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  • My eBooks

    My eBooks

    By God’s grace I have been able to put together these body of works together for the benefits of your godly courtship and beyond.

    • The Tearless Courtship – A Christian Guide to Courtship and Dating.*
    • God Doesn’t Want You To Be A Virgin.*
    • Love In Action – 31 Principles For Courtship and Beyond
    • Meet And Marry+
    • 500 Yoruba Names And Their Meanings
    • A-Z of Content Creation*

    You can’t read these books and your Courtship remains boring, unattractive and ungodly and they are available for purchase via Selar and Amazon marketplace

    I repeat, if your Courtship is boring , then you have read any of these titles.

    Thanks.

    *free ebook. +available on pre-order

  • New Book Alert

    New Book Alert

    Love In Colour.

    Since the day, I read an online article titled, Why Christian Sisters Doesn’t Date Church Brothers and one of reasons being that Christian Courtship is boring. I have been restless.

    Christian Courtship is not boring, that I can attest to over and over again, hence the new release, Love In Colour to add fun to your courtship.

    The second query was, how do we not sin and we don’t want boredom. There are thousands and one activities for you and LOML without even nearing sinning.

    One of them is Colouring and here is Love In Colour – A 31-Day Colouring and Devotional for Christian Singles.



    A chapter, a day, a principle that can help you prepare for the glorious journey you guys are preparing for and a laugh to brighten your day

    Now get $3 and a pack of colouring material out of your pocket. Let’s colour your love.

    Release date: Easter Monday.

    Platform: Selar and Amazon.

    Like I always say, I am rooting for your marital success.

  • Love Conquers All: A Reflection on World Cancer Day

    Love Conquers All: A Reflection on World Cancer Day

    World Cancer Day is observed annually on February 4th. It serves as a global initiative to raise awareness about cancer, encourage its prevention, detection, and treatment, and unite individuals and organizations in the fight against this devastating disease.

    On this World Cancer Day, let’s take a moment to reflect on the strength and resilience that love brings, especially in the face of challenges like cancer. As a marriage content creator, I believe that the power of love within a marriage can provide comfort, support, and hope during difficult times.

    In times of illness, couples often find solace in each other’s presence, becoming pillars of strength for one another. It’s a reminder that love is not just about the joyful moments but also about standing united when life throws its toughest battles our way.

    Reflecting on this, the Bible offers wisdom in 1 Corinthians 13:7 (NIV): “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” This verse beautifully encapsulates the essence of love within a marriage, emphasizing the strength that comes from enduring challenges together.

    As we observe World Cancer Day, let’s extend our love and support to those facing this formidable foe. Together, we can be a source of hope and encouragement for those navigating the journey of cancer. Remember, love is a powerful force that can conquer even the most challenging circumstances.

    Wishing everyone strength, hope, and love on this important day.

  • Happy New Year 🇱🇷🇬🇧🇦🇩🇦🇪🇦🇹🇦🇬🇦🇮🇦🇱🇧🇸🇧🇬🇧🇷🇨🇩🇨🇭🇨🇮🇨🇦🇧🇿🇨🇳🇳🇬🇸🇦🇹🇳🇺🇲🇺🇾🇾🇪🇿🇼🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

    Happy New Year 🇱🇷🇬🇧🇦🇩🇦🇪🇦🇹🇦🇬🇦🇮🇦🇱🇧🇸🇧🇬🇧🇷🇨🇩🇨🇭🇨🇮🇨🇦🇧🇿🇨🇳🇳🇬🇸🇦🇹🇳🇺🇲🇺🇾🇾🇪🇿🇼🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

    ENGLISH -This year for me and you is a Year of inevitable turnarounds.

    As we step into the new year, let’s embrace the promise of renewal and hope that comes through our faith. May God’s love guide our paths, granting us strength, peace, and grace. Let’s reflect on His blessings, cherishing the opportunity for spiritual growth in the coming year. Happy New Year!

    Welcome to fortune 2024.

    FRENCH – Cette année, pour vous et moi, est une année de changements inévitables.

    En entrant dans la nouvelle année, embrassons la promesse de renouveau et d’espoir qui découle de notre foi. Que l’amour de Dieu guide nos chemins, nous accordant force, paix et grâce. Réfléchissons à Ses bénédictions, chérissant l’occasion de croissance spirituelle pour l’année à venir. Bonne année !

