothing will happen and if a sister should naked herself in front of me, my body will not be moved,” he replied 🙆🙆🙆
That was how our pastor told the media people to off the mic and asked him to re-enrol in discipleship classes because it seems he missed some lessons.
Moral: not all testimony is a testimony. The ability to sleep overnight with the opposite sex who isn’t your blood is not a testimony, it’s a disgrace to your Christianity, misrepresentation of Christ and willfully tempting Satan.
That nothing will happen when an opposite-sex strip naked in your presence is not a testimony. It’s rather a testament that you are still human and can fall and falter so take heed to your heart and mind.
No matter how strong you think you are, you might not be able to withstand the pressure at the heat of the moment. Flee!
You’re a tongue talking christian, born again and saved. You can quote all the verses of the bible on a spot without blinking. Likewise, on the spot, Flee!
You’re so emotional. You love him/her too much that you don’t want to lose that relationship. But he/she usually makes you reduce your standards by making you indulge. Flee!
At the moment, your adrenaline begins to increase. You start to feel so horny. Yes, I know you love him/her so much that your heart begins to do you “Duduke.” Flee!
Before you begin to call on God the Father, Son and Holyspirit to help control your emotions on the spot, my dear don’t deceive yourself. Flee!
It doesn’t matter if you made mistakes in the past. That’s not an excuse to keep indulging. Flee!
There’s no other way to help yourself than to escape from the scene. Emotion is too powerful that you may only realise that you messed up when the deed is done. The only remedy is to flee!
Honestly, the effects of sexual sin are grave. Even when you ask for mercy, you won’t escape the punishments.
To be candid, heartbreak hurts. It stinks. It pains to the inner mind particularly when you knew for a fact that you dot all the ‘i’s and crossed all the ‘t’s in a biblical way yet you are being ‘punished’ for love.
Source: shutterstock.
I said it again it isn’t palatable. I knew what it implies to be heartbroken but you can deal with the agony triumphantly.
In addition to that, heartbreak is inevitable. As long as a human will be your father, mother, kid, spouse, boss, etc, you got to respecttheir fallibilities.
Now deal with heartbreak like these:
1.CRY.
Even our Lord Jesus Christ was heartbroken at His people’ unbeliefs and wept. Cry! You have not sinned. Talk to people about your pains. Crying relieves pain.
2. THANK GOD.
It was a human being that broke your heart, not Yahweh, so praise ummhangeable Promise Keeper.
Two, if it is a romantic breakup, dance away! There are many saves that God is doing for us that we have no inkling about. Maybe you are saved from a potentially damaging relationship and lastly, the bible said, ‘in everything, give thanks.’
3. FORGIVE AND TAKE THE FIRST STEP OF RECONCILIATION.
Yeah! You didn’t misread me! You have to forgive your heartbreaker whether the person realises his/her mistakes or not, after all, we have done worse for Jesus and He forgave us.
Don’t just forgive, take the first step of reconciliation by calling, emailing, DMing the offender to normalise the relationship after all Christ didn’t wait for us to repent before dying for us.
You say, ‘it is not easy and unfair.’ who said it will be? But that is Christ’s teaching and Christ Himself is the one that will grace to do His will. Remember, blessed are the peacemakers.
4. GO OUT.
After doing the stuff above. Stop blaming yourself.
Stop pity party.
Go and pursue your objectives, goals and aspiration.
Go out, network and make new friends. It is your season of love.
5. LOVE AGAIN.
There is an adage in the Yoruba, loosely translated as, ‘if a car hits you, it is still a car that will carry you to hospital.’ Love again and love with Queen Esther’s saying in your mind that, ‘if I perish [again], I perish.’
It is one human that broke your heart, it’s still another human being that you will marry.
6. DON’T PUNISH OTHERS.
It is your ex that dumped you, not all girls, so don’t punish your next, sir.
It is that boy that is unserious not all boys.
You were swindled by one man not all.
So let’s be guided.
7. GUARD YOUR HEART.
Lastly, guard the remaining part of your heart with love, joy and soundness and let it spring out of life.
According to Wikipedia, only 5% of marriage proposals are done by female.
Source: Google.
One of the reasons I so much cherished my wife is that she handled my proposal properly without any delay.
She gave her answer the same day I asked her out.
But many ladies nowadays waste marriage proposals unneccesarily through delay tactics.
