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  • Day 19 – How to make cool Zobo drink

    Day 19 – How to make cool Zobo drink

    Welcome to day 19th of #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge.

    Please if you haven’t practiced any of the tips I have been sharing I urged you to make an habit of day 16, 17 and 18 tips, i.e., studying the word of God together as a family, praying together and eating the flesh and drink the blood of our Lord Jesus Christ.

    Today, let’s me teach you how to make Zobo drink but firstly of all, what is Zobo drink? Zobo drink is a Nigeria natural drink gotten from boiling of hibiscus flower that is best served cold.

    What are the benefits of this drinks:

    1. It can be used as Communion wine. It’s perfectly non-alcoholic.
    2. It contains antioxidants that prevent diseases
    3. Hibiscus leaves help your body to break down food easily and keep your liver on good shape
    4. Hibiscus leaves is an antibacterial which fight different bacterial infection in the body system.
    5. It helps in lowering blood pressure.

    Recipes.

    • Hibiscus leaves
    • Garlic cloves
    • Ginger
    • Pineapple
    • Any sweetener of your choice
    • Water

    Steps.

    • Wash and peel the pineapple, thereafter cut it into small bits in a bowl
    • Wash the hibiscus leaves and put it inside a pot for it to boil
    • Add the pineapple, the ginger and garlic into the boiling leaves then cook for 15 – 20 minutes
    • Strain the juice with the strainer and then add any sweetener of your choice to it
    • Serve it when chilled

    Thanks for trying it out. If you need fresh hibiscus flower, DM Victoria ( the writer of this article) via 0703 233 8012

  • Day 12 – How to Make Tiger nut drink

    Day 12 – How to Make Tiger nut drink

    There is a popular assertion that goes this; family that cook together, stay together bhet (as Nigerians will pronounce but) today, we are not cooking, I want to teach you how to make a TIGER NUT DRINK popularly called Kunnu in Nigeria.

    The Recipe.

    • Tiger nut
    • Coconut
    • Date palm (optional)
    • Honey (optional)
    • Sugar (optional)
    • Spices like ginger, tumeric, etc (optional),
    Upper left – tiger nut, Upper right – coconut, down – date palm (dabino)

    Methods

    1. Soak your tiger nut for 24 hours with a pinch of salt.
    2. Drain and rinse.
    3. Add your drained tiger nut, coconut, date palm (and other things you desire to add) into the blender with 3 cups of water
    4. Operate your blender on high for 1 minute.
    5. Sieve the blended mash.
    6. Enjoy your drink.
    Source: All Nigerian Foods websiteAll Nigerian Foods website

    I know you will what to ask me about the benefits of the wonderful drink. Here are the benefits as listed by All Nigerian Foods on their website:

    1. Tiger nuts contain over 15 different elements and nutrients including fiber, calcium, potassium, Zinc, Iron, and Vitamins. Fiber is good for an easy bowel movement and may help with food digestion and also prevent constipation in kids and adults.

    2. We have used this milk historically to boost libido and increase sperm count. It acts as a natural aphrodisiac.
    It could just be what you need to get back your sweet sex life. 😍😍😍🥰🥰🥰

    3. The most important tiger nut milk benefit is surely the fact that it tastes so good and quenches your thirst.

    4. Certain researchers found out that tiger nut extract could fight some harmful bacteria in the human body.

    Hence, drinking this milk helps your immune system and ultimately helps in establishing a defense against bacteria like E.coli, staphylococcus and Salmonella

    Nota bene; Try it with your partner and while trying it, communicate, discuss, appreciate and tell yourselves sweet nonsense.

    Also note that if you don’t have a refrigerator, please do what you can consume at a go for avoid fermentation.

    Thank for following and commenting.

  • 6 Ways to defend your Spouse.

    6 Ways to defend your Spouse.

    A good spouse should be able to wade off insults, disrepute, disrespect, ruly behaviors and whatnots from his/her spouse. Especially wife from husband’s family.

    But how to defend your spouse? I believe you can defend your spouse even before you are married and these following acts can help us:

    1. TELL THEM NOW.

    Long before I was married, I have told my mom that my own wife won’t be able to be doing olobinrin ile (because of some flaws I observed in the system) and that my wife is my wife, my brother’s wife is his wife (nothing like orogun here ooo).

    My point; if there is any family or tribal tradition that you won’t want your future spouse to take part in, start telling them now. Right before you even brought that LOML.

    2. DON’T EXPOSE YOUR SPOUSE.

    You can’t be telling your family about bad things you fiance(e)/spouse always do than the good that he/she does and expect your people to regard his/her high.

    They are human. You have the same blood. They are supposed to see that no harm harms you. So if you are always telling them bad news about LOML, they will see that person as someone out to destroy their son/daughter which they are bound to resist.