    Bienvenue à la fortune 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    YORÙBÁ – Ọdún yi fun mi ati rẹ ni ọdun ti ìyípadà ailegbe.
    Bi a ṣi ṣẹ lọ nínú ọdun, jọwọ gba isọdọtun ati ìrètí tí o wàá lati inú ìgbàgbọ. Ki ìfẹ́ Olódùmarè, t’owa sónà, funwa ni ookun, alafia, ati òré ọfẹ. A jékí a ronú nípa ìbùkún Rẹ, ki a sì karamasiki idagba l’ẹmi wa. Ẹ ku ọdun tuntun!

    Káàbọ̀ sí ọdún orire 2024.

    #dadkylexy


    IGBO – Ọdụ a na-ebi na a gị na mụọ na-akọrọ nile.

    N’otu n’otu gaa n’anya ọnwa, ka anyị gosipụtara iwu nke ọbụla na ọnọdụ dị n’ihu anyị. Ka ụbọchị nke Chineke chọrọ anyị n’ala anyị, tinye anyị n’ọkwa, ọdụ, na mmadụ. Ka anyị gosipụtara na ndọdụ nke Chineke, cheta otu-otu ndụ ya, kwesịrị ọnụ ya na-echi anyị. Ọdụ a bụ ọdụ afọ.

    Nnabata anyị na ọdụ afọ 2024.

    #dadkylexy


    HAUSA – Shekarar nan na ce na kai da kai shekarar mai amfani.

    Wakar shekarar tana hira masa tsayawa da kuma damuwa da ke dacewa game da imani. Amma mun tafi ɓangaren shekara saboda kawo mako wa duk wanda ya yabawa, Allah ya taimake masu isar da lafiya, tsakar gida, da kuma kyauta. Mu je kun kawo cewar laifin Shi, mu taya irin wannan sabuwa na samun abin mamaki a shekara mai tsarki. Barka da Shekara Mafiya!

    Karibuni ga wakokin daga shekarar 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    SPANISH – Este año para mí y para ti es un año de inevitables cambios.

    Al adentrarnos en el nuevo año, abracemos la promesa de renovación y esperanza que proviene de nuestra fe. Que el amor de Dios guíe nuestros caminos, otorgándonos fuerza, paz y gracia. Reflexionemos sobre Sus bendiciones, valorando la oportunidad de crecimiento espiritual en el próximo año. ¡Feliz Año Nuevo!

    Bienvenido a la fortuna del 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    PORTUGUESE – Este ano para mim e para ti é um ano de mudanças inevitáveis.

    Ao entrarmos no novo ano, abracemos a promessa de renovação e esperança que vem através da nossa fé. Que o amor de Deus guie nossos caminhos, concedendo-nos força, paz e graça. Vamos refletir sobre Suas bênçãos, valorizando a oportunidade de crescimento espiritual no próximo ano. Feliz Ano Novo!

    Bem-vindo à fortuna de 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    ARABIC
    هذه السنة بالنسبة لي ولك هي سنة لتحولات لا مفر منها.

    عندما نخطو إلى العام الجديد، دعونا نحتضن وعد التجديد والأمل الذي يأتي من خلال إيماننا. ليكن حب الله هاديًا لمساراتنا، ممنحًا لنا القوة والسلام والنعمة. دعونا نتأمل في بركاته، نقدر الفرصة للنمو الروحي في العام القادم. عام جديد سعيد!

    مرحبًا بكم في سنة 2024 المليئة بالتوفيق.

    #dadkylexy

    HINDI – इस साल मेरे लिए और आपके लिए एक परिवर्तनों भरे वर्ष का है।

    नए वर्ष में कदम बढ़ाते हैं, चलिए हम उन नए और आशीर्वादपूर्ण संवाद का स्वागत करें जो हमारे आस्था के माध्यम से आता है। भगवान का प्रेम हमारे मार्ग को मार्गदर्शन करे, हमें बल, शांति, और कृपा प्रदान करे। हमें उसके आशीर्वादों पर विचार करने दे, आने वाले वर्ष में आध्यात्मिक विकास के लिए मौका को मूल्यवान ठहराएं। नया साल मुबारक!

    2024 की भाग्यशाली यात्रा का स्वागत है।

    #dadkylexy

    KOREAN – 올해는 나와 당신에게 피할 수 없는 전환의 해입니다.