Queens, let me tell you a fact; giving a man yes answer on the spot, spending a reasonable time on it or using 6 months to pray about it doesn’t define your value to a man. A man values you based on
☑️ His personal value. If he is a man that believe woman must be below him no matter her efforts, if you like play hard to get for 5 years before saying yes, he still won’t value you. A valueless individual values nothing.
But if it is a man with high moral values, whether you ask him out by yourself, give yes answer on a spot, or took extended time to think about it, he will still value you.
☑️ Your values. Yoruba proverb says, ‘bonigba ba se pe igba re la n ba peee‘ loosely translated as ‘ the name the owner called her calabash is what we will be helping her to call it.’ You can be behaving as irresponsible and uncaring all over places and expect any reasonable man to take you serious.
Madam, please a value on yourself.
Now, that you have known that taking extended time to answer proposal is of no use, then handle proposal like these:
👉 Have a checklist of who you can’t marry. You can’t marry every man that ask you out and this also boil down to having values.
When I was single, I knew the class of people I can’t marry and trust me I met them but I didn’t trouble any one of them for relationship because marriage between us can never happen.
I knew I can’t marry non-christian. So I don’t bother to ask one out despite having all the qualities I want in my wife.
I also know I can marry from all church. We worship same God but use different beliefs.
Why will I go after a deeper life sister when I love trouser wearing lady with rims as earrings?
Why will I be toasting a JW girl who I know doesn’t believe in Trinity, transfusion of blood and many other fundamental Christian beliefs?
I know I can’t marry from other tribe. No that mine was better, infact, criminal exists in all tribes but firstly my parents will object to it and two, I don’t think I have strength for intertribal marriage. People in intertribal marriage deserve national awards.
Because of my checklist of who I can’t marry, it helps me to focus my searchlight on Yoruba Christian lady going to a trouser and makeup permissive church from any part of the country.
DEAR, yours doesn’t have to be mine but having such mental guideline will help you to determine whose proposal you can consider and who to give instant no to respectfully.
👉 If you are rejecting his proposal, please reject his rides, money, time and gifts. The principle is, if he is not your type, his thing should not your type.
👉 If you know your answer will be a yes, please give the answer either on the spot or within few days.
My wife gave me her yes answer on the spot and I cherish her for not wasting my time.
👉 You don’t need three months to pray on a proposal ooooo. If truly, you are a Christian with consistent relationship with God and Bible, first, you will know who deserves straight no and who is worthy of presentation to your heavenly father and I know your father won’t delay you. A month is okay.
👉 Don’t despise any man because you reject his proposal. You don’t have to abuse, degrade or despise any man for asking you out.
Na you no like am, there is one correct babe outside wey go lick am.
Don’t damage someone husband with your mouth.
👉 Do you accept his proposal? then say no to secret relationship.
This is a chapter from my incoming new Ebook titled Sexual Purity in A Sexually Crazed World. Enjoy and download for reading when it comes out hopefully by June.
We live in a sex crazy world. Almost everything now has been sexualized as if human beings cannot survive without sex.
Sex is between a biologically male human being and a biological female human being who are married.
Whereas, it could have been better, if the world encourages marital heterosexual sex but lo and behold, our campaigns, billboards, soaps, protests, etc., focus on same-sex, premarital sex, unbridled and casual sex, abortions, bestiality and all sorts of immoralities.
But in all these, God in the Scripture commanded us to abstain from all forms of sexual immoralities as the only form of sex He approved of is sex between a biologically male human being and a biological female human being who are married.
So God created man in his own image; he created him in the image of God; he created them male and female… The man was intimate with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain. She said, “I have had a male child with the Lord’s help.”
Genesis 1:27, 4:1
But before we discussed how to abstain, let us understand these four facts.
Four facts about No Sex till Marriage Relationship.
1. We abstain from Premarital sex not because one’s partner says so, we don’t want pregnancy or are afraid of venerable diseases but because we want to GLORIFY AND WORSHIP GOD.
2. It is 100% possible to do No Sex till Marriage relationship in this sex-crazed world. I repeat, it’s highly possible. My significant other and I did it and didn’t regret doing it.
‘For nothing will be impossible with God.’
Luke 1:37
3. Forget social media noise, many people are abstaining – you won’t be the first to do it and neither will you be the last. Many more will do it.
4. You lose nothing by abstaining from Premarital sex and gain many things by abstaining.
Now, to our discussion.
How to have No Sex till Marriage Relationship.
