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  • Witness 2 – Holy Spirit

    Witness 2 – Holy Spirit

    The story of the birth of Jesus Christ is a cornerstone of Christian faith, intricately woven with the divine presence of the Holy Spirit. As we reflect on this sacred event, there are profound lessons for Christians to draw inspiration from.

    1. Divine Intervention:

    The conception of Jesus was not a result of human endeavor alone, but a miraculous intervention by the Holy Spirit. This emphasizes the importance of surrendering to divine guidance in our lives, trusting that God’s plans surpass our understanding.

    Bible Verse: “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy—the Son of God.” – Luke 1:35

    2. Humility and Obedience:

    Mary’s humble acceptance of the angel Gabriel’s message showcases the virtue of humility and obedience. As Christians, we are called to emulate this spirit of submission to God’s will, even when it might seem beyond our comprehension.

    Bible Verse: “And Mary said, ‘Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word.’” – Luke 1:38

    3. Embracing the Unexpected:

    Mary and Joseph faced unexpected circumstances, yet they embraced their roles in God’s plan. This teaches Christians to remain open to unexpected turns in life, trusting that God can use even the most challenging situations for His purpose.

    Bible Verse: “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.” – Isaiah 55:8

    4. Guidance in Times of Uncertainty:

    The Holy Spirit guided Joseph in a dream, providing clarity in a time of uncertainty. This serves as a reminder for Christians to seek spiritual discernment and trust the guidance of the Holy Spirit during challenging moments in our own lives.

    Bible Verse: “But as he considered these things, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, ‘Joseph, son of David, do not fear to take Mary as your wife, for that which is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.’” – Matthew 1:20

    5. Joyful Witness:

    The arrival of Jesus brought joy to the world. Christians are called to be witnesses of this joy, sharing the transformative power of Christ’s love with others and radiating positivity in a world that often yearns for hope.

    Bible Verse: “And the angel said to them, ‘Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.’” – Luke 2:10

    6. God With Us:

    The name “Emmanuel,” meaning “God with us,” encapsulates the essence of Christ’s birth. This truth remains a source of comfort for Christians, reminding us that God is present in every aspect of our lives, offering solace in times of joy and trials.

    Bible Verse: “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Emmanuel (which means, God with us).” – Matthew 1:23

    In conclusion, the story of the Holy Spirit’s role in the birth of Jesus Christ is a testament to the divine plan of redemption. As Christians, let us draw inspiration from the humility, obedience, and trust exemplified by Mary and Joseph, while keeping in mind the comforting words of scripture that guide our faith journey. May the lessons from this sacred narrative deepen our relationship with the Holy Spirit and inspire us to live out the teachings of Christ in our daily lives.

  • 8 Lessons from Luke 23:

    8 Lessons from Luke 23:



    1. Resilience in Unjust Accusations

    Despite facing false accusations, Jesus stood with resilience. Embrace inner strength in times of unjust criticism, trusting in your truth.

    Luke 23:2 – “And they began to accuse him, saying, ‘We found this man misleading our nation and forbidding us to give tribute to Caesar, and saying that he himself is Christ, a king.’”



    2. Navigating Betrayal with Grace.

    Judas’ betrayal highlights the pain of broken trust. Learn to navigate betrayal with grace, recognizing that forgiveness can be a source of personal healing.


    Luke 22:48 – “But Jesus said to him, ‘Judas, would you betray the Son of Man with a kiss?’”



    3. Compassion Amidst Cruelty

    Jesus’ compassion during his ordeal teaches us to maintain empathy even in challenging circumstances. Strive to show kindness, even when faced with cruelty.

    Luke 23:34 – “And Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.’ And they cast lots to divide his garments.”



    4. Endurance in the Face of Suffering

    The journey with the cross reveals resilience in suffering. Find strength to endure challenges, understanding that hardships can lead to personal growth.


    Luke 23:26 – “And as they led him away, they seized one Simon of Cyrene, who was coming in from the country, and laid on him the cross, to carry it behind Jesus.”



    5. The Power of Forgiveness

    Jesus forgave even in his pain. Explore the transformative power of forgiveness, recognizing its ability to free the heart from bitterness.


    Luke 23:46 – “Then Jesus, calling out with a loud voice, said, ‘Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!’ And having said this, he breathed his last.”



    6. Grieving with Hope

    Mary’s grief at the foot of the cross illustrates the human experience of loss. Embrace grief with hope, acknowledging that healing can come through the expression of emotions.


    Luke 23:49 – “And all his acquaintances and the women who had followed him from Galilee stood at a distance watching these things.”



    7. Silent Reflection in Death

    The silence surrounding Jesus’ death encourages reflection. Embrace moments of quiet contemplation, recognizing the significance of transitions and embracing the mystery of life.


    Luke 23:46 – “Then Jesus, calling out with a loud voice, said, ‘Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!’ And having said this, he breathed his last.”



    8. Transcending Today’s Emotions

    The emotional depth of Luke 23 resonates across time. Acknowledge that shared human experiences connect us, fostering empathy and understanding in our present-day relationships.


    Luke 23:44 – “It was now about the sixth hour, and there was darkness over the whole land until the ninth hour.”


    In the symphony of Luke 23, we discover invaluable lessons that transcend the boundaries of time. Embrace resilience, compassion, forgiveness, and hope, weaving these lessons into the fabric of your own journey. As we reflect on the Christianity depicted in this chapter, may these lessons guide us toward a more compassionate and understanding existence.

