Three things are beyong me… And the way of a man with a young woman. Proverbs 30:18 -19.
– Do you want a GODLY, DECENT AND RESPONSIBLE man? You, yourself be godly, decent, responsible. Like attracts like and ant will go only where honey is. ( Matthew 6:2, Numbers 27:1-7).
– Pray against time-wasters. Pray for anointing for godly attraction – some brothers did not need you, they may just want to add you to their list of ex’s. (Exodus 31: 6).
– Dress decently, if you dress seductively, brothers may take you as prostitute and just anybody can ‘ask’ you out.
– Be friendly to all, that brother is finding about you.
– Know the WILL OF GOD personally. All sort of brothers will approaches you – matured and baby brothers alike. ( 1 Thessalonians 4:13a).
– Don’t be swipe off your feet with ‘thou saith the Lord’, ‘the Lord says that you must be my wife’,’in my dream …’, money, speech eloquence. ( 1 Corinthians 2:1).
– If you receive him first, and he seems slow in coming. First, send green signals like special respect than the brothers in the fellowship, support him etc, since men are attracted by sight and sometimes by sound.
If he still don’t get, approach him and bare your mind. Some guys are extremely timid.
– If he has not come, wait… maybe God is removing lies, bragging, fornication, drunkness from him or your man is preparing for your arrival.
– Wooing/toasting is not a sin, if a brother comes. Thank him, don’t disrespect him. Say NO politely like ‘thank you for what you have said, but it is not possible because of so-so-so reasons and can we be friend. After that DEFINE AND SET LIMITS TO FRIENDSHIP.
– Only give one of these answers YES or NO. Don’t sit on the fence because it belongs to the devil – mark cahill. (Matthew 5:37).
– If you know that he is the favoured one (after prayerfully thinking about his manifesto). Please don’t delay your YES unnecessary. Give it between 3 days and a month.
– Be, act, talk, cry, walk, eat infact do everything as a woman. (Genesis 2:23d).
– Be beautiful, if you are not as beautiful as Racheal, be fine as Leah. Serah, Zipporah, Mary, Elizabeth were all beautiful and godly. ( Genesis 29 vs 17).
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