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  • 5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Have Nudes on Your Phone.

    5 Reasons You Shouldn’t Have Nudes on Your Phone.

    To start with, a reasonable person will never have his/her nudes or any other person’s, on their devices, let alone sending them to someone. Let alone that such a reasonable person is a Christian.

    Number one, no man who loves you will ask for nudes.


    Call him any names – husband, boyfriend, teacher, pastor, et cetera. No man who claims he loves you will demand such.

    If he wants to see your nakedness, let him go and pay your bride price and then come home to behold the real thing.

    Secondly, nothing is safe on your phone. It could be hacked, stolen, lost, or found in the hands of despicable ones. Imagine you, a so-called Queen or King, dancing nakedly in the market square. God forbids.

    Thirdly, some sins and mistakes have the potential to permanently destroy your destiny and God’s plan for your life. One of such is the subject matter. See, if you are NFA (No future ambition), you can register on OnlyFans and blow away your destiny, but if you know for sure you have something to offer your generation, don’t dare.

    Another reason is that the internet never forgets. The Internet never forgives. Why create shame and reproach for your generation?

    And lastly, Christians don’t have nudes on their phones.

    Christians don’t request nudes.

    Christians don’t send nudes.

    For we have been redeemed at a price,  so we have to glorify our bodies with Christ.

    Thanks for reading, and make sure you share, comment and like this.

  • How being Kyle XY Father deepen My faith.

    Some bible verse won’t make much sense to you till you are in the heat of it – practicing it.

    One of such verse is Jesus’ saying ‘… Except you become like one of these children, you cannot entered the kingdom of God.’

    Now, being a father to Kyle XY makes me fully grasp the importance of that saying.

    First, kids copy-cat a lot. Anything his mum and I do, he will definitely want to repeat it.

    Put a bottle on a cabinet, he will try to remove it and repeat the process.

    Sweep a portion of the kitchen, he will go and take the broom and want to do his.

    He just want to do what we do.

    This taught me a vital lesson to dutifully follow in Christ’s footsteps as my boy does with us.

    Moreover, on the flip side, Kyle XY knows the next step after a particular house chore.

    Once, his mum brings out broom, he will go for the dustpan.

    If it’s pot, he goes for pot.

    Water on the floor. Dragging mopping stick with us is the next thing.

    Talk about being in tune with God is doing and saying per season. That’s

    The third way my faith was better for it because I’m a father is the aspect of total trust.

    When we are with him, he will playfully move to the bed edge wanting to jump but when he is alone, he won’t dare.  Why? Because he knows for a fact that we won’t let him hurt himself.

    He may want to play with electrical socket but we won’t allow that.

    He may want to do hurting things to himself but he trusts us not to leave him to them.

    I may want to self ruin but I trust my God. He won’t allow that.

    Furthermore, if my boy needs anything, his first ask is from us, his parents. Talk about dependence because we are duty bound to provide for his needs.

    Brother and sister, God is more than enough to be depended on because he cares for you more than we can care for our son.

    Another one is love of discipline. If he was disciplined some hours ago, that does mean he won’t come to ask for his needs or play with us as his parents.

    No sulking. No disownment. No unforgiveness. Nothing comes in between our relationship because of corrections. And we apologized to our 1½ years old son if we are in the wrong.

    No wonder, Bible says, ‘ My son, do not reject your Father’s correction. For the son the Father loves, He disciplines,’ and ‘Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ…’

     As my son is eternally assured of my love so I am of, of our Heavenly Father.

    Lastly, that Bible’s portion that says, ‘worry not.’ The only category obeying that command are kids.

    They are less concerned with US elections, inflation, prices of prescription drugs, immigration, etc. That’s our worries.

    My boy knows I will take care of him. So, zero worries.

    I now leave God to do the worries for me while I enjoy his cares.

    Isn’t all these attributes God is expecting from a Heaven seeker?

    Lastly, How has fatherhood/motherhood better your faith?

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  • Fatherhood; Make it counts (2).

    Fatherhood; Make it counts (2).

    Yesterday, I wrote about enjoying the childhood stage and documentation of their childhood in a bid to make fatherhood a worthwhile adventure.

    At three decades of living, I have never seen a train before except in movies and on TVs and the first time I saw at a plane live was in 2022 going for my friend’s wedding ceremony at Ilorin, Kwara State.

    Why because we don’t have a train station and airport in my place. To see both, you got to travel to nearby state or go the state capital.

    Thank God I know about those things and many other like that through reading.

    Introduce you kids to right ideology, things and places early.

    Introduce them to where kings dine.

    Introduce them to profitable discussions are the order of the day.

    Introduce them to technology early in life.

    Introduce them to queenly behaviours

    Introduce them to what will positively benefits them.

    By Traveling. Yes! Plan travels into their holidays.

    Introduce to them good things of life.

    Introduce them to people from different places.