    Tell them about good things about your love or shut up.

    3. PREVENTION IS ALWAYS THAN CURE.

    You know your LOML. His/her likes and dislikes.

    You know your family and everybody there too. Their likes, dislikes and traditions.

    Let’s each party know what is up respectfully.

    While I was in Courtship, anytime I am visiting any of my family with my then girlfriend turned wife, I will tell her what to expect and how to behave there.

    I told my ex when we are visiting my sister not to prove any wife material there, she disobeyed me and wash clothes like kilode🤣🤣🤣🤣.

    Anything that will bring discord between them should be avoidable at all cost.

    4. DON’T DISRESPECT ONE FOR ONE.

    The duties of a mother is distinct from that of a wife.

    That of a sister is also different from that of a wife.

    None should be convoluted for other.

    Therefore, don’t disrespect your family in front or at the back of your wife.

    Don’t disrespect your wife in front or even at the back of family.

    Make sure your spouse respect your family; their likes, dislikes and traditions.

    Make sure also that your family also respect your spouse too; their warts and wattles.

    And that start with respect for everybody.

    5. RESPECT OTHERS SPOUSE TOO.

    You can’t show your brother’s wife pepper and expect yours to give you queen treatment.

    You can’t turn your brother’s wife into your dustbin and expect family members to treat your as golden crown.

    If you want respect for your spouse, respect others people spouse too.

    6. SHOULD IN CASE…

    I know there are some unscrupulous individual who are devil’s advocate in marriage. Should you have that kind of person, tell them you will not take disrepute, disrespect to any party.

    Stand up to any member of your family that you won’t take shits towards your wife. Mean it. Act it.

    Tell your wife you won’t take disrespect from her to your family. Mean it. Stand your ground.

    T for thanks and C for comments.

  • New Video alert – How to have budget-friendly wedding (pt 1)

    Hello, friends.

    I just want to inform you that a new video is available on my YouTube channel titled how to have a budget-friendly wedding.

    Click to watch

    Remember to like and subscribe.

  • #GratitudeChallenge – How I was able to keep myself.

    #GratitudeChallenge – How I was able to keep myself.

    It seems our world is a sex world. We are so craze about it to the extent we made it look like without sex, a human being can’t survive.

    Had it been, what the world promotes is conjugal sex – sex between a biological male and biological female in the exclusive confine of marriage, it would have been better but what they promote is illicit sex, casual sex and perversions.

    Pexels.com

    They have commonalised and commercialized it.

    We are bombarded with sexual scenes on our streets, TVs, smartphones, billboards, books, etc. Even church is not spared.

    … Jehovah Aronilagbara – the Strenghter and Jehovah Olopo ore ofe – the plentiful Grace enabler

    But among all these temptations, I asked God to help me keep myself sexually till my wedding night and He marvellously helped me.

    If not for God, the power failed. Not once and not even thrice but I was prevented from failing and tarnishing the image of Christ in me.

    I called him, Jehovah Aronilagbara – the Strenghter and Jehovah Olopo ore ofe – the plentiful Grace enabler

    Thank you for helping me and my wife to do Your will and that we will continue to do Your will throughout our lives in Jesus name. Amen.

    If God helped my wife and I, He can helped you too and if we can do it, you too can do it.

    I put this ebook titled Paths to Sexual purity documenting what help us and many others. Click on the download icon to download

    Paths to sexual purity.pdfDownload

    Remember if God helped us and still helping, for you too He can and if we did it, you and your partner can do it.

    Today’s task for you: Have you downloaded A-Z of content creation and A TEARLESS COURTSHIP?

  • New video Alert – How to Make Ekuru in one Minute

    New video Alert – How to Make Ekuru in one Minute

    In the midst of appreciating God for all His wondrous works, I decided to teach you how to make Ekuru.

    Actually, Ekuru (a Nigerian food common with the Yoruba) is made with beans and followed the same steps as moin moin making but with a slight difference.

    The steps to be followed in making Ekuru are highlighted in this video. Watch, like, subscribe and comment https://youtu.be/mgt2lwX-qVg.

  • How to fight for your Marriage.

    This article is from YouVersion 7 secrets to an awesome Marriage plan, day 9 under the title No Coasting.

    The apostle Paul hits the nail on the head for us as we wrap up this nine day study. He says in Galatians 6:9, “Let us not weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” In lay terms, hang in there, never give up, and your marriage will thrive. Look at it this way.

    Let’s compare marriage to a long distance race. The truth is that most of us did not prepare well for the race. We just jumped in and someone said go and we went. We did not train. We did not change our habits or behaviors. We just ran. So it is not surprising that not too far into the race some of us were ready to bail out. Others seemed to be hanging in, but they were really struggling. It comes down to this.

