Skip to content

Courtship Forum

Home

Blog

5 Great Things To Do During Christmas.
Welcome to day 8 of 2023 Blogmas themed The Essence of Christmas.

Today we turn to Luke chapter 8 and bring out four great and marvelous things worthy for Christmas.

The first thing is Support for the ministry – either in cash or in kind especially the ministry and minister that has benefit you in one way or the one.

The women in verse 1 – 3 support the ministry of Jesus and the Apostles after receiving their miracles from Him.

During this season, make sure you touch a ministry or minister of God with both your monetary cash and prayer kind, volunteer, etc.

Furthermore, we ought to preach the gospel during this period, i.e., spread the seed, the word.

I know we have been preaching before this time but we should still intensify our efforts because we don’t know which seed has fallen by the roadside, on the rock, among the thorns and on the good land. Maybe the mountainous land of last month has been pulverized by the hammer of the Holy Spirit to a good land or the thorns has been cleared off.

Moreover, Bible commanded us to preach in and our of season.

Thirdly, we should use our light. Why? Enough of being timid of what the Lord has done.

Enough of hiding the good marriages we are enjoyed.

Enough of being afraid of telling sin kills but Jesus saves.

Because “No one, after lighting a lamp, covers it with a basket or puts it under a bed, but puts it on a lampstand so that those who come in may see its light. For nothing is concealed that won’t be revealed, and nothing hidden that won’t be made known and come to light.

Fourthly, we should reach out to brethren who are not of our fold but of the Christ’s fold, heal the sick, cast out demons, rebuke the wind and raise the dead.

In addition, Jesus did so and we should too.

And lastly, we should go back to home, and tell all that God has done for us

Thank for joining. See you tomorrow for chapter 9.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 8, 2023
Unwrapping Life Lessons: A Christmas Reflection on Luke 7
Day 7 of Blogmas themed The Essence of Christmas is upon us. Now let’s open our Bible to Luke chapter 7.

As the Christmas season approaches, our hearts are filled with warmth and anticipation. Beyond the festive decorations and joyous melodies, Christmas carries a deeper significance—one that extends far beyond the materialistic aspects. In this reflective blog post, we delve into the timeless teachings of Like 7 and extract valuable lessons that resonate with the spirit of Christmas.

Lesson 1: The Gift of Compassion
In Like 7, compassion is exemplified through the story of the Good Samaritan. As we exchange gifts and gestures of goodwill during Christmas, let us remember to extend our compassion beyond our familiar circles. Embracing the spirit of the Samaritan, let kindness and empathy guide our actions, fostering a sense of unity and care for those around us.

Lesson 2: Humility and Gratitude
In the account of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector, Like 7 teaches us the importance of humility and gratitude. Christmas serves as a poignant reminder to appreciate the simple joys and express gratitude for the blessings we have. Instead of focusing on self-righteousness, let us approach the season with a humble heart, recognizing the beauty in gratitude.

Lesson 3: Childlike Faith
Christmas holds a special place in the hearts of children, brimming with excitement and wonder. Like 7 encourages us to embrace a childlike faith, free from skepticism and doubt. In the story of Jesus welcoming children, we find the purity of innocence. As we celebrate, let us cultivate a faith that sees the magic and miracles in the world around us.

Lesson 4: Generosity Beyond Gifts
Beyond the exchange of material gifts, Like 7 reminds us of the widow’s offering—a symbol of selfless generosity. This Christmas, let our generosity extend beyond the wrapped presents to acts of kindness, love, and genuine concern for others. A generous heart embodies the true essence of the season.

Lesson 5: Love Your Neighbor
The commandment to “love your neighbor as yourself” echoes through Like 7, emphasizing the importance of community and connection. This Christmas, let us go beyond surface-level interactions and cultivate deeper connections with our neighbors. In doing so, we build a foundation of love and support that echoes the teachings found in this profound scripture.

Conclusion:
As we gather around the Christmas tree and exchange heartfelt greetings, let us not forget the invaluable lessons encapsulated in Like 7. Compassion, humility, childlike faith, generosity, and love for our neighbors are the true gifts that enrich the holiday season. May these lessons guide us in creating a Christmas filled with meaning, purpose, and a deep appreciation for the universal values that unite us all.

As we embrace the timeless teachings of Like 7 this Christmas, let us not merely absorb these lessons intellectually but allow them to shape our actions and attitudes. The true magic of the season lies in the transformative power of love, compassion, and generosity.

