This post is not for those that court for trial and error. It is for those that have marriage in mind for every courtship they are in.
Prevention is better than cure.
I remembered the first person I officially introduced to my parents which happen to be my last date was subtly disapproved by my parents. Infact by everyone in my family.
Although, I disagreed with them and was adamant that I am gonna marry her until the whole thing crashed. All thanks to my family’s prayers.
What was I driving at? By third month of our relationship, she has known everyone that is to be known as far as my marital choice is concerned plus my stance till the law of natural selection take place.
…introduce him or her early.
Because, I could vividly remembered that I was told to be left alone, that the relationship won’t lead anywhere.
My first date was even instant rejection by her mom from the moment she said, *’mo tigbó, mo tigbà.’
One of the best way to prevent or maximize or detect such future spousal rejection is to introduce him or her early.
Before love deepens,
Before sense is doing you fiam fiam,
Before you see each other pants (which you shouldn’t even see premarital even if they approve). Parental approval is not Marriage ooo.
Before *wu wu not take it, introduce your LOML early to them so that they can do all;
- the disagreement
- agreement
- know your stance
- and for natural law of what will be will be to take its place.
By introducing them early, if they disagreed, you will have some time to convince them or to check next door.
If they agreed with you, you can let the natural law of WWBWB to take effect.
Because it is insane after dating and courting for 2 – 3 years and rejecting many other eligible suitors and boom ,there is rejection!
Think about the time that may likely be wasted before finding another person or convincing family.
Think about the resources and data you both have shared.
Think about the the pains, advantages and disadvantages of rejection, unhappiness and felling of hatred from both parties peradventure you proceed.
I met my wife’s parents within two weeks of our courtship simply because I don’t what to be part of the stats after some years of butterfly in my tummy.
Yours may not be two weeks but I will recommend 3 months so that you will know whether to fire on joyfully or to restrategize.
After being approved and stamped
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