1. Praying:
we live in a world that is in so much loved with sex. You see sex and it’s related stuff everywhere, even the church is not spared but prayers can help safeguard you from all temptations.
“Therefore, you should pray like this: Our Father in heaven, your name be honored as holy.
And do not bring us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.
Matthew 6:9,13
2.Have fear of God:
That He meant well when He told you to abstain and that He has your best interest at heart for giving the command.
No discipline seems enjoyable at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.
Hebrews 12:11
3. Guard what you see, hear and read:
Unless, you want to deceive yourself, you can’t be listening to shedibalabala,touch my bum bum, lemme touch your bress music, videos and articles up and down and expect to keep yourself. How then do you guard yourself? Start away from any sex inducing acts, blogs, environment, situations, etc., Any appreance of evils should be done with.
Guard your heart above all else, for it is the source of life.
Proverbs 4:23
4. Replace negativity with positivity:
As you are shunning negativity, make you replace it positive habits like Bible reading, reading edifying books, watching motivational videos and blogs, being busy, attending church services, volunteering, etc.
All these activities will naturally make you think less of sex.
Let the thief no longer steal. Instead, he is to do honest work with his own hands, so that he has something to share with anyone in need.
Ephesians 4:28
5.Be busy:
As a normal human being, you will fell horny but productive busyiness can de-stress horniness. Once you notice that you body is beginning to act as a human being, take a walk around the neighborhood, mop the floor, write your thoughts, take a book and read, visit your friends and family, go to church, go on evagelism, pray, sing, etc.
6.Don’t tempt Satan:
Lead us not into temptations is better than deliver us from evils. Most of us are deceiving ourselves.
You said you want to do abstainance but you pack to your boyfriend’s house, Is he wood?
Uncle, shebi na you tell us say you wan keep yourself, why the kissing and plate licking?
Tempting Satan is sleeping overnight in your fiance’s abode and saying that nothing will happen, many things will happen.
Tempting Satan is always staying indoors with opposite sex .
Tempting Satan is doing foreplays like passionate kissing, smooching, licking, carousing, blowjob and thinking sex won’t happen, you will be highly playing with fire. You can mock God, what a man sow, he will reap.
Don’t be deceived: God is not mocked. For whatever a person sows he will also reap.
Galatians 6:7
7. Be determined like Lion:
That come what may this No Sex before Marriage will be done by me through the help of Holy Spirit.
The wicked flee when no one is pursuing them, but the righteous are as bold as a lion.
Proverbs 28:1
8. Double date:
Don’t be surprised that I say you should double date. Before you castigate me, check the meaning of double Dating first.
Having two partners simultaneously is not double Dating, it’s called unfaithfulness. Double dating means going on a date with other courting couples.
This double Dating (or even triple dating) of a thing will serve as a charepon for you and your intending spouse. The caveat here, double date with couples who are also No sex before marriage practitioners.
With all these steps, I believe a child of God can escape the sexual filthiness of the world.
Thanks for reading and staying sexually pure.
Unless otherwise stated, all Scripture quotes from Christian Standard Bible (CSB).
Available in March to celebrate 3 years off blogging.
Let’s start with this true story of mine. It happened in November 2020.
Her: Master Joel, do you like 🥰🥰🥰 lady.
Me: Yes, I do, ma.
Her: As in very ❤️❤️❤️?
Me: I am sure I like them like that 😄😃
That was a phone convo with a former colleague of mine recommending her very beautiful friend of hers for me for a relationship that can lead to marriage.
For brevity sake, the recommended lady and I met and talked but relationship didn’t materialize between us.
Seeing/finding my wife under mango tree is the best feeling in the world.
This year also, a senior friend recommended another godly lady to me who eventually became my wife.
What am I striking at? Somebody’s child will find you but do you know somebody child knows somebody’s child that should find but you are unfindable because of your attitudes.
Somebody’s child has a good friend that can marry but he knows your stubbornness can kill another woman’s child.
Somebody’s kid has a godly sister that can make a good wife but she knows that your eye no dey stay one place.
Somebody’s pikin want to recommend one of his/her for you but they are afraid that you may rub their faces in the mud through your behaviors.
Dear, somebody’s child had somebody’s daughter/son for you that he/she think may find you but are you findable?
It is becoming ever-increasingly difficult nowadays to live a sexually pure life in this sexually crazed and saturated world. A world that has sexualized everything from music to a common 100 naira soap.
Even the church of God is not spared. Nowadays, we now use barely clad ladies as ushers to welcome visitors.