This Christmas, let’s make a commitment to live out these lessons in our daily lives. Extend a helping hand to someone in need, express gratitude sincerely, approach challenges with humility, and nurture the childlike wonder within. In doing so, we contribute to creating a Christmas that radiates warmth, kindness, and a shared sense of humanity.

As you navigate through the festivities, consider this your invitation to be an ambassador of the Christmas spirit. Share these lessons with friends and family, encouraging them to join in creating a holiday season that goes beyond the glittering lights and decorations—a season that reflects the true essence of Like 7.

May your Christmas be filled with the joy of giving, the warmth of connection, and the blessings of a heart touched by the timeless teachings of love.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 7, 2023
The Good, The Bad and The Commands.
Welcome to day 6 of 2023 Blogmas. Thank you for staying, liking and sharing.

Remember that our theme for this edition is Essence of Christmas and we are studying from the book of Luke – a chapter, a day.

Today, let’s hear directly from the birthday boy, our Lord Jesus Christ from vs 20‭-‬38 (HCSB)

The Good.

You who are poor are blessed, because the kingdom of God is yours.

You who are now hungry are blessed, because you will be filled.

You who now weep are blessed, because you will laugh.

You are blessed when people hate you, when they exclude you, insult you, and slander your name as evil because of the Son of Man. “Rejoice in that day and leap for joy! Take note — your reward is great in heaven, for this is the way their ancestors used to treat the prophets.

I hope during this we do what will bless us?

The Bad.

But woe to you who are rich, for you have received your comfort.

Woe to you who are now full, for you will be hungry.

Woe to you who are now laughing, for you will mourn and weep.

Woe to you when all people speak well of you, for this is the way their ancestors used to treat the false prophets.

I hope we won’t be greedy, selfish and unsympathetic this season?
- How My wife and I settled our disagreement.
The Command.

Love your enemies.

Do what is good to those who hate you.

Bless those who curse you.

Pray for those who mistreat you.

If anyone hits you on the cheek, offer the other also.

If anyone takes away your coat, don’t hold back your shirt either.

Give to everyone who asks you, and from one who takes your things, don’t ask for them back.

Just as you want others to do for you, do the same for them.

Do what is good, and lend, expecting nothing in return.

Do not judge, and you will not be judged.

Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned.

Forgive, and you will be forgiven.

Give, and it will be given to you.

Be merciful.

Why all these commands? Jesus said, ‘Then your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is gracious to the ungrateful and evil… just as your Father also is merciful.

May God engraced us to do the good, obey the commands and avoid the bad during and after this period in Jesus name. Amen.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 6, 2023
How to Share the Good News.
Welcome to day 5 of Blogmass titled The Essence of Christmas. Let’s go into today’s topic – how to share the good news. We are studying the Gospel according to Dr. Luke and deriving lessons thereof.
- How My wife and I settled our disagreement.
- Trust in the Lord: Your Ultimate Guide to Unshakeable Faith!
Christmas connotes love, isn’t it? What better to show love than to share the love and what better love than sharing the birth, death, resurrection, and ascension of our lord Jesus Christ during this precious season? But how do we go about it?

Firstly, we have to surrender every that we think is ours like Peter and his brother did with their boat (5:1-3, 11, 27-28)

Then we have to listen to Him for in doing so will there be a catch of souls for Him (5 vs 4 – 7).

After then, we have to acknowledge that we ourselves was saved by grace and grace alone so that we will no boast (5:8-9)

When Simon Peter saw this, he fell at Jesus’ knees and said, “Go away from me, because I’m a sinful man, Lord! ”
Luke 5:8 HCSB

Furthermore, we should call others to come and see the savior like Peter and Andrew invited James and John Zebedee to come and the long awaited promised Messiah (5:6, 7, 10)

In addition to that, we should know that Jesus’ encouragement to us in commissioning us for the work of spreading the Gospel in verse 10b

… “Don’t be afraid,” Jesus told Simon. “From now on you will be catching people! ”
Luke 5:10 HCSB

While going on sharing the good news, we should be compassionate because Jesus had compassion on the unclean man. We may meet a chronic sinner on the road, we must not judge but be compassionate towards his/her that God’s desire is he/she comes to the saving knowledge of Christ. Why? Because doing so will proclaim our Lord the more (5 vs 12-16).

