To start with, a reasonable person will never have his/her nudes or any other person’s, on their devices, let alone sending them to someone. Let alone that such a reasonable person is a Christian.
Number one, no man who loves you will ask for nudes.
Call him any names – husband, boyfriend, teacher, pastor, et cetera. No man who claims he loves you will demand such.
If he wants to see your nakedness, let him go and pay your bride price and then come home to behold the real thing.
Secondly, nothing is safe on your phone. It could be hacked, stolen, lost, or found in the hands of despicable ones. Imagine you, a so-called Queen or King, dancing nakedly in the market square. God forbids.
Thirdly, some sins and mistakes have the potential to permanently destroy your destiny and God’s plan for your life. One of such is the subject matter. See, if you are NFA (No future ambition), you can register on OnlyFans and blow away your destiny, but if you know for sure you have something to offer your generation, don’t dare.
Another reason is that the internet never forgets. The Internet never forgives. Why create shame and reproach for your generation?
And lastly, Christians don’t have nudes on their phones.
Christians don’t request nudes.
Christians don’t send nudes.
For we have been redeemed at a price, so we have to glorify our bodies with Christ.
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First of all, thank you for celebrating my mum yesterday. She sends regards.
Also welcome to day 25. I am happy having you here and sharing this.
Like I said, this is the last week of the challenge will be focused on relationship. Therefore, let’s dig in
I believed as a woman you are looking for a Godly Man for a husband because I know you love God and love a happy home plus being loved by a good husband.
And who could be a good husband if not a godly man whose delight is in the laws of the Lord.
Now this how to differentiate between a Godly brother and ungodly one;
My sister, he is not godly if he agrees to no-sex-before-marriage with you but he is having it somewhere and or his room is the slaughterhouse for his fornicating friends. Godliness must touch all his relationships.
He is ungodly if he practised abstinence with you then encourages unfaithfulness. His actions must encourages faithfulness and godliness.
He is not godly if he treats you well but very unkind to others, especially those beneath him. He is expected to be kind to you but everyone deserves respect because we are all created in God’s image.
There is no single iota of godliness in him if he is asking for your nudes or pressuring you for sexting and you too won’t have any naked pics of you on your phone if you too are godly.
He has a consistent records of being abusive and not for once seek help, he is ungodly. Godliness must touch his hand and emotions.
But he is nice, is not a sign of godliness. There are nice demons.
Lastly Godliness is far from him if he doesn’t have Jesus as his Lord and Saviour.
That is how to spot a godly man because Godliness with contentment is all encompassing and it must reflect in every area of one’s life.
Marriage is very sweet and it’s for a lifetime. One way to keep it sizzling is by remaining romantic to your spouse every day. In marriage, nobody outgrows romance. When the romance level drops, the fun level in that marriage drops as well. Marriage is primarily about the two spouses, not the children. Therefore have fun; enjoy yourselves.
Marriage is what the two spouses make of it. No marriage can be any sweeter than the husband and the wife in it. Marriage is like a building. And God gave us the exclusive rights to build it to our taste and shape. God doesn’t get in our way with respect to the taste and shape we give to our marriage. Because He is not the one getting married; but you and your spouse. It is generally observed that most Africans are not usually romantic as spouses. Tonight, I would like to advise all spouses in the house to re-write the narratives of their marriages. Don’t be ashamed. Don’t be shy. Make it sweet, fun and enjoyable. Marriage is such a long time to be bored in it. To help us, I have catalogued some love expressions romantic spouses use. I am also using them. Please enjoy (don’t laugh your heart out o). But if you are “Spirit Koko” (that’s more spiritual than the Holy Spirit himself) please just “Waka pass” and don’t say anything. Allow those who know what I am talking about to enjoy the reading.
1. I love you so much, Baby 2. You are the best thing that happened to me 3. You look cute 4. I like your perf (perfume) 5. This meal is so delicious 6. I love you so much, Baby 7. Thank you so much for the gift 8. I like the way you give it to me on the bed 9. You are wild like a cat on the bed 10. You look sexy 11. You look gorgeous 12. I can’t wait to see you 13. I can’t wait to have more of you 14. I like it whenever you are inside of me 15. You were so electrifying last night. 16. I like the way you hit me hard. 17. I miss you so much 18. I love you more 19. I got you some gifts 20. Do you like it? 21. I like those sexy eyes 22. Please give me some more 23. Have a great day, Baby! 24. I will miss you 25. I am the happiest man in the world 26. I can’t stop thinking about you 27. Oh my God, our last dinner out was memorable 28. Welcome, sweetheart! 29. How was your day? 30. Honey, did you have a great day? 31. Baby, the dinner is ready 32. Babe, I made your favorite 33. How much do you love me? 34. Baby, I want you inside of me 35. Please kiss me hard 36. Squeeze my boobs hard 37. Play with my nipples 38. Honey, caress me 39. Let me sit on your laps 40. Please cuddle me
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Topic 1 – Dear Woman, this is why my wife hated me during pregnancy
Welcome to my Blog. Thanks for following, sharing and commenting. I love you all.
