Tag: trust

  • How being Kyle XY Father deepen My faith.

    Some bible verse won’t make much sense to you till you are in the heat of it – practicing it.

    One of such verse is Jesus’ saying ‘… Except you become like one of these children, you cannot entered the kingdom of God.’

    Now, being a father to Kyle XY makes me fully grasp the importance of that saying.

    First, kids copy-cat a lot. Anything his mum and I do, he will definitely want to repeat it.

    Put a bottle on a cabinet, he will try to remove it and repeat the process.

    Sweep a portion of the kitchen, he will go and take the broom and want to do his.

    He just want to do what we do.

    This taught me a vital lesson to dutifully follow in Christ’s footsteps as my boy does with us.

    Moreover, on the flip side,ย Kyle XY knows the next step after a particular house chore.

    Once, his mum brings out broom, he will go for the dustpan.

    If it’s pot, he goes for pot.

    Water on the floor. Dragging mopping stick with us is the next thing.

    Talk about being in tune with God is doing and saying per season. That’s

    The third way my faith was better for it because I’m a father is the aspect of total trust.

    When we are with him, he will playfully move to the bed edge wanting to jump but when he is alone, he won’t dare.ย  Why? Because he knows for a fact that we won’t let him hurt himself.

    He may want to play with electrical socket but we won’t allow that.

    He may want to do hurting things to himself but he trusts us not to leave him to them.

    I may want to self ruin but I trust my God. He won’t allow that.

    Furthermore, if my boy needs anything, his first ask is from us, his parents. Talk about dependence because we are duty bound to provide for his needs.

    Brother and sister, God is more than enough to be depended on because he cares for you more than we can care for our son.

    Another one is love of discipline. If he was disciplined some hours ago, that does mean he won’t come to ask for his needs or play with us as his parents.

    No sulking. No disownment. No unforgiveness. Nothing comes in between our relationship because of corrections. And we apologized to our 1ยฝ years old son if we are in the wrong.

    No wonder, Bible says, ‘ My son, do not reject your Father’s correction. For the son the Father loves, He disciplines,’ and ‘Nothing can separate us from the love of Christ…’

    ย As my son is eternally assured of my love so I am of, of our Heavenly Father.

    Lastly, that Bible’s portion that says, ‘worry not.’ The only category obeying that command are kids.

    They are less concerned with US elections, inflation, prices of prescription drugs, immigration, etc. That’s our worries.

    My boy knows I will take care of him. So, zero worries.

    I now leave God to do the worries for me while I enjoy his cares.

    Isn’t all these attributes God is expecting from a Heaven seeker?

    Lastly, How has fatherhood/motherhood better your faith?

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  • Should partners check each other phones?

    Should partners check each other phones?


    One of those debates we have on social media that are laughable is this.

    Some women engaged in this silly act because they want to ‘know’ their husbands or fiances.

    Furthermore, some have an axiom that say, men’s phones are onions, the more you look, the more the tears hence some ladies completely abstain from their partner’s phone.

    Dear, if you go about checking your partner’s phone behind his/her in order to gather some info about him/her or you completely abstain because you don’t want to see what may ill your heart, may I tell you that the phone, chats and or the messages are not the problem, your partner, you and the situationship you are calling relationship are the problems and you all have problems.

    You have the problem of trust. Had it been, you won’t be looking for what is not lost.

    There is problem of misplace priority because that is a case of leaving leprosy to treat ringworm.

    You have a problem of communication because reading chats and checking message are not the wisdom routes to knowing your partner. Wetin happened to prayer, observation and communication?

    You have problem of love. If there is one, your phone is the least thing your partner will have access to.

    Therefore leave the phone and go and work on your relationship. Leave the symptoms, go and treat the disease.

    And lastly men’s phones are not onions. If you believed contrarily, you have been lied to.

    #dadkylexy #christiancourtshipanddatingadvices

    Afterthought 1

    By norms, I don’t check my partner’s phone not because I don’t want to see what will ail me but because I trust my wife. Two, my wife’s place of work deals with confidential data of people.

    Afterthought 2:

    Some partner’s phone may not be easily accessible for their partner because of the nature of their works, e.g., bankers, big data company employees, counsellors, pastors, policeman, etc

  • What is faith?

    I learned something spectacular today at the Men Missionary Union meeting.

    Lmaaooo ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ˜€! I have sworn before that I will never attend one till I am 50 (a story for another day sha).

    Back to my story, the theme for the year was taking over territories while today’s topic was faith.

    We defined faith as trusting God to do what is right. Not what we wanted or asked but trusting Him that He will do what is right for us at His right time for His right purpose.

    It struck a chord in me. Trusting God to do what is right.

    Dear friend, I can’t tell you the Almighty will grant everything you asked him but I can assure you, He will do the right thing for you.

    He will bring the right man.

    He will make the right job materialize for you.

    He will provide the right opportunity for your assignment and assistance.

    May the grace of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit abides with us now and forever more. Amen.

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