Watch out for this book to celebrate the world sexual purity day.
We are being bombarded daily with sexual scenes and near-sexual scenes on our streets, social media, television, workplaces and pathetically in fellowships but the word of God still stands that we must be pure in our sexual lives before and after marriage.
First, we should know that to stay pure in this generation is possible. It is possible to marry as a virgin if you are determined to be. It is possible to remain untouched – no kissing, smoothing, no masturbation and no foreplay before the wedding if you will rely on the grace of God to hold you. Why? Because God will never lack those who are willing and ready to sacrificially serve Him in all generations.
He can’t lack Josephs who are willing to say, ‘ how can I do this thing and sin against God,’ and are ready to abandon their ‘clothes’ to flee.
He can’t lack the Joshuas who have determined to serve God even if He and his family are the only and affirmatively He won’t lack the 7000 men who have never kissed or bowed down to Baal in every generation.
Do you care to join the leagues of Josephs, Joshuas and the 7000 men, are you?
Now, how can you tread this path joyfully? One, TRUST GOD and His judgments, laws and guidelines that they are for your benefit. God did not hate you when He bade you that you should flee fornication. It was because He loves you.
You got to trust the Almighty because He as Omniscient knows far more than you know. He knows that illegal sex can reduce someone life to a mere loaf of bread. He knows that sex can be weaponised to harm. Therefore, trust that God has you completely in His heart. Oh! What a loving father!
Secondly, TRUST THE PROCESS that you won’t regret ever staying sexually pure in this corrupt world. The journey, the decision and the determination will eventually pay you.
The world may look otherwise but you won’t regret opting out of the friendship that is pressurizing you for premarital sex.
Trusting the process also signifies that you are the wise one even though the worldly system may regard you as a fool and the odd one out but remember what is highly esteemed by man is an abomination in the sight of the Lord.
The injunction will save you from avoidable heartbreaks, unwanted pregnancy, unmet expectations, shame, a litany of exes and many avoidable damages to your body, spirit and soul.
You can’t regret standing for and with God.
Thirdly, DON’T TRUST YOURSELF because the power of your arm will fail because by flesh shall no man prevail, the opportunities to sin will always be present and it was your Spirit that got born again, your body, its hormones and your soul do not follow suit.
Don’t trust yourself that you can sleep in the same room with the opposite sex and nothing will happen.
Don’t trust yourself that just because you speak in tongues, you can watch porn and nothing will happen.
Don’t really on your strength that because you are the winner of best choir member of the year, you can’t fall into the sin of immoralities.
Don’t trust that immoralities won’t hurt you because God has been using you. Remember David, Solomon and Samson.
If Judas Iscariot can fall away after performing many miracles, preached to many and received directly from Jesus, then who are you?
Lastly, remember that this battle against immoralities is a battle again imagination, thoughts and actions as preached by unsaved celebrities, wokist, cancel culturists, Bible twisters and haters that raised themselves against the knowledge of God and we all know our weapons are not carnal.
I quite agreed with all what the contributors have said but I will like to add to the cause of marital delays among singles in Nigeria;
Finances: most of those that are ready and willing to marry do not have the financial capacity to do so especially the guys owning to the poor state of our economy. This delayed me for 2 years till I took the bull by the horn this year with an understanding wife.
Assumption: some brothers/sisters may assume that I will get whom to marry after my undergraduate, after NYSC, after I clock 28, etc, not knowing most times it may not be so because most times by the time the general society is also assuming that they have a partner. Hardly, will someone believed that a graduate lady of 28 is singular single whereas they exist.
Confusion: about what is the WILL OF GOD and PURPOSES. Most youths are confused about what is the will of God even though they truly want to marry a will of God. They thought will of God (direction of God, His laws and command, His antecedents and precedents) is only about marriage not knowing that ‘God would surely direct you the same way He would direct you on matters of your life and destiny like during business decisions.’ Now if you abandon Him for a long period, do you think He will answer you when you want to use Him to butter your bread? Even if He speaks, can you recognize His Divine voice? Do you even know His dos and donts concerning Marriage as started in the Bible? Most will just get whatever they wanted and go MIA for God and return when things go south, to go AWOOL when the problem is solved. Do you know some ladies believe God’s will must be a pitiable, ugly poor brother? So when a handsome, rich and educated somebody propose to them, they may reject it. As per purpose, purpose discovery will help someone to know first, who not to marry before who to marry. This will delete the trial and error method of choosing which invariably reduce waiting time. The only solution to this is knowing and doing the will of God and discovering and fulfilling purpose is having a closed and consistent relationship with Yahweh.