Apart from compassionate heart, we should not forget to offer the sinning world the forgiveness of sin and healing from all affliction in Jesus’ name.

Seeing their faith He said, “Friend, your sins are forgiven you.”
Luke 5:20 HCSB

Tell the guilt lady that her sin has been forgiven.

Tell the guy who thinks he has sinned before grace, that forgiving grace is more than enough for him because the Son of Man has authority on earth to forgive sins…” Luke 5:24 HCSB

Where should we go to do this? We should go to from house to house, hideouts, street to street, ceremonies, invites, workplaces, taverns, pub, etc., not to partake in sin or to add more laws to the burden of sin but to offer the newness of life called Grace that Christ offered because ‘…new wine should be put into fresh wineskins.’
Luke 5:38 HCSB

Thank you for staying around. See you tomorrow.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 5, 2023
How to Preserve the Good News.
Welcome to day 4 of our annual Blogmas. This year is themed The Essence of Christmas and we are studying from the book written by Dr. Luke about the life and ministry of Jesus Christ.

Similarly, I want to call the 3rd chapter, The Preservation of Good News.

John the Baptist was in the wilderness, fulfilling his purpose

…God’s word came to John the son of Zechariah in the wilderness. as it is written in the book of the words of the prophet Isaiah: A voice of one crying out in the wilderness: Prepare the way for the Lord; make His paths straight! Every valley will be filled, and every mountain and hill will be made low; the crooked will become straight, the rough ways smooth, and everyone will see the salvation of God.
Luke 3:2‭, ‬4‭-‬6 HCSB

Fun fact 1:
Matthew 1:1ff traces the genealogy of Jesus Christ paternally while Luke 3:23ff traces it maternally.

Now, everybody is coming to him – the religious leaders, the ordinary men, and women, the imperial soldiers, etc but you know what? John tells them the whole truth about God the Father.

He then said to the crowds who came out to be baptized by him, “Brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the coming wrath? Therefore produce fruit consistent with repentance. And don’t start saying to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father,’ for I tell you that God is able to raise up children for Abraham from these stones! Even now the ax is ready to strike the root of the trees! Therefore, every tree that doesn’t produce good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire.”
Luke 3:7‭-‬9 HCSB

What is the truth about Christmas that must be preserved?

The truth is, we must not remove Christ from Christmas. John didn’t remove Jesus from his message to appeal to those coming to him.

We can preserve this Good News by staying with the bible on what is Christmas all about – the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ not the celebration of orgies, immoralities, and worldliness. Sola scriptura.

We can also preserve this Good News by spreading it. Therefore, spread the gospel.

And the last lesson on how to preserve the Good News is by going to all nations, making disciples of them, and baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit because Jesus was baptized at the very start of his public ministry.

When all the people were baptized, Jesus also was baptized..
Luke 3:21 HCSB

May God gives us understanding in Jesus’ name.

Fun fact 2:
Biologically through Mary, Jesus was from the Nathan branch of the David line but legally, through Joseph, he is from the Solomon branch.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 4, 2023
How to Nurture Good News.
Welcome to day 3 of 2023 Blogmas-themed The Essence of Christmas. It’s wonderful seeing you here.

Yesterday, I highlighted the fact about receiving good news and that those who received Good News were all lovers of Yahweh.

Today, still on Luke 2 which I dubbed the Chapter of Great and Good News.

The first great and good news was in verse 7 when Jesus was born

Then she gave birth to her firstborn Son, and she wrapped Him snugly in cloth and laid Him in a feeding trough — because there was no room for them at the lodging place.
Luke 2:7 HCSB

Christmas was inaugurated! Hallelujah.

Christmas was started in an unusual place.

I pray that during this period only great and good news from places you least expected will happen to you in Jesus’ name.

Furthermore, not only was Christmas started but the first Christmas carol song was sung by the angels and the shepherds. What a great joy!

In the same region, shepherds were staying out in the fields and keeping watch at night over their flock. Then an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Don’t be afraid… Suddenly there was a multitude of the heavenly host with the angel, praising God and saying: Glory to God in the highest heaven, and peace on earth to people He favors!
Luke 2:8‭-‬10‭, ‬13‭-‬14 HCSB

Therefore take this moment to sing carols, spiritual songs, hymns and psalms because our Saviour was born.

