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  • Tales of a Nursing Dad – 8.

    Tales of a Nursing Dad – 8.

    ARE YOU THE ONLY ONE TO BE PREGNANT THAT YOU SALIVATING?

    Welcome to another episode of #TalesofANursingDad.

    Let me tell you a story. The person who defines fear as fake expectations appearing real deserve two cups of garium sulphate😄😄

    Before I got married, one thing I feared and prayed against most is my wife probably spitting saliva when pregnant and having unwholesome cravings.

    I knew pregnancy symptoms different in different women. I have also seen pregnant women who drool (some even with a bottle they spit in in their bags 😔).

    The sights of those saliva bottles and handkerchiefs were so disgusting and irritable to me.

    I can’t just stand the sight of it.

    But lo and behold, mummy Kyle-XY never drool for a minute though out the gestation period and no unholy desires. 😍😍😍

    See, your fears are legit but they are not real.

    They are fake expectations appearing real.

    Most of your fears won’t happen. Many of them are unrealistic.

    Therefore, marry first before being afraid of what your family will eat.

    Travel first before you complained of accidents.

    Record and upload that videos, then worry about views.

    Write that book and then worry about buyers.

    Most of your fears are fake expectations and even if they eventually happened, you can withstand them.

    Even if mummy Kyle-XY demanded Red Sea crocodile pepper soup, shey I get a choice not to provide for her ni?

    Had she drolled, shey I go run away ni?

    May God empowers us to be courageous to take the next step in Jesus’ name.

    What are your fears about marriage ?

  • How I Wedded With $34.

    To A ready man. Hear my true life story.

    If you are a man with a stable job (you go out and come home daily with an assurance of money whether daily, weekly, or monthly), a faithful fiancee with an equally stable job and desire by both to marry but you are afraid, hear my story.

    Two days, after saying yes to me, my wife suggested that we should married in 3 months time, which coincidentally is our birth month and some days shy of our birth dates.

    I laughed. Because as of then, I don’t think I have a thousand naira in savings and the only tangible property I got was my techno pop 4. So where I am going to get money for a wedding talk less of marriage? My fear was not even the wedding because I can’t clothe, feed and house my wife and kids with I love you. I can’t.

    But something dropped in my mind – here is a lady who is ready to combine resources, doesn’t want to waste my time, and is a spec, why delay when God has prospered my way?

    I obliged with my fiancee now wife and by the grace of God and the help of our parents, siblings, mentors, and friends, we were legally wedded on the purposed and proposed date. Hallelujah.

    Have I gotten more money since then? Not yet a millionaire but all my fears then were non-existent. It is not as bad as I anticipated. We are not there yet but at least we are not where we are then.

    In this small journey, we have recorded many successes.

    Olòrun nbo àsírí effortlessly.

    The two of us have never been broke together. I still blame myself for marrying ‘late’ 😄😄

    Therefore be inspired by my story and the stories of many other married men out there, go and plan your wedding. Just make sure you no do pass yourself. I believed strongly you won’t regret it.

    Because even if you gather all the monies this year, inflation still dey next year.

    Thanks for attending my Ted talk and I look forward to seeing your IV.

    Don’t forget to preorder Meet and Marry here

    #christiandatingandcourtshioadvice #christiancourtship

  • Day 10 – My fear.

    Day 10 – My fear.

    Everybody has a phobia. Something he/she is afraid of.

    Some are afraid of losing their spouses either by way of heartbreak 💔, divorce 😠 or even death 😭.

    Some are afraid of losing their job, career opportunities, etc.

    What of possibilities of falling health, drunk driver, loneliness, accident and many unforseen circumstances.

    Today, share your fear with your partner. The fear may even be the fear of losing him/her or the fear of how your Relationship might look like in the nearest possible time.

    Don’t be afraid, just say your mind.

    Rather should you panic or ask accusingly. This moment of asking is not to confirm whether you are right and your partner is wrong or vice versa. It is a time to clear all confusion.

    Meanwhile, ask your partner, his/her fear too. Maybe for two of you, it may be False Experience Appearing Real. Two, perfect love casts out fear for God has not given us the spirit of fear but of sound mind.

    That’s all I have for you today on day 10 of #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge. Make sure you comment, like and follow me.

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