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  • 4 Things That Are Not Needed For A Happy Home.

    4 Things That Are Not Needed For A Happy Home.

    When Grey and Tacha were courting. As a lover-in-arm, they used to imagine many beautiful things and scenarios.

    A perfect, never annoying partner!

    Breakfast in bed!

    Cute kids!

    Annual vacation in Hawaii!

    24/7 romance, catch-up, love SMSes

    Infact, their courtship is one of it kind and the love, the care and the attention, are both mutual and obvious, to all and sundry.

    Theirs was a perfect man and woman planning, strategizing, praying and hoping for a perfect ‘happily lived after’ experiences in marriage.

    Who wouldn’t want a good thing? But their imagination soon turned into realities two weeks in marriage when Grey shouted at Tacha.

    Pardon me for a little digress but most singles nowadays is majoring and planning on things that aren’t needed for a happy and bliss home.

    Permit me to say, YOU DON’T NEED A PERFECT SPOUSE TO HAVE A HAPPY HOME. Number one, we are all faulty. By nature, no one is perfect. Therefore, your search will be long and 99.99% fruitless but perhaps, you mistakenly find one, trust me you don’t need to marry such one for you to have a blissful union and you won’t ever have one with him/her.

    Your sure ticket to a godly home is still with an imperfect human being.

    Caveat; imperfection doesn’t mean you should roll up with the ungodly and unbelievers.

    Two, YOU DON’T NEED A PERFECT WEEDING.

    Elaborate wedding parties, floral flower girls, exquisite men in suit, live music band, ambient lighting and hall, etc are all good but with or without all of these, your marriage can still be great, funny and Godly.

    Therefore, prepare for marriage than for wedding and LOVE IN ACTION – 31 PRINCIPLES FOR COURTSHIP AND BEYOND and THE TEARLESS COURTSHIP were written to prepare you for a glorious, easy and happy marital journey, post wedding.

    Furthermore, THERE IS NO PERFECT TIME TO MARRY. You will always have one excuse or the other not to marry.

    Gas prices will always go up. Mortgage will not down. Cost of living will always appreciate and people in capitol don’t allow bothered.

    Time will never be prim and proper for you to marry but once the timing is right and the necessary things have fallen into the right places. Go and marry*

    And lastly, YOU DON’T NEED STRONG PENIS AND TIGHT VAGINA for a happy home.

    Many aspiring couples think sexual enjoyment in marriage is by how long the instruments for it is. What you need for a joyous sexual experiences in marriage is someone with a healthy and faithful private parts.

    An active penis or a tight vagina without the fear of God attached to it, will make you cry, if it didn’t give you STDs.

    Thank you for reading. Comment, share and like.

    *I’m a staunch supporter of early marriage

  • 10 Ways to Show Little Kindness in Your Courtship

    10 Ways to Show Little Kindness in Your Courtship

    Courtship is a special time when you and your partner get to know each other deeply and determine your compatibility and commitment. It is also a time when you can show kindness to each other and to the world. It is also a period when a man or a woman wooes another person with the intention of marriage. Kindness is not only a virtue, but also a powerful way to express your love and appreciation.

    World Little Kindness Day, celebrated on February 16 every year, is a reminder that kindness is what binds us all together. It is also an opportunity to practice and spread kindness in your courtship and beyond. Here are some ideas on how to show kindness in your courtship:

    • SHOWING UP ON TIME: This shows respect and consideration for the other person’s time and schedule. It also demonstrates reliability and trustworthiness.
    • GIVING COMPLIMENTS: This shows appreciation and admiration for the other person’s qualities and achievements. It also boosts their confidence and self-esteem.
    • LISTENING ATTENTIVELY: This shows interest and curiosity in the other person’s thoughts and feelings. It also fosters understanding and empathy.
    • GIVING GIFTS: This shows generosity and thoughtfulness for the other person’s preferences and needs. It also expresses affection and gratitude.
    • BEING SUPPORTIVE: This shows loyalty and commitment to the other person’s goals and challenges. It also provides encouragement and motivation.
    • GREET THEM WARMLY WHEN YOU SEE THEM: This shows that you are happy and excited to be with them. It also creates a positive and welcoming atmosphere for your interaction
    • OFFER TO HELP WITH SOMETHING THEY’RE STRUGGLING WITH: This shows that you care about their well-being and want to ease their burden. It also demonstrates your skills and abilities.
    • PAY THEM A GENUINE COMPLIMENT: This shows that you notice and appreciate their qualities and achievements. It also boosts their confidence and self-esteem.
    • DO SOMETHING NICE FOR THEM, like getting them coffee or tea: This shows that you are thoughtful and attentive to their preferences and needs. It also expresses your affection and gratitude.
    • INVITE THEM TO LUNCH: This shows that you enjoy their company and want to spend more time with them. It also gives you an opportunity to have a deeper conversation and get to know them better.
    • TELL THEM ABOUT AN EVENT OR ARTICLE YOU THINK THEY WOULD ENJOY: This shows that you are interested in their hobbies and passions. It also shows that you pay attention to what they say and remember their likes and dislikes.

    So, this World Kindness Day, why not show some kindness to your partner and to the world? You will not only make them happy, but also yourself. And who knows, you might even start a kindness revolution!

  • What is faith?

    I learned something spectacular today at the Men Missionary Union meeting.

    Lmaaooo 😀😄😀! I have sworn before that I will never attend one till I am 50 (a story for another day sha).

    Back to my story, the theme for the year was taking over territories while today’s topic was faith.

    We defined faith as trusting God to do what is right. Not what we wanted or asked but trusting Him that He will do what is right for us at His right time for His right purpose.

    It struck a chord in me. Trusting God to do what is right.

    Dear friend, I can’t tell you the Almighty will grant everything you asked him but I can assure you, He will do the right thing for you.

    He will bring the right man.

    He will make the right job materialize for you.

    He will provide the right opportunity for your assignment and assistance.

    May the grace of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit abides with us now and forever more. Amen.

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