Those red flags don’t come knocking on your door, they become a very red billboards living with you, eating with you, co-parenting with us, eating food with you, having sex with you, etc.
Now ask yourself, can you live with the red flags for 30+ years and more?
That is why you should let go of him/her if that behaviour of him/her very much irritates you now.
The goal is not to marry a perfect spouse, the goal is to marry a red flag that is manageable, nor abusive and non life-threatening.
May God helps you to discern well in Jesus name.
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