Moreover, the great and good news did not stop with the first carol, the shepherds proceeded to confirm what the Angel had said. Meaning, spread the gospel. Confirm to someone this noel that Jesus was born for us.

How do we now nurture the good news? Firstly, we should emulate Mary by ‘treasuring up all these things in her heart and meditating on them.’ (Luke 2:19 HCSB)

Two, we should be obedient. Joseph and Mary were obedient to the law of the Lord through Moses concerning first born dedication.

Simon guided by yielding to the Holy Spirit was able to know the Saviour so also Prophetess Anna.

Jesus also was obedient to His parents by obeying them.

Then He went down with them and came to Nazareth and was obedient to them. His mother kept all these things in her heart.
Luke 2:51 HCSB

You know the results? The Angels, the shepherds, Simon, Anna, Joseph and Mary were fill with the joy of the Holy Ghost and Jesus increased in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and with people.
Luke 2:52 HCSB

You want to experience this; obey God and keep His commandments

Thanks for reading. Please make sure you share this post.

See you tomorrow

I pray that during this period only great and good news from places you least expected will happen to you in Jesus’ name.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 3, 2023
How to receive Good News from God
Welcome to the second day of our annual Blogmas. The theme of this year is the Essence of Christmas.

Thank you for journeying with me through the book of the Gospel according to Dr. Luke.

I will call chapter 1, the chapter of Good News because 3 different people received the good news that changed their stories.

The first recipient of this news is Governor Theophilus. He has the privilege of receiving a step-by-step account of the greatest man ever born by a woman – Jesus Christ

It also seemed good to me, since I have carefully investigated everything from the very first, to write to you in an orderly sequence, most honorable Theophilus, so that you may know the certainty of the things about which you have been instructed.
Luke 1:3‭-‬4 (HCSB)

The challenge before you and I is how do you we treat the message of salvation, hope, and love sent to us by Yahweh during this period?

Do we keep it jealously like Theophilus because had he been he has treated it nonchalantly, we might not have had this beautiful account?

Furthermore, the family of Zechariah and Elizabeth received the second good news of the birth of a special son after years of none.

They have given up on birthing but God said no

But the angel said to him: Do not be afraid, Zechariah, because your prayer has been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you will name him John.
Luke 1:13 (HCSB)

My dear, the Almighty has not forgotten you.

Also, this yuletide is a clear indicator that God has not forgotten humanity in that while we are yet sinners, Christ dies for us.

The third recipient is Mary, the mother of our Lord Jesus Christ.

She received the best news ever – the news that her age-stricken cousin Elizabeth has taken in and that she will give birth to the Saviour of the world.

Now listen: You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you will call His name Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give Him the throne of His father David. He will reign over the house of Jacob forever, and His kingdom will have no end.
Luke 1:31‭-‬33 (HCSB)

Dear, you may not give birth to another Jesus but I am prophesying that your life will birth new things in Jesus’ name.

Moreover, what qualities do all the 3 entities have? One thing; they are all lovers of Yahweh.

Theophilus means God’s lover and it was said of Zechariah and Elizabeth that they were ‘both righteous in God’s sight, living without blame according to all the commands and requirements of the Lord.’ and Mary was a humble virgin (Remember God resists the proud)

Do you love God?

If you want to receive good news from God, love God.

See you tomorrow.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 2, 2023
2023 – When A Medical Doctor Meets A Governor In the Bible
It’s another time and season to remind ourselves of the true meaning of Christmas. We do that here through a template called Blogmas (Blog+ Christmas). Thanks for staying for the next 25 days leading to Christmas.

For your information, dear new friends and followers, this edition is the third edition. The first edition was themed Miracle So Extraordinary. The second was tagged The love of Christ while the third edition will be themed, The Essence of Christmas.

Remember we agreed last year that Jesus is the foundation of all Christmas plans and celebrations and that the only way to know this God-Man is by reading the Word – The Bible. Therefore I recommending the book of Luke, a chapter, a day.

For this edition, we are perusing through the book of Dr. Luke for the next 24 days and extract lessons therein. Lessons that will make our worship, Christian service and celebrations, an awesome experience.

Now, who is Luke? Luke is a physician, a companion of Paul, the apostle, and also the writer of Acts of Apostles which is also written to the recipient of the his first book, Governor Theophilus.

In addition, the Gospel according to Saint Luke is one of synoptic gospels, have 24 chapters detailing the humanity of Jesus Christ.