Now, this series tagged The Tales of A Nursing Dad (#talesofaNursingDad) is aimed at telling the stories of pregnancy from a man’s perspective using my wife’s pregnancy and our nursing adventures as example. After all, we are nursing for my little jewel, Zoe Mofifólúwa together and it will run for as many series as possible both here, on YouTube and Facebook.
Now, Dear woman, I beg you in the name of the Lord and His mercies, by all means, possible, do this thing called marriage with a godly, kind, and responsible man.
Pregnancy is another reality on its own and it requires the joint efforts of both intending mum and dad to successfully and easily carried it to full term.
Pregnancy changed my wife’s physique. Her legs swell. She was vomiting for 3 months nonstop during the first intake and I can factually tell you that between the first and the second, her body didn’t return to the pre-pregnancy era. It will change yours too therefore you need an understanding man beside you who is assuring you your physicality doesn’t matter. You are carrying his baby.
My wife’s emotion was played with by pregnancy hormones. She will be happy in the morning before evening, the mood has swung to what she can not even explain. My wife was not insulting but let’s just leave what happened during those beautiful periods. Dear sister, hormones will play tricks on you during gestation, you need a good man beside you who knows that what is happening to you is beyond you.
Furthermore, many unpleasant things will happen during pregnancy. Your face may swell. Legs may follow suit. You may vomit throughout. I even heard a lady who coughed for 9 months nonstop. You make become what you can’t describe. You may be happy in the morning, moody in the afternoon, and sad at night or vice versa. Your mental, spiritual, and physical health will not be spared either. What can make the journey easy, comforting, soothing, and worthwhile for you is the presence of a kind and understanding hubby.
Lastly, dear woman, I am repeating myself, marriage is enough stress than doing it with an ungodly man and pregnancy is further stressful than planning to do alone or unkind man.
I hope you hear me well and clearly. Tomorrow is for another day, another tale.
One of the things I don’t joke with as a single (with or without partner) is prayer and one of such prayer is that, God Almighty, wherever my wife is , make it difficult for her to make a future-damaging mistake.
Believe me dear, that prayer was marvelously answered because God actually prevented her from many errors as He prevented me too from future-damaging mistakes.
Why all these stories? The moral is; Your marriage can be protected, preserved, prevented and saved from destiny destroyers, home breakers, potential outlaws that may want to disguise as in-laws, side chicks, sickness and what-have-you before you even have a fiance or fiancee.
You kids can be put under the shadow of the Almighty before you even know who their father or mother will be.
You can settle your partner’s friends, work, your neighbor when married, now before you know them.
You can declare peace, joy, and righteousness into your family now and to shock you you can prevent your partner from making life shattering mistake now like I did for mine.
Here about 20 prayer points from my incoming ebook SECURING YOUR MARRIAGE BEFORE IT BEGINS (A PRAYER GUIDE):
Thank you Jesus for a glorious home, you will give me.
Thank you for my spouse and my in-laws. I glorify Your Name because we will be friends.
Over my children and every stage of their lives, hallowed be thy Name in Jesus Name.
Dear Heavenly Father, I ask in Your might Name that every potential partner that will be coming my way will be a godly man/woman
Mighty Jehovah, in the name of Jesus, go into every stage, period and season of my marriage and take preeminence control before my arrival.
I pronounce my marriage yours in Jesus Name.
I pronounce my partner Yours in Jesus Name.
I declared my children Yours in Jesus Name.
Every resource that I needed to be a responsible spouse, I received it in Jesus Name.
I prayed that my marriage will be a springboard for the spread of the Gospel.
Precious Father, strengthen and guard my marriage against the evil one, his schemes and systems in Jesus Name.
Everybody that will be connected to me through marriage will praised You for the union.
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Oh Lord, let Your visits be a constant in my family
I proclaim peace into my marriage.
My spouse’s siblings will know the Lord in Jesus Name.
Give me/us Your Spirit of wisdom and understanding in Jesus Name.
I cancel every generational debts and curse in Jesus Name.
I demolish every evil family pattern from my marriage in Jesus Name.
Thank You for You shall make my family a double harvest of answered prayers in Jesus Name.
Thank You that everything that has to do with my marriage has been settled in Jesus Name
Thank You for the salvation of spouse and kids
All glory, honour, adoration and blessings be unto Your Precious Name in Jesus Name.
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You want to marry? You are looking for a Christian partner to marry as it’s supposed to be? And this is Christmas time?
Welcome to day 12 of 2022 Blogmas themed LOVE OF CHRIST. It has been 12th day of talking about Christ and His birth and how to have a godly fun-filled Christmas celebration.
Now, to today’s episode. 15 godly places to check for a suitable partner during this Christmas:
1. Your DM: Sister, go and reply all your online messages. Maybe he is there.
Brother, send that DM today and express your intent to be her future husband. Worse thing that can happen is no.
2. Family Gatherings and Meetings: during this festive period, most families will have their sojourning members at home for Celebration. You or your parents, friend or siblings may got invited to one and who knows what may happen after.
