Today is Christmas and the end of 2022 Blogmass themed THE LOVE OF CHRIST.
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Today is Christmas and the end of 2022 Blogmass themed THE LOVE OF CHRIST.
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Today is 24th episode of The Love of Christ 2022 Blogmas. Thanks for being here.
I am a gospel music lover and for this year, here are my top 10 songs for Christmas.
Tell me yours in this comment section
Enough is enough!
Enough of breakfast !
Enough of wasting resources, time, and emotions doing relationships that don’t work.
That is why Tearless Courtship was written to teach and guide you on the definition of courtship (but I am sure it is not all those Hollywood definitions), the parties involved, what will Do Christian courtship (for your information, Christian dating is never boring), the 7 donts and dos of courtship and many more.
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Thank you for always having you here. Remember for The Love of Christ, we have 2 days to go for 2022 Blogmas. So see you tomorrow.
Christmas is a holiday that commemorates the birth of Jesus Christ. Jesus is considered by Christians to be the Son of God and the savior of humanity. According to the Christian gospels, Jesus was born to the Virgin Mary in Bethlehem, in the Roman province of Judea, during the reign of King Herod the Great. The gospels of Matthew and Luke in the New Testament provide two accounts of the birth of Jesus. In these accounts, Jesus is born in a stable and is visited by shepherds and wise men, or magi, who bring him gifts. The celebration of Christmas as a holiday commemorating the birth of Jesus likely began in the 4th century, although the exact origins of the holiday are unclear. Christmas is now celebrated by Christians around the world on December 25th, and it is a time of great joy and celebration for many people. It is a time for families to come together, exchange gifts, and remember the important role that Jesus plays in the Christian faith.
From the illustration above, we can deduced that there is no Christmas without Jesus.
Thank you for staying tuned for day 22nd.

Day 20. Day glory. Day of appreciation. 5 more days to go.
Once again, you are welcome to another episode of The Love of Christ 2022 Blogmas.
Now, let me tell a brief story
Thank God it’s a good resemblance.
I remembered my dad waking up early with his old stereo radio as early as 5 am. I swear that I will never do so when I am out of his roof.
Well, I’m out of his roof but guess, Boomplay said no, I resembled him (see pic 1) 😀😀😀 and not just on time just preferred genre. 🤩🤩

We thank God it was a good thing.
Now, I will divide the lessons in this short story into two;
To the singles: know this and know peace, you can’t divorce your future partner from his/her family background. He/she is coming from nowhere. That person that makes your heart beats gbim gbim is coming from a family, a principle, a belief, a culture, and a system.
The famed Emeka Nobis is talking about never using abusive and body-shaming words, e.g., big head, fish leg, etc though jokingly in his house. I bet his kids will grow up banning such words in their vicinity.
Therefore, ask, research, check and pray if she/he is properly loved from where LOML is coming from.
Ask, research, and check if the system, the principle, family, and culture the man is coming from, allow his wife to be another Ngozi Ikonjo oweala.
Research if the system, the principle, the family, and the culture she is coming from allows a man to be God’s creation or beast of burden.
And perhaps, you notice a trendy, principle or belief you noticed in your family, and seek both spiritual and therapeutic solutions.
While I was waking up to play music, I don’t ever remember my dad but unconsciously I was inching towards how he too behaves.
Now, to the parents; please, by all means, create a godly family, a godly principle, godly belief, and a godly culture in your home. A family and a system that your future son/daughter-in-law can thrive, develop and grow in, effortlessly, and called you blessed.
Lastly, what resemblance/traits did you notice you got unconsciously from your parents?
It’s day 17 already. You are welcome. I celebrate you.
The Love of Christ will wax stronger in your heart in Jesus name.
To say the fact, because of apparent commercialization of Christmas by people who deny Jesus, young people tends to be morally loose this period.
But God doesn’t want what can destroy us, either during this festive season or not. He wants an acceptable Christmas from His children.
Going forward, I have put a e-book together that help you to be able to keep yourself pure and chaste during this period even though the people of the world has even sexualized it.
I titled the book PATHWAYS TO SEXUAL PURITY. Available for download through the link below
https://joelalade.home.blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/pathwaytosexualpurity.pdf
Thank you for following God’s will.