    Everyone in the race needs hope. Hope that they can make it the distance. Hope that there are a whole lot of water stations along the route that refresh and energize them. Hope that their spouse is running side by side with them. Hope that their spouse is in it with them to the end. Hope in the truth that they are not running the race alone – God runs with them.

    My prayer for you is that you have an Awesome Marriage. I often say that marriage is not rocket science. The 7 “Secrets” are not difficult. It is living them out day after day that can be difficult. I encourage you to persevere, because one day you will say it was worth it. One day as you look back you can see how far God brought you.

    I wish I could tell you that Nancy and I have always had an Awesome Marriage, but I can’t. We have had some really rough times, and once were at the edge of divorce. In many ways, I am thankful that our marriage took the turns that it did, because otherwise I do not think we would have learned all that God wanted us to learn. Today our marriage is awesome. Here is your final takeaway: No matter where your marriage is today, God can make it awesome. All you have to do is turn it over to Him and walk faithfully each day in the path He sets before you. Take these 7 “Secrets” and let Him change them into steps that will build a marriage that you both will cherish and the world will look at and say, “What is their secret. They have such an awesome marriage.”� Then you can tell them all that God has done.

    Prayer:  Ask God to encourage and guide you as you work with Him to turn the “secrets” into steps.

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  • How God will treat your enemy.

    One day, God send one of His son to one of His disobedient and stubborn son to let go of His sons and daughters from servitude and slavery.

    But the stubborn son won’t let his brothers and sisters be free because he hates them seriously because he was their enemies but God, the Almighty Father have to step in warning this adamant individual to let go of His precious people to go and worship Him.

    When all entreats failed by Moses, God treated the file of Pharaoh, the archenemy of the sons of Isreal by dealing with him directly with strong and might hands.

    My dear you, you don’t need all the amount you are devoting to killing enemy, if you know how your heavenly Father has promised to treat them.

    Infact God purposed allow enemy for some of us because He knows if there is no push or pursuing, you are likely not serving God again.

    Since you now have enemy or even enemies, as a result of some people surrendering themselves to be used by Satan and you not being enemy of anyone, these are some of ways, He promised to deal with antagonists and haters

    1. He will shatter your enemy.

    Lord, your right hand is glorious in power.
    Lord, your right hand shattered the enemy. Exodus 15:6.

    2. He will render their desires over you void and null.

    The enemy said:
    “I will pursue, I will overtake,
    I will divide the spoil.
    My desire will be gratified at their expense.
    I will draw my sword;
    my hand will destroy them.”

    But you blew with your breath,
    and the sea covered them.
    They sank like lead
    in the mighty waters. Exodus 15:9 – 10.

    3. He will drive them out.


    The God of old is your dwelling place,
    and underneath are the everlasting arms.
    He drives out the enemy before you
    and commands, “Destroy!” Deuteronomy 33:27.

    4. They will be afraid of you.

    …and he became even more afraid of David. As a result, Saul was David’s enemy from then on. 1 Samuel 18:29.

    5. There will be Divine rescue.


    He rescued me from my powerful enemy
    and from those who hated me,
    for they were too strong for me. 2 Samuel 22:18.

    6. God will give you rest over them.

    The Lord my God has now given me rest on every side; there is no enemy or crisis. 1 Kings 5:4.

    7. God will strengthen and keep you.

    We set out from the Ahava River on the twelfth day of the first month to go to Jerusalem. We were strengthened by our God, and he kept us from the grasp of the enemy and from ambush along the way. Ezra 8:31.

    8. He promised to silence them.

    From the mouths of infants and nursing babies,
    you have established a stronghold
    on account of your adversaries
    in order to silence the enemy and the avenger. Psalm 8:2.

    9. He will not hand you over to them.

    …and have not handed me over to the enemy.
    You have set my feet in a spacious place. Psalm 31:8.

    10. He will be a refuge to you.

    for you have been a refuge for me,
    a strong tower in the face of the enemy. Psalm 61:3.

    11. Power of the enemy won’t have effect on you.

    Look, I have given you the authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy; nothing at all will harm you. Luke 10:19.

    12. They will befriend you by fire by force.

    When a person’s ways please the Lord,
    he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him. Proverbs 16:7.

    Those are some of the promises of your heavenly Father over your unrelenting adversary.

    What must you now do ?

    Be at peace with everybody, i.e., no enmity with anyone which invariably mean you rejoice with those that are rejoicing and cry with those that are crying.

    May your loving Father deals with all your enemies as He seems good to Him in Jesus name.


    All Scriptural quotations Christian Standard Bible (CSB).

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