Tag: brotherliness

  • How to Treat you enemy.

    How to Treat you enemy.

    A large number of prayers are being devoted to killing enemies in African churches and you could wonder as to how much resources we earmarked for the destruction of another human being.

    Before we proceed, let established four points.

    1. You don’t have a human enemy.

    Devil is your enemy, influencing unregenerated human beings to hate you. I said unregenerated because you can’t be a Christian and hate someone. Therefore, leave your fellow human beings alone and face Satan.

    Are you going to pray for Satan to die? No! Doing so is wasting precious time and saliva because Satan is a spirit (and spirit doesn’t die). What you should do to Satan is to resist him. After resisting him, stand firm.

    So be subject to God. Resist the devil [stand firm against him], and he will flee from you.
    James 4:7
     Therefore put on God's complete armor, that you may be able to resist and stand your ground on the evil day [of danger], and, having done all [the crisis demands], to stand [firmly in your place].
    Ephesians 6:13.

    2. You will have an enemy.

    There is no how, all the people will like you because you are not ice cream. Even if you are ice cream, some people will just hate you for no reason. Some will hate you for a reason. Even God have enemies and who are the enemies of God, if not the wicked?

    Infact, some people can become your enemy because you are looking for their uplifting and betterment? Human hearts are so deceptive.

    3. Do not be somebody’s enemy.

    People will hate you but you don’t have to pay hate with hate.

    I bet it with you that some people want you to hate them consciously and unconsciously, in words and in deeds. Still don’t hate them.

    Why shouldn’t you hate? One, there is no hatred with God. Even when some people rejected His eternal plan of salvation, still He loves them. Two, since you are God’s ambassador here, it is demanded of you to behave like Him.

    4. God expect you to treat your enemy nicely, dutifully, respectfully and in the manners He treated His own enemies.

    How then do you treat your enemy nicely, dutifully, respectfully and how did God treat His enemies? Thanks to God for not leaving us unguided about dealing with enemies.

    Deal with your enemy thus:

    1. Love for your enemy.

    This command is directly from our Lord Jesus Christ

    You have heard that it was said, You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy; But I tell you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,
    Matthew 5:43 - 44.

    2. Pray for your enemy.

    You don’t only love him/her, you are also expected to love. One God is love and you are His image and Bible enjoins us to bless and curse not.

    3. Feed your enemy.

    Give the person that hates you food, give him clothes and find a way for your hater to sleep (not under the same roof though).

    God feed His own enemies by providing food, sunlight and rain for them and doing so mean you are aiming for God’s reward and be GODLY.

     If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat; and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink; For in doing so, you will heap coals of fire upon his head, and the Lord will reward you.

    Proverbs 25:21


    To show that you are the children of your Father Who is in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the wicked and on the good, and makes the rain fall upon the upright and the wrongdoers [alike]. For he causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.For if you love those who love you, what reward can you have? Do not even the tax collectors do that?
    Matthew 5:45 - 47.

    4. Don’t allow his/her property to ruin if you have the power to prevent the decline.

    If you meet your enemy's ox or his donkey going astray, you shall surely bring it back to him again. If you see the donkey of one who hates you lying [helpless] under his load, you shall refrain from leaving the man to cope with it alone; you shall help him to release the animal. 
    Exodus 23:4 - 5.

    What the passages mean is that

    • If you see a link that can benefit haters, share it.
    • If your enemy’s child comes for your help, render it.
    • If you see danger ahead, notify him/her .
    • Etc.

    This is an instruction, not a suggestion.

    5. Rejoice not about enemy’s downfall

    Why? Because Yahweh hates it.

     Rejoice not when your enemy falls, and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles or is overthrown, lest the Lord see it and it be evil in His eyes and displease Him, and He turn away His wrath from him [to expend it upon you, the worse offender].  Proverbs 24:18 - 19.

    Will it be easy doing all these un-human acts (un-human because a natural man is revenge-certified)? It won’t but doing so means obeying God and that comes with a whole loads of benefits.

    Why should you do it? Do it because in the God’s kingdom, we repay good with evils, bless and don’t curse.

    May God gives us the strength to do as He does in Jesus mighty name.

  • How to have a fantastic Christmas.

    Fair day, my brothers and sisters all over the world.

    Thank you for the likes, comments and the following. I am not taking them lightly.

    Today is Blogmas day 6 and I will be taking about How to have fantastic Christmas.

    How to enjoy the Yuletide.

    These activities are the ones that entrenched brotherliness, complementation, love, giving, joy, patience and over worthy virtues.

    Now, these are 5 fun-loving activities for you Christmas

    1. Worship

    Isn’t Christmas about celebrating Jesus Christ?