Spiritual: this can be from God or Satan. It is God, not satan that shut the womb of Hannah. Why He did that in the first instance, we can not fathom but we do know that at the appropriate and glorious time, God give Hannah, a glorious son who is a national prophet and a kingmaker. For those who are in God’s waiting room, rest and relax, God is probably working on you, your spouse, both of you or some circumstances that will benefit both of you. Spiritual delay can also be caused by Satan using His lies. For those who perceive that they are under Satan siege concerning their Marriage, prayer is the only solution.
Limiting choice: If what you meant by marrying within the organization is marrying within the denomination, I don’t believe that. Christians everywhere belong to one organization – The Church. Many brothers and sisters have limits where (physicalities) they can find Christian spouse to church and choir within their church, denomination, town, profession, etc., only. This can cause a delay if God in his infinite mercy will not allow your permissive will. Let it be known a Christian spouse can be found in your DM, comment section of your timeline or others’ timelines, in the neighbourhood, matchmaker’s cubicle, pew, office, seminars, etc., within or without your church, town, profession and denomination. God knows the best spouse for you and where best to meet him/her.
Culture: Nigeria for instance, an average Hausa guy or lady, irrespective of religion, is not planning to marry late. Starting from 18 upwards, they are preparing for marriage (not talking about forced/child Marriages here) whereas an average Igbo guy usually tends to marry late because he knows the amount of bride price he has to pay on his wife. Most Yorubas will go for the mid-20s for ladies and early 30s for guys.
Welcome to 21st century where everything Godly and moral is questioned whereas everything ungodly and immoral is celebrated.
We live in a world where morality has been casted aside to embrace immorality.
This is the endtime where many have heaped teachers for themselves to tell them what they wanted to hear and not what God had said.
This is the century where God’s standard on sex, marriage, food, relationship, money and all other facets of life have been set aside for what Hollywood, society, politician and Linda Ikejis of this world are saying but no matter what God standard is sure having this seal that whosoever call on God, should shun all forms of unrighteousness.
WHAT IS IT ABOUT GOD’S STANDARD?
God’s standard teaches us three things:
1. God will never bring anyone into your life to sin with.
He had never, He will never and He can never bring a partner-in-sining. So know for a fact that that man/woman you are fornicating with, stealing with or sinning with it,is not brought by God rather he/she was brought into your life by your fleshy desires not God.
2. God’s standard is our banner.
Jesus is our role model so any role model who can’t be found in Christ and His word is a devil agent masquerading as agent of light.
That role model may be popular.
He may be role model to millions.
She may have millions followers on Facebook and Twitter.
They may be getting awards and endorsements from corporate organisations but once what they are preaching is against what Bible taught such celebrity or entity is not a role model.
3. God’s standard is settled both on earth and in heaven.
God has said what He knows that’s right and what He expects from you.
It is left for you and I to choose once again like Adam and Eve between the Tree of life and Tree of knowledge of good and evil but you must know that if you choose Tree of life you will automatically forfeit access to Tree of knowledge of good and evil and vice-versa.
Society can’t change His will.
Celebrities can’t rewrite His word.
Politicians can’t shift His standard because He is the Self-Existing One.
A Yes for Jesus means a no for Satan and a No for Jesus means automatic Yes to Satan.
WHY YOU SHOULD CHOOSE TO LIVE ON GOD’S STANDARD?
1. God is God
No matter who is the president of your country. No matter who are the policymakers in your country and no matter what society wants. Your president will change or die, policymakers and their policies will be replaced one day and society occupiers is dynamic but God is ever powerful, All-might, Self-sustaining and All-wise, He never sleep nor slumber and there is no shadow of turning with Him.
2. His ways have always been proven to be the best way to go.
His way may be narrow, unpopular and or outdated but that is the only way to go.
That everybody is doing it doesn’t mean it is the right thing to do and that truth is truth no matter how many speaker is speaking it and lie is lie no matter how many speakers it have.
3. On the Judgement day you ain’t answerable to any Linda ikejis, Trumps, Obasanjos of this world.
Prepare to meet your Creator
You are only answerable to your Creator same way they are also answerable to Him. So who will you rather obey and follow? The one that is dependent on God to live or God who is not depending on anyone to be God? Lastly, prepare to meet your Creator. Shalom
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