    새해에 우리는 믿음을 통한 새로운 시작과 희망을 간직합시다. 하나님의 사랑이 우리 길을 인도하며 힘과 평화, 은혜를 주시기를 바랍니다. 그의 축복을 돌아보며 오는 해에 영적 성장의 기회를 소중히 여기죠. 새해 복 많이 받으세요!

    2024년의 행운을 환영합니다.

    #dadkylexy

    CHINESE (SIMPLIFIED) – 对于我和你来说，今年是不可避免的转折之年。

    迈入新的一年，让我们拥抱通过信仰带来的更新和希望的承诺。愿上帝的爱引导我们的道路，赐予我们力量、平安和恩典。让我们反思祂的祝福，珍惜在即将到来的一年中属灵成长的机会。新年快乐！

    欢迎来到2024年的好运。

    #dadkylexy

    GERMAN – Dieses Jahr ist für mich und dich ein Jahr unausweichlicher Wendepunkte.

    Wenn wir ins neue Jahr eintreten, wollen wir das Versprechen der Erneuerung und Hoffnung umarmen, das durch unseren Glauben kommt. Möge Gottes Liebe unsere Wege leiten und uns Stärke, Frieden und Gnade schenken. Lasst uns Seine Segnungen reflektieren und die Gelegenheit zum spirituellen Wachstum im kommenden Jahr schätzen. Frohes Neues Jahr!

    Willkommen im Glücksjahr 2024.

    #dadkylexy

    SWAHILI – Mwaka huu kwangu na kwako ni Mwaka wa mabadiliko yasiyoweza kuepukika.

    Tunapojitayarisha kuingia mwaka mpya, na tuukaribishe ahadi ya upya na tumaini linalotokana na imani yetu. Mapenzi ya Mungu yatufundishe njia zetu, kutupa nguvu, amani, na neema. Tuzingatie baraka zake, tukithamini fursa ya ukuaji wa kiroho katika mwaka ujao. Heri ya Mwaka Mpya!

    Karibu kwenye utajiri wa 2024.

    #dadkylexy

  • New Channel Alert – You must Read this!

    New Channel Alert – You must Read this!

    NEW CHANNEL ALERT

    Hi, dear
    I hope this meet you well?

    I’m so delighted to announce to you that I just launched my channel on YouTube🥰🙈

    This is a relationship channel where I’d be uploading top notch Relationship ideas every week, ranging from Friendship, Courtship and Dating.

    I’d love you to please subscribe and put on the notification bell just to support me and make sure you engage my videos.

    Here’s the link to my channel👇
    Moments with Jo

    Thank you so much for your support💙
    God bless you.

  • The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 6).

    The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 6).

    A Letter to Goat without a yam and Yam without a goat.

    Dear Goat with a yam and Dear Yam without a goat,

    With upmost joy, I am writing this short epistle to you and I am happy because you are one of the luckiest category on Earth and well as those with goats and yams. Singleness is blissfulness. Enjoy it.

    Now, I will advise you

    • To stay on the farm. It is still the safest place to live and get a goat or yam and even after getting your goat or yam, stay there.
    • Look for your goat/yam on the farm. You will definitely see your specs on the farm.
    • While waiting for the yam, engage in profitable foraging and while waiting for the goat do make yam omelette, porridge, òjòjò†, etc with your life.
    • Continue doing what your Farmer-owner asks of you to do and
    • Let His decision overwrites yours. He alone knows what is fitting and suitable for you.

    If you can do all these, I can confidently say that your singleness will be blissfulness and your engagement will be heavenly.

    Signed

    A former goat without a yam for 8 straight years now with the sweetest yam on this side of heaven.

    † òjòjò is a cake made from grating yam and mixing with condiment and then fry with either palm oil or vegetable oil.

  • The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 5).

    The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 5).

    The Characters of The Farmer-owner.

    It was said in Ancient parchment that the association between the farmer, the goat and the yam is not easily broken and as such each got its uniqueness to differentiate the other from other farmers, goats and yam. Now let’s see the characters of the much talked about Farmer-owner who is both the rearer of the goat and planter of the yam.

    First of all, let me tell you that there are many wannabe farmers out there. Infact, their master is one short ugly guy who was a former labourer in the farm. The Farmer-owner gave him so much power until he thought it in his heart to have a more grander farm than his employer using the Master’s resources.