    Why? So that they will not use ordinary piece of pizza get in between your girl’s legs and that your son will not join secret cult because of smart TV.

    Thank for reading. Please like, share and comment.

  • Fatherhood; Make it Count.

    Fatherhood; Make it Count.

    Good morning. How you have a good night rest.

    I was discussing with a friend who is a nursing mother last December and opined and I quite agreed with her that, ‘ baby growth is both scary and teary.’

    Why did she say that and why did I agree? Because, in the space of 6 months, we have seen our boys and girls grow and develop, dropping our character or the other and displaying another one – both funny, not-so-funny, good and bad, bumbling and sick, in a jiffy.

    And I won’t deceive you, they will still overgrow their present stages but as a father (or mother) you can make it memorable for you and baby by doing the following:

    • Play with them. Laugh with them because a baby smile can disarm the formidable USA Army 😀😀😀. I can bet it with you that the smile won’t come every time you are with him/her, but each time you are opportune to have one, you will enjoy it and trust me, it doesn’t last 😭😭😭
    • Document his/her milestones. Be it crying, naming, baptismal, crawling, first step, starting school, family visits, grandma’s backing, play moments, one achievement or the other, etc. Take as many pictures and videos as possible – not necessarily for social media posting but for you to see the growth and development and be happy that you are in the lives of your kids and two, to preserve their childhood for them*

    If you can take them two steps, baby fatherhood can be enjoyable for you.

    Thanks for reading.

    *make sure you backup your videos and photos to Google Drive/photo to safeguard it.

  • Help, I am depressed!

    Help, I am depressed!

    This is tales of a Nursing Dad 8.

    I think most of us men don’t talk about what will pass through during our wives’ pregnancies.


    First of all, ladies, it’s not easy to impregnate you, guys. If e easy, go do am by yourself now 😀😀😀😀😀


    I could remember when my wife told me that she is pregnant with our boy Kyle-XY. From when she told me, my hearts and my mind was up.


    It’s like they put a mountain before me at that particular point in time.


    I couldn’t sleep very well again.


    I was always thinking, praying and hoping that God should deliver my wife safely.


    It came to a particular time, I was nearly into depression because, one, I couldn’t explain what’s happening to my wife and two, should she be in pain I don’t know what to do.


    Why? because this is a journey that can only be undertaken by one with the support of others.


    What I’m trying to say is that It is not only the women that carry the pregnancy, we men, also carried the pregnancy.


    We carry the pregnancy in our mind.


    We carried it in our thoughts.


    We carried pregnancy in our prayers.


    We carry pregnancy in our pockets.


    In fact the last time I slept 8 hours nonstop was a year ago; before my wife announced that she’s with our boy.


    I am by no means undermining the many sacrifices of our mothers but I am by means amplifying the sacrifices of we the fathers, too.


    Moreover the husband of a pregnant woman is between heaven and earth, thinking of how his wife will came back home safely with their bouncing baby in her hands.


    Furthermore, on the delivery day, you as the father of an expectant baby you’re busy running up and down just to make sure that your baby is healthy and alive and your wife is also hale.


    These also involve danger likes taking bikes all around, going up and down, spending money, insults from in-laws, snipe remarks from most Nigerian nurses. Are all these not fatherly sacrifice for pregnancy?


    Therefore I celebrate myself as the father of the most beautiful Boy in the world, Kyle-XY.


    I celebrate my father too.


    I celebrate all the expectant fathers who are doing their jobs excellently.


    I also celebrate all the mothers for the sacrifice of giving us those who will bear our names.


    May God bless everyone of us in Jesus name Amen

  • October Challenge Day 3 – Post a pic of you last month.

    October Challenge Day 3 – Post a pic of you last month.

    Here are some of my pics from last month.

    Father-Son morning session.
    Another one.
    Handsome boys

    Where are yours?

    #dadkylexy #Octoberchallenge

  • #GratitudeChallenge – Family Is Everything

    #GratitudeChallenge – Family Is Everything

    First of all, I wish to appreciate you for celebrating my mother-in-law yesterday for her birthday.

    Today I am grateful for my family – my father, mother and my siblings.

    Think about this axiom; GirlfriEND, BoyfriEND, FriEND but FamILY which mean I Love You.

    I bless the name of the Lord that I have parents who show me the way of Lord, in deeds and in words because I can say it adequately I learnt Bible from home.

    I will also not fail to appreciate the Most High for the opportunity of having siblings. My brothers and sisters are truly brethen.

    Always supporting and always praying.

    Thank you Jesus for my wonderful family.

    Thank You over my father.

    Thank You over my mum.

    Thank You over Rachel.

    Thank You concerning John.

    All glory be to Your name over Florence.

    All adorations be unto Your majesty over Oluwatosin.

    Thanks that Your testimony over Erioluwa is sancrosant.

    GirlfriEND, BoyfriEND, FriEND butFamILY which mean I Love You.

    I worship Your Holy Name. Hallelujah

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