    What’s celebration without worship?

    Dear, celebrating Jesus is worshipping Him.

    How do you worship?

    Worship Him by striving to know Him more this season.

    Worship by not forsaking the gathering of the brethren. Nothing is more joyful and fun-filled than being in the presence of God with fellow believers in singing, shouting and merry making.

    Also worship Him by sharing your gifts to the less privileged.

    2. Visitation.

    Yes, visitation.

    This time shouldn’t be about you and your immediate family alone. It is also a period to spread the love and essence of Christmas to those in

    1. Hospital
    2. Prison
    3. Home for Aged.
    4. Long seen friends or family member (s).
    5. Struggling family
    6. Etc.

    I bet it with you, you will enjoy the moment of offering hope, joy, reconcilation and life to someone.

    3. Picnic.

    You have toiled all through the year, isn’t it?

    I bet, it is.

    Why don’t you pack some baskets of foods and fruits with your family to a beach, open lawn, forest camp, backyard, etc., just to relax and de-stress.

    To make it memorable, why can’t you go with another like-minded individuals?

    I assure you, you will enjoy the show.

    4. Family photography.

    Take family photographic album to see how far you have gone.

    See how far you have progressed.

    And after checking through, praise the Lord for both small and big wins.

    Also make sure you visit a studio to take a family picture this Christmas.

    5. Reflect and Pray.

    Think about what Yahweh has done for you this year and pray the prayer of thanksgivings.

    Also commit the incoming year into the Almighty hands.

  • Causes of Marital delays in Nigeria.

    This article was my contribution to Causes of delays to marriage by Christ’s mind tech

    I quite agreed with all what the contributors have said but I will like to add to the cause of marital delays among singles in Nigeria;

    1. Finances: most of those that are ready and willing to marry do not have the financial capacity to do so especially the guys owning to the poor state of our economy. This delayed me for 2 years till I took the bull by the horn this year with an understanding wife.
    2. Assumption: some brothers/sisters may assume that I will get whom to marry after my undergraduate, after NYSC, after I clock 28, etc, not knowing most times it may not be so because most times by the time the general society is also assuming that they have a partner.
      Hardly, will someone believed that a graduate lady of 28 is singular single whereas they exist.
    3. Confusion: about what is the WILL OF GOD and PURPOSES.
      Most youths are confused about what is the will of God even though they truly want to marry a will of God. They thought will of God (direction of God, His laws and command, His antecedents and precedents) is only about marriage not knowing that ‘God would surely direct you the same way He would direct you on matters of your life and destiny like during business decisions.’ Now if you abandon Him for a long period, do you think He will answer you when you want to use Him to butter your bread? Even if He speaks, can you recognize His Divine voice? Do you even know His dos and donts concerning Marriage as started in the Bible?
      Most will just get whatever they wanted and go MIA for God and return when things go south, to go AWOOL when the problem is solved. Do you know some ladies believe God’s will must be a pitiable, ugly poor brother? So when a handsome, rich and educated somebody propose to them, they may reject it. As per purpose, purpose discovery will help someone to know first, who not to marry before who to marry. This will delete the trial and error method of choosing which invariably reduce waiting time. The only solution to this is knowing and doing the will of God and discovering and fulfilling purpose is having a closed and consistent relationship with Yahweh.
    4. Spiritual: this can be from God or Satan.
      It is God, not satan that shut the womb of Hannah. Why He did that in the first instance, we can not fathom but we do know that at the appropriate and glorious time, God give Hannah, a glorious son who is a national prophet and a kingmaker. For those who are in God’s waiting room, rest and relax, God is probably working on you, your spouse, both of you or some circumstances that will benefit both of you.
      Spiritual delay can also be caused by Satan using His lies. For those who perceive that they are under Satan siege concerning their Marriage, prayer is the only solution.
    5. Limiting choice: If what you meant by marrying within the organization is marrying within the denomination, I don’t believe that. Christians everywhere belong to one organization – The Church.
      Many brothers and sisters have limits where (physicalities) they can find Christian spouse to church and choir within their church, denomination, town, profession, etc., only. This can cause a delay if God in his infinite mercy will not allow your permissive will.
      Let it be known a Christian spouse can be found in your DM, comment section of your timeline or others’ timelines, in the neighbourhood, matchmaker’s cubicle, pew, office, seminars, etc., within or without your church, town, profession and denomination. God knows the best spouse for you and where best to meet him/her.
    6. Culture: Nigeria for instance, an average Hausa guy or lady, irrespective of religion, is not planning to marry late. Starting from 18 upwards, they are preparing for marriage (not talking about forced/child Marriages here) whereas an average Igbo guy usually tends to marry late because he knows the amount of bride price he has to pay on his wife. Most Yorubas will go for the mid-20s for ladies and early 30s for guys.
  • STOP KILLING YOUR KIDS!