    He even co-opted lesser labourers into his rebellion.

    This former labourer and his minions do stole from goats, yams, vegetables, flowers, water, etc from the original Farmer-owner’s farm, changed their DNA to RNA – Rebel Now Acting, can even taught them language of the heavenly farm and released them to come and fellowship with the fellow goats and yams. So beware, not all bleating goats and fine yams you came about speaking the language of the farm are actually from the farm.

    Now, the characters of the Farmer-owner are:

    1. The Farmer-owner is ancient. Therefore, He has sure banker experiences on cultivation of goats and yams. You can trust Him to give you the best from his barn and pen.
    2. He has brought many goats to yams and vice versa through diverse means. He even promised in His ancient manual that no goat will lack a yam and vice versa. Rest assured, yours is being prepared.
    3. Furthermore, this Ancient Farmer has a farming manual which he called ancient parchment. In there, you know his dos and donts on how to find a goat, a yam, be a caterer, engage in productive foraging, made yam sauce, relate with other goats and yams and many more things He want to tell you. If you don’t read this parchment, your life may be trial and error.
    4. Also know this and know peace, your Farmer-owner is not a giver of the following to any products from his farm:
    • A goat/yam disturbing you for frying.
    • A goat/yam overuser. A goat that only know how to benefit from yam without being a benefit to yam and vice versa.
    • A hitter and an abuser of grace, gifts, body and words.
    • Community goats and yams.
    • Or any goat/yam behaving contrary to what was written in the Ancient parchment.

    If you supposed goat/yam has those behaviors, then know for sure that it is either s/he is probably drifting from the farm or s/he is originally from former labourer’s farm.

    Don’t mind that he/she joins other goats and yams to jollificate weekly and probably speak the language therein. The stealer of their souls has done that before to falsely accused a real GOAT.

    1. In addition, this Farmer-owner is firstly concerned about finding forages for goats, fertile soils for his yams, bringing goats to yams and yams to goats. So if you are not of his farm, go and meet you father, he too has your specific specs in barn and pen.
    2. Moreover, this awesome Farmer-Owner is not just a farmer. He is a vet doctor, a soil scientist, a rain maker, the rain Himself, a fertilizer, an insecticide, an herbicide and many more things. With you in his farm, your daily nutrients is guaranteed.
    3. Whereas, this Father-farmer will not force any goat or yam on you. He brings the goat or yam that is suitable for you, you do the talking.
    4. Lastly, this Farmer is expecting all his products back after declaring the harvest of his vineyard.
  • The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 4).

    The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 4).

    THE SWEETNESS OF A YAM.

    Goggle image

    As the Worth of the goat is not in the ability to fry so also the sweetness of the yam is not in being fried. If that’s all there to you, you may probably had started spoiling.

    Now, a good yam is not idly waiting for the goat to make an egg omelette with her. She is also making yam pottage with herself with expecting the real goat.

    Then, a responsible yam knows she is not for any goat. There is a specific goat for her specific yam from their Farmer-owner’s farm.

    Moreover, it is only bitter and rotten yams that peel themselves on soso media for likes. A real and worthy yam don’t and won’t.

    In addition, a sweet yam is also o not swayed by sweet bleating from various goats, their pockets or gyms bit she is only interested in who the Father-farmer said is hers.

    Now, ask yourself are you a sweet or rotten yam?

  • The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 3).

    The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 3).

    THE WORTH OF A GOAT.

    Goggle image.

    As far as football is concern, CR7 is my GOAT but I hope you know that CR7 is not all about football, there is philanthropy, business, husband and father’s side to this football GOAT of mine.

    The real worth of a goat is not in the ability to fry yam. If that is all you are planning to do then your goatness has dysentery but the Worth and joy of a goat lies in righteousness, peace and joy of the Holy Spirit.

    A real/potential GOAT doesn’t sleep off during morning devotion as a result of hangover from yesternight UEFA matches. A real goat is a priest of his pen

    Furthermore, the worthiness of a goat is also reflected in this fact that he is not after every yam he sees. He is okay with his given yam because he knows that the insulating material must be kept clean. A real GOAT is a defender of purity.

    …but a GOAT had a Farmer-owner…

    In addition, the joy of being a goat also shows in that while other ewu gambias are playing and kicking their yams about, he is most concerned about how to wash, clean, beautify and make egg sauce with his yam and yam products now or later. A GOAT is a caterer.