Welcome back to our foodfest section on 2022 Blogmas titled The Love of Christ. Thanks you for staying by.
Today let’s prepare another delicacy from Nigeria called Àkàrà. Àkàrà is made from beans.
I love you. See you tomorrow.

I hope you enjoyed the jollof rice prepared yesterday.
That being said, I welcome you to day 14 of 2022 Blogmas titled The Love of Christ.
Today let’s prepare Nigerian delicious Amala and Gbegiri or preferably Amala and Abula ( Abula is Gbegiri plus ewedu).
Amala and Gbegiri are conventional Yoruba food eaten mostly in the Ibadan, Oyo, and Ogbomosho axis of Southwest Nigeria but due to their delicious and nutritional value, this food is now nationally and internationally accepted as the one that brings joy and satisfaction.

Before I went to describe how to prepare this delicious food, lemme confess that this food is my all-time favorite. Two, we have two varieties of Amala; laafun type ( made from cassava) and isu type (made from yam). I will be describing the preparation of the former.
1. Yam flour (yam type)
2. Bean (for making Gbegiri)
3. Ewedu
4. Stew.
5. Potash
6. Salt
7. Seasoning cubes
8. Locust bean
(A) Amala
(i) put desirable water on and let it boil.
(ii) while the water is still boiling, start adding yam flour and stir gently.
(iii) after that, reduce the heat while still stirring until you achieve a uniform texture.
A well-cooked Amala will give you a sticky brownish colour.
(B) Gbegiri.
(i) deshell your bean.
(ii). After deshelling, put the deshelled bean into the pot, and add water and a little potash. Then let it cook until the bean is soft.
Stir occasionally
(Note, do not cover to avoid overflowing)
(iii) when the bean is a soft, sieve. The sieved part that’s liquid is the Gbegiri.
You can discard the remnant from sieving.
(iv) put the liquid on the fire, then add palm oil, salt, and your seasoning cubes to taste.
A well-cooked Gbegiri will give you a yellowish colour.
If you are eating at this stage, enjoy your Amala and Gbegiri plus your stew of assorted meats but for maximum enjoyment, let’s make it Abula (literally, Abula in Yoruba means mixture).
(C) Ewedu
(i) detach jute mallow leaves from its stem.
(ii) after detaching, wash the leaves free from stone and sand.
(iii) put appropriate water plus the locust beans on the fire for 5 minutes.
(iv) put the washed leaves in the pot, thereafter add potash. Let it cook for 15 minutes.
A well-cooked ewedu will give you a greenish colour
Don’t cover.
(v) when it is soft, blend for 1 minute gently.
(vi) after blending, return to the fire, then add seasoning cubes and crayfish and let it cook for 5 minutes.
Now, you have your Ewedu.
Amala plus Gbegiri plus ewedu gives you the best enjoyment in the world.
Enjoy.

You want to marry? You are looking for a Christian partner to marry as it’s supposed to be? And this is Christmas time?
Welcome to day 12 of 2022 Blogmas themed LOVE OF CHRIST. It has been 12th day of talking about Christ and His birth and how to have a godly fun-filled Christmas celebration.