3. Youth fellowship programs: Mama has been disturbing you for grandkid. But how do give her grandkid when you are not even marry? Now, let me tell you a secret, many youth fellowships will organise end of the year programs creating a great opportunity for singles to meet potential spouse.
5. Through your parents: Yes! You read me well! You can actually meet your LOML through your parents, mentors or any spiritual authority over you. Why not go on and ask for their recommendations? Maybe by this time next year, you are happily married.
6. School Reunions: if you are lucky that your alma mater organizes their reunion during this period, why not take some times to attend. You may find your wife or husband there.
7. Ceremonies: I can’t count how many person have met their future spouses by attending ceremonies especially wedding ceremonies. Because many family members will come home for Christmas celebration, most families usually fix their kids’ weddings in December, therefore, there will be plenty wedding invites. Make sure you attend as many as possible and be observant.
8. Sunday School Class/group: yes! That normal Sunday school that you attend weekly. The same one.
That your worded, tongue speaking, gentle cute male Sunday school teacher.
That your sonorous beautiful angelic female Sunday school teacher that tick all your boxes.
Think about this; why is it that sister always sit beside you or have something to say after your brief contribution to the lesson?
9. Your friend: I know you know him from diapers but if you don’t marry your friend who are you trying to marry? Your enemy?
Now, beam your searchlight to that single friend of yours and you will see that everything you have been looking for in sòkòtò is inside the pocket of your sókótó.
Caveat; dear men, God helps you if she says no because that you are gonna lose both her and her friendship but who cares, you said. Men die once.
10. Gym: hit the gym, dude. You may meet him/her there.
You can meet your future partner here or start a friendship with fellow gymnasts which can lead to meeting your partner.
What if I don’t get a spouse? Well, you will get a great body by exercising
11. December retreats: Most congregations organized special Christmas programs in form of conventions, meetings, camping, and retreats, which normally concern all ages and gender cadres.
Winners chapel just finished the Shiloh program.
RCCG just concluded Holy Ghost Congress with let-go-a-fishing coming up on Christmas day.
Deeper Life Bible Church also has one week December retreat.
Nigerian Baptist Convention will be having Baptist Night of Wonders this Friday.
Apart from potentially praying for divine guidance concerning life and choice of spouse, someone’s daughter or son may collect your number and who knows?
12. You may be curious as to where I met my wife. I met her under a mango tree at a particular prayer ground through a particular elder in the Lord.
I want you to add places 13, 14, and 15 in the comment section.
A good spouse should be able to wade off insults, disrepute, disrespect, ruly behaviors and whatnots from his/her spouse. Especially wife from husband’s family.
But how to defend your spouse? I believe you can defend your spouse even before you are married and these following acts can help us:
1. TELL THEM NOW.
Long before I was married, I have told my mom that my own wife won’t be able to be doing olobinrin ile (because of some flaws I observed in the system) and that my wife is my wife, my brother’s wife is his wife (nothing like orogun here ooo).
My point; if there is any family or tribal tradition that you won’t want your future spouse to take part in, start telling them now. Right before you even brought that LOML.
2. DON’T EXPOSE YOUR SPOUSE.
You can’t be telling your family about bad things you fiance(e)/spouse always do than the good that he/she does and expect your people to regard his/her high.
They are human. You have the same blood. They are supposed to see that no harm harms you. So if you are always telling them bad news about LOML, they will see that person as someone out to destroy their son/daughter which they are bound to resist.
Tell them about good things about your love or shut up.
3. PREVENTION IS ALWAYS THAN CURE.
You know your LOML. His/her likes and dislikes.
You know your family and everybody there too. Their likes, dislikes and traditions.
Let’s each party know what is up respectfully.
While I was in Courtship, anytime I am visiting any of my family with my then girlfriend turned wife, I will tell her what to expect and how to behave there.
I told my ex when we are visiting my sister not to prove any wife material there, she disobeyed me and wash clothes like kilode🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Anything that will bring discord between them should be avoidable at all cost.
4. DON’T DISRESPECT ONE FOR ONE.
The duties of a mother is distinct from that of a wife.
That of a sister is also different from that of a wife.
None should be convoluted for other.
Therefore, don’t disrespect your family in front or at the back of your wife.
Don’t disrespect your wife in front or even at the back of family.
Make sure your spouse respect your family; their likes, dislikes and traditions.
Make sure also that your family also respect your spouse too; their warts and wattles.
And that start with respect for everybody.
5. RESPECT OTHERS SPOUSE TOO.
You can’t show your brother’s wife pepper and expect yours to give you queen treatment.
You can’t turn your brother’s wife into your dustbin and expect family members to treat your as golden crown.
If you want respect for your spouse, respect others people spouse too.
6. SHOULD IN CASE…
I know there are some unscrupulous individual who are devil’s advocate in marriage. Should you have that kind of person, tell them you will not take disrepute, disrespect to any party.
Stand up to any member of your family that you won’t take shits towards your wife. Mean it. Act it.
Tell your wife you won’t take disrespect from her to your family. Mean it. Stand your ground.
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