    I’m angry. Very livid about the attitude of some of us.

    You are a killer! Yes I say you are a killer and God is going to judge your for using your child to fulfill your own failed dreams. Are you her? Is she you? Are you talented and gifted the same way?

    I am angry about one bad behavior by modern parents of rushing their children through school into emergency adulthood by enrolling them very early (probably by age 1) and helping them to skip classes along the ways chiefly because such kid is performing brilliantly in his/her academics.

    Many people have suggested the causes; Nigerian government unstable education policies, private schools owners, parents, society, etc., but the chiefest culprit are parents especially mothers because they want to do BRAGGING in church and their age grade groups that their kids finished University at 18 not knowing the damages they are inflicting on those kids.

    One thing parents should know is that that your kid skipped and he/she is still performing well in school doesn’t mean he/she is emotionally and morally okay.

    And rushing your kids through life is stealing their childhood away from them. Live and let your child live peaceably!

    Furthermore, that it’s not showing physically doesn’t mean damages are not being done to those rushed kids. It will show sonner or latter, morally and emotionally. What is the essence of having academically sound but emotionally and morally bankrupt individuals?

    Thirdly, there is no single advantage in rushing your child through pre-tertiary schools. I left my mates at primary 4 then to go J.S.1 skipping primary 5 to do so. Despite that, I am not richer, more educated or famous than those I left behind then. Infact one of them is my ward councillor now.

  • Appreciation post.

    Appreciation post.

    Recently I crossed 1k views here courtesy of you, my followers, visitors and readers from all over the world.

    Official recognition from WordPress Inc.

    You make it possible. You made it real and I thank you for being part of this move.

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    Gratitude once again.

  • Fathers Also Deserve Gifting.

    ‘Honour your father and mother that it may go well for you, ‘ is a biblical instruction.

    Fathers’ day is a week to come and honouring fathers is a good idea, be it biological or spiritual or even fathers-in-law. They are our first examples, guardians, caretakers, correctors and husbands of our mummies. So therefore, they deserve a gift from us.

    Now, let’s establish this fact; most times, your dad isn’t expecting anything from you because he can afford it but you and I owned them everything we can afford now that we are ‘working’ and when they can’t work again. Why? Because they deserve it and two, ain’t they not human being like us again? Haven’t your dad sacrifice for you? Can we now share our little with them?

    Furthermore, you can get any of these for your dad:

    1. Obedience. You are still his child.

    2. Visitations

    3. Perfumes/ Body sprays.

    4. Rechargeable torchlight.

    5. Ties.

    6. A couple of Cufflinks.

    7. Wines

    8. Polo shirts/ shorts/ sewn clothes.

    9. Wristwatches.

    10. Shaving kits

    11. Beloved club jersey.

    12. Favorite Artiste’s CDs ( maybe old albums that you knew he does enjoy while you are growing up).

    13. Writing materials.

    14. Travel kits.

    15. Finance a night out with long time buddies.

    16. Recharge cards.

    17. Recreations kits.

    18. MP3 player.

    19. Cinema outings.

    20. Sponsor honeymoon that includes his wife.

    These and many more befitting gifts is meriting of your dad and any other man you called dad. Recollect that most of these dads can afford those stuff comfortably but you are giving it because you love your dad.

    To make it a waoh moment, plan it with your sibling and his wife.

  • SINGLENESS IS BAE


    The emphasis is non-partnered singleness i.e no boyfriend/
    girlfriend.

    I was for 8 good years.

    Singleness is a time of waiting and praying not rusting and being non-partnered single has a lot of advantages, the chief being total freedom and two, who told you those with a partner are happy being with one?
    Listed below are 21 activities doable while waiting for the dream guy/bae:

    1. Achieve purpose.
    2. Earn money.
    3. Your the world.
    4. Begin a blog
    5. Write a book.
    6. Make new friends.
    7. Network up and down.
    8. Give/collect phone numbers of many to boost WhatsApp status views.
    9. Begin the desired trade.
    10. Acquire a new skill.
    11. Further your education.
    12. Consume good food.
    13. Volunteer.
    14. Organize a Facebook group.
    15. Start a podcast.
    16. Join new department in church.
    17. join a new group.
    18. Earn plenty of money.
    19. Fulfil purpose
    20. Be happy.
    21. If any bae/boo is unserious with his/her good boo/bae, snatch it.
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