Tag: play

  • Fatherhood; Make it Count.

    Fatherhood; Make it Count.

    Good morning. How you have a good night rest.

    I was discussing with a friend who is a nursing mother last December and opined and I quite agreed with her that, ‘ baby growth is both scary and teary.’

    Why did she say that and why did I agree? Because, in the space of 6 months, we have seen our boys and girls grow and develop, dropping our character or the other and displaying another one – both funny, not-so-funny, good and bad, bumbling and sick, in a jiffy.

    And I won’t deceive you, they will still overgrow their present stages but as a father (or mother) you can make it memorable for you and baby by doing the following:

    • Play with them. Laugh with them because a baby smile can disarm the formidable USA Army 😀😀😀. I can bet it with you that the smile won’t come every time you are with him/her, but each time you are opportune to have one, you will enjoy it and trust me, it doesn’t last 😭😭😭
    • Document his/her milestones. Be it crying, naming, baptismal, crawling, first step, starting school, family visits, grandma’s backing, play moments, one achievement or the other, etc. Take as many pictures and videos as possible – not necessarily for social media posting but for you to see the growth and development and be happy that you are in the lives of your kids and two, to preserve their childhood for them*

    If you can take them two steps, baby fatherhood can be enjoyable for you.

    Thanks for reading.

    *make sure you backup your videos and photos to Google Drive/photo to safeguard it.

  • Day 13 – Do

    Day 13 – Do

    What’s time are we? (Please tell me the time in your place right now in the comment section. I am publishing this at exactly 1pm, Nigerian time)

    Welcome back. Right now it is #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge O’ clock.

    How far with spreading complements across 5 different hours yesterday? Hope you did it?

    Today, in order to revive or strengthen your relationship, do chores together with your partner or help your partner in doing chores especially the one he/she hates doing.

    Take the dirty clothes outside to the washing machine.

    Take the trashcan out.

    Go to his/her wardrobe, go and help iron or arrange all those scattered clothes.

    Help her to clean the kitchen.

    Mop the floor together.

    Set the table.

    Mow the lawn.

    Take the kids out.

    Walk the dogs out.

    Go grocery shopping.

    Etc.

    Just do a chore together and have opportunity to communicate, profess love for one another, plan together and pray together while doing chores.

    I love you.

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