    A goat is not on social media arguing on why Bubu is taller than Ashi rather he is actively engaging in one productive foraging in order to prepare a barn for his yam. A real goat is a provider.

    Lastly, I wish to tell you that the goat may or may not have six packs, beard or deep pocket but a GOAT had a Farmer-owner because he is not a lone ranger and he is traceable to a pen.

    May the heavenly Farmer made us a GOAT indeed.

  • The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 2).

    The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 2).

    Image from Goggle.

    For Christian Sisters Only.

    Christian sisters should be sweet yams. Yes, they should. God is the planter and that brother that used to tell you, ‘ you are my honey,’ every blessed morning is the goat and you got to help him to become a G.O.A.T.

    But how? You should know that, although Farmer-Owner which is Yahweh God has brought you to you goat or you have brought you goat to your owner, you must know that you can’t be peel, toasted, roasted, touched anyhow or boiled.

    You can’t. It’s not yet time.

    And I want you to also know that the desire to be eaten, boiled, peel, roasted, grated or even fried is legitimate and God-given but it is not yet an appropriate time. What should be touching you is now word of God, your pillows and or a cup of tea.

    Also, forget not that though the coming G.O.A.T is a Christian, he is also with a God-given instincts to boil and fry. He may speak the languages of angels but he has godly desires in him.

    Furthermore, be aware that not all goats are domesticated goats. Some are mountain goats (wild one), some are wannabes (infact baby antelope looks like goat) while some are ewu gambias* and not all goats have potential to become G.O.A.T. Only the Capra hiscus can survive all weathers and you should know that you own goat many not be in your locale.

    Therefore, you must help him by not seductively peel yourself, park yourself into his barn, for the habit of sleeping in his barn, touch him inappropriately (Yes, you can’t touch him too!) or arouse the goatness in him till appropriate time.

    If you want to be boiled, peel, grated, roasted, touched or even turn to yam cake (òjòjò)* , tell him to come and see the yam caterers to do the required and you too should go and see goat caterers to do the neccesary.

    But a potential GOAT should have self-control? Yes, of course, so a potential Y.A.M should self-control too. Not be any of your efforts, but by the grace of thy Farmer who art in heaven.

    If you can do this, you will be able to Y.A.M i.e. Yes! Am Married and be able to YAHM (Yes! Am Holly Married) before thy Father-Farmer.

    Stay tuned for chapter 3.

  • From Home to Rome

    From Home to Rome

    From Queen to Pope.

    Congratulations to Italy for winning Euro2020.

    Congratulations also to double Euro champions; Jorginho and Emerson. More trophies to lift ahead

    Images from Goal.com Facebook timeline
  • The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 1).

    The Parable of Goat and Yam (Chapter 1).

    For Christian Single Brothers Only.

    You are a Goat. That sister that you used to call every 5AM, I meant the same sister you have shown to mentors, parents, friends and family is the Yam and God is both Goat rearer (Psalms 23:1) and Yam planter (John 15:1).

    Now, the Yam you have brought to God or the one He has brought to you must not be peel, tasted, touched inappropriately, played, fry, boiled, roasted and toasted until it’s appropriately approved because the law said, ‘thou shall not eat until it is appropriate.’

    Before reading on, I wish to tell you that some Yams are sweet yams, some are water yams, some are aerial, Chinese or bitter yam. Some are even yam lookalike but no matter what, you must not eat it.

    … Yam you have brought to God or the one He has brought to you must not be peel, tasted, touched inappropriately, played, fry, boiled, roasted and toasted until it’s appropriately approved

    And I wish to tell you that the desire to eat, peel, touch, boil, toast and roast is God-given and okay but until the acceptable time, no touching.

    Now, if you want to eat, boil, taste your yam, go and see the yam caterers (her parents) and paid and do the neccesary ‘fees’ and ‘rituals.’ You must do the appropriate ritual to be qualified to eat your yam and have it.

    After you have done the required, now you can boil, peep, roast, toast, grate, make egg with you yam but I am advising you don’t ever play your goat.

    After doing the above, then you move from being a goat to being a G.O.A.T.

    Do you understand or I should go depper?

    Stay tuned for part 2 (for Christian Single Sisters Only).

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