This month is for clearing and busting bubbles and myths about relationships, marriage and Courtship.
Today, we will puncture the balloon of ‘all what I need for a happy marriage is to marry God’s will’
To start with, in Agricultural practices, we have various farming operations namely; pre-planting, planting, post-planting, harvesting and post-harvesting operations.
The first bubble, how many of us know what is God’s will and how many of us have limited Divine will to marital choice only?
Now, let’s assume all of us know what is God’s perfect plan for us concerning marital choices but do you know that that doesn’t guarantee a happy marriage.
Why? Because marrying assumed God’s will is pre-planting operations; something that must be done before marriage and I hope everyone agrees with me that a good pre-planting operation doesn’t mean that a farm will be good. Other operations must be performed to have a good harvest.
Marrying your God’s ordained spouse is pre-planting operations combing these operations with other operations is what makes a marriage happy.
Such operations like;
- Appreciating your spouse.
- Constant forgiveness
- Affirmative display of love
- Prayers
- Good sex
- Effective communication
- Tolerance
- Etc.
Doing the former while neglecting the latter is what turned a Christian home into an unattended garden which will soon be run over with weeds of malice, stalled communication, bickerings, etc. This is why some Christians are enduring their union. Not because they allegedly mismarry but because they hand off their marriages almost immediately after their wedding.
The second reason why the myth doesn’t work is that even God’s will for your life is still a human being.
And the third reason is; that you have to marry a kind person.
T for thanks and C for the comment.
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