    See you tomorrow for the last episode but remember to share this post, like and comment too.

  • Tales of A Nursing Dad 3

    Tales of A Nursing Dad 3

    Topic 3 – I was depressed because everyone thinks I am a tree.

    After six and a half months, we lost our first baby prematurely.

    To be candid, I was happy that soonest I am going to be a father. I prayed earnestly for her arrival. Prepare like never before. Spend my emotions, and give up my bed space to make it comfortable for my pregnant wife. All in vain.

    I was pained but what pains me most is that most of those who came to sympathize with us left me and offer comforting words to only my wife.

    Their usual salvo when they wanted to start their tirade is, ‘Be a man,’ ‘You have to be there for your wife,’ bla bla blah as if I too don’t need comforting.

    As if I am a wood without emotions.

    As if it wasn’t my baby too.

    As if I didn’t contribute anything to the well-being of my kid.

    Most of them have no encouraging and comforting words for me – a miscarriage father and it makes me sadder.

    Some even insulted my parents but I have forgiven all of them because God has comforted me.

    Conclusively, dear all, if you can’t offer hope and comfort for both, leave them alone.

    P.S: any experience with miscarriage, care to share?

  • 5 Must Do Things during Christmas time.

    5 Must Do Things during Christmas time.

    It’s day 9 already. Welcome to another episode of the 2022 Blogmas themed The love of Christ. I love you.

    Today, let’s discuss 5 spiritual activities for Christians during Christmas and after noel.

    First, we must believe like Mary. Like Mary believed the word of Angel Gabriel about immaculate conception, so we as believers must believe that God specializes in turning impossibilities into possibilities and that all His word is Yes and Amen.

    Mary asked the angel, “How can this be, since I have not been intimate with a man? ” The angel replied to her: “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore, the holy One to be born will be called the Son of God. For nothing will be impossible with God.” “I am the Lord’s slave,” said Mary. “May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel left her.
    Luke 1:34‭-‬35‭, ‬37‭-‬38 HCSB

    Furthermore, we have to trust like Joseph. Common! This guy has probably kept himself, spend on his relationship with Mary, have boasted of her chastity to friends, and probably sent a wedding IV, and here is his fiancee telling him she is pregnant. For who? For Holy Spirit? 🙄🙄🙄 But he trusts God through His angel that the Almighty got his best interest at heart.

    Are we ready to trust God by staying from premarital sex with the knowledge that it was His love that gave us that command?

    Are we ready to follow the Ancient of days injunction about love and submission in our marriage with the background that He adores orderliness?

    Are we going to rely on Him completely knowing that He can’t disappoint?

    So her husband Joseph, being a righteous man, and not wanting to disgrace her publicly, decided to divorce her secretly. But after he had considered these things, an angel of the Lord suddenly appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, don’t be afraid to take Mary as your wife, because what has been conceived in her is by the Holy Spirit. When Joseph got up from sleeping, he did as the Lord’s angel had commanded him. He married her but did not know her intimately until she gave birth to a son. And he named Him Jesus.
    Matthew 1:19‭-‬20‭, ‬24‭-‬25 HCSB

    If Joseph didn’t trust God at that point when it made no sense to do, he would have missed out on parenting the greatest human on earth – Jesus.

    Thirdly, our hope should be like that shepherds out on the filed of work.

    Here is an angel telling them what had never been heard before in human history, yet they rejoiced at the hope of seeing the Saviour of the world.



    In the same region, shepherds were staying out in the fields and keeping watch at night over their flock. Then an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Don’t be afraid, for look, I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people: Today a Savior, who is Messiah the Lord, was born for you in the city of David. When the angels had left them and returned to heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go straight to Bethlehem and see what has happened, which the Lord has made known to us.” They hurried off and found both Mary and Joseph, and the baby who was lying in the feeding trough. After seeing them, they reported the message they were told about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them.
    Luke 2:8‭-‬13‭, ‬15‭-‬18 HCSB.

    Their hope lead to steps and the step taken made them become the first evangelists of the Good News.

    Dear never lose hope in Yahweh. He will never be late.

    We should hope for the restoration of Israel, the rapture of the church, the second coming of our Lord Jesus Christ and Resurrection of the righteous.

    Moreover, seek like the Wise men. Seek who? Seek Jesus like Wise men. To do what? To worship the King of kings

    After Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of King Herod, wise men from the east arrived unexpectedly in Jerusalem, saying, “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews? For we saw His star in the east and have come to worship Him.”
    Matthew 2:1‭-‬2 HCSB

    They obviously don’t need the baby Jesus for any miracles, gifts or what they could get but to bow down and acknowledge His kingship.

    The command is to seek God early in the morning and at night, do not withhold.

    Seek him while He is near.


    In addition, let’s worship Jesus like the angels.

    How do they angels worship The I am that I?

    They worship passionately.

    They worship wholeheartedly.

    They worship by announcing His birth.

    Then an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Don’t be afraid, for look, I proclaim to you good news of great joy that will be for all the people:
    Luke 2:9‭-‬10 HCSB


    They worship Him by declaring His eternal Holiness

    Then, lastly, love like the celebrant Jesus.

    “For God loved the world in this way: He gave His One and Only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life.
    John 3:16 HCS    B

    Make grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with us as we reflect on this. Amen.

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