Now, to today’s episode. 15 godly places to check for a suitable partner during this Christmas:
1. Your DM: Sister, go and reply all your online messages. Maybe he is there.
Brother, send that DM today and express your intent to be her future husband. Worse thing that can happen is no.
2. Family Gatherings and Meetings: during this festive period, most families will have their sojourning members at home for Celebration. You or your parents, friend or siblings may got invited to one and who knows what may happen after.
3. Youth fellowship programs: Mama has been disturbing you for grandkid. But how do give her grandkid when you are not even marry? Now, let me tell you a secret, many youth fellowships will organise end of the year programs creating a great opportunity for singles to meet potential spouse.
5. Through your parents: Yes! You read me well! You can actually meet your LOML through your parents, mentors or any spiritual authority over you. Why not go on and ask for their recommendations? Maybe by this time next year, you are happily married.
6. School Reunions: if you are lucky that your alma mater organizes their reunion during this period, why not take some times to attend. You may find your wife or husband there.
7. Ceremonies: I can’t count how many person have met their future spouses by attending ceremonies especially wedding ceremonies. Because many family members will come home for Christmas celebration, most families usually fix their kids’ weddings in December, therefore, there will be plenty wedding invites. Make sure you attend as many as possible and be observant.
8. Sunday School Class/group: yes! That normal Sunday school that you attend weekly. The same one.
That your worded, tongue speaking, gentle cute male Sunday school teacher.
That your sonorous beautiful angelic female Sunday school teacher that tick all your boxes.
Think about this; why is it that sister always sit beside you or have something to say after your brief contribution to the lesson?
9. Your friend: I know you know him from diapers but if you don’t marry your friend who are you trying to marry? Your enemy?
Now, beam your searchlight to that single friend of yours and you will see that everything you have been looking for in sòkòtò is inside the pocket of your sókótó.
Caveat; dear men, God helps you if she says no because that you are gonna lose both her and her friendship but who cares, you said. Men die once.
10. Gym: hit the gym, dude. You may meet him/her there.
You can meet your future partner here or start a friendship with fellow gymnasts which can lead to meeting your partner.
What if I don’t get a spouse? Well, you will get a great body by exercising
11. December retreats: Most congregations organized special Christmas programs in form of conventions, meetings, camping, and retreats, which normally concern all ages and gender cadres.
Winners chapel just finished the Shiloh program.
RCCG just concluded Holy Ghost Congress with let-go-a-fishing coming up on Christmas day.
Deeper Life Bible Church also has one week December retreat.
Nigerian Baptist Convention will be having Baptist Night of Wonders this Friday.
Apart from potentially praying for divine guidance concerning life and choice of spouse, someone’s daughter or son may collect your number and who knows?
12. You may be curious as to where I met my wife. I met her under a mango tree at a particular prayer ground through a particular elder in the Lord.
I want you to add places 13, 14, and 15 in the comment section.
Thanks. See you tomorrow

Welcome to another day of Blogmas themed LOVE OF CHRIST. Like always, I say; thank you for being here and engaging.

Today, I want us to talk about the most neglected set of people in the church – the pastors. Nobody seems to care about their welfare, their families, or their health because we guess they are superheroes. But they are not, Pastors are human like us with struggles, aspirations, yearnings and desires and they are worthy to be celebrated and appreciated.
Why should I appreciate my pastor? After all, his/her salaries are being paid? You should celebrate him/her because God said so. Why? See below:
Let the elders who rule well be counted worthy of double honour, especially those who labour in the word and doctrine. For the Scripture says, “You shall not muzzle an ox while it treads out the grain,” and, “The labourer is worthy of his wages.”
I Timothy 5:17-18 NKJV
Who are the elders in your congregation? The first elder is your pastor(s). Why did God commanded it? Because they laboured over us in words and doctrine. The first honour is the salary, to double the honour, a gift won’t be a bad idea.
Another Bible verse to affirm God’s Word concerning your MoG.
If we have sown spiritual things for you, is it a great thing if we reap your material things? Even so the Lord has commanded that those who preach the gospel should live from the gospel.
I Corinthians 9:11, 14 NKJV
Can you tell me how best and thoughtful to spread the love of Christ if not through gifts to our servants of God?
Having been cleared about gifts for our men of God, listed below are the best, inspiring, thoughtful, perfect, unique and gorgeous gifts for your pastors:
These and many other fantastic gifts are what you can get for your pastor, kids or spouse for the love of Christ.
Finally, thank you for being here. I love you.



Welcome to day 10 of 2022 Blogmas. Thanks for the interaction.

Today, we are going to pray and pray for our family cum Marriage, Relationships and Courtship, shall we?
By the Name, that is, the power of Jesus name and His birth, our prayers are answered in Jesus name.
Prayer points 1 – 13 gotten from Open Heavens Devotional of RCCG, Monday 14th February, 2022.