Lastly, I am employing you to journey with me to discover Jesus in the pages of the book written by Dr. Luke. Thanks.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Dec 1, 2023
The Best Christmas Hymn
In anticipation of 2023 annual Blogmas titled The Essence of Christmas. Let’s sing the Magnificent:

My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord, and my spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior, because He has looked with favor on the humble condition of His slave. Surely, from now on all generations will call me blessed, because the Mighty One has done great things for me, and His name is holy. His mercy is from generation to generation on those who fear Him. He has done a mighty deed with His arm; He has scattered the proud because of the thoughts of their hearts; He has toppled the mighty from their thrones and exalted the lowly. He has satisfied the hungry with good things and sent the rich away empty. He has helped His servant Israel, mindful of His mercy, just as He spoke to our ancestors, to Abraham and his descendants forever. And Mary stayed with her about three months; then she returned to her home.
Luke 1:46‭-‬56 HCSB

Hallelujah.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Nov 30, 2023
Happy Thanksgiving.
Happy Thanksgiving.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Nov 23, 2023
What podcasts are you listening to?
What podcasts are you listening to?

Navigating Love: 6 Principles of Christian Courtship
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Nov 18, 2023
10 Practical Tips for Expectant Fathers.
Is your wife pregnant? Is this your first pregnancy? Here are ten practical tips for you as the upcoming father:

1. Understand Your Wife’s Hormonal Changes

During pregnancy, your wife’s hormones may lead to changes in her behavior and demands. It’s important to remember that these changes are due to hormonal fluctuations.

2. Connect with Her Mother.

2. Connect with Her Mother.

Just like the saying, “like mother, like daughter,” holds true in many cases. If your wife is acting differently during her pregnancy, her mother can provide valuable insights and guidance. This is also a time to seek wisdom from experienced women without being overly assertive.

3. Trust the Doctor

Once the pregnancy has been confirmed, it’s essential to follow the medical advice given by her gynecologist. Avoid any unsolicited medical advice or medications. Ensure your wife registers for prenatal care at a government-approved hospital to handle potential complications.

Ignore all well-meaning unsolicited ‘trado-medical’ advices

4. Offer Support:

Pregnancy is a life and death experience and can be challenging, so now is the time to be even closer to your wife. Communicate openly, engage in activities together, serve her, and ask her questions. Respect her wishes if she asks you to stop certain displays of affection.

5. Choose Baby Names Early

Start selecting baby names from the fifth month onwards, and finalize them by the seventh month. Having names ready in advance allows time for prayer and reflection.

Are you confused about beautiful Yoruba Names for your baby? Worry not, I got you by 500 Yoruba Names And Meanings here

6. Prepare for Possible Expenses

Set money aside for any unexpected medical expenses, especially a cesarean section. It’s always better to be prepared, and if you don’t eventually need it, the money still remains yours.

7. Pray! Pray!! And Pray!!!

Pray for your wife’s strength to carry the baby to full term, for a healthy fetus, and for a smooth delivery. Prayer can also help you both during any disagreements or challenges.

8. Read About Newborn Care

Educate yourself by reading a book on newborn care, such as “My Baby and I – A New Mom Guide.”* This can dispel myths and help you feel more confident when your baby arrives.

9. Prepare a Maternity Bag

Ensure you know where the maternity bag is, so you can quickly grab it when your wife’s water breaks.

10. Decide on who is coming for Postnatal Care (Omugwo)

Plan in advance for postnatal care, including who will provide care between the two mothers, the duration of their stay, and stick to your decision.

In conclusion, I pray for a healthy and safe pregnancy and delivery for your wife and baby. Please feel free to check the comment section for more information and resources.
Share this:
Tweet
Print
WhatsApp
Email
Reddit
Share on Tumblr
Telegram
Like Loading…
Nov 16, 2023

←Previous Page

1 … 13 14 15 16 17 … 42

Courtship Forum

Making Christian Courtship fun, enjoyable and holy.

Blog
About
FAQs
Authors

Events
Shop
Patterns
Themes

Twenty Twenty-Five

A WordPress.com Website.

Privacy & Cookies: This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this website, you agree to their use.
To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: Cookie Policy

Subscribe Subscribed
- Courtship Forum
- Already have a WordPress.com account? Log in now.

%d

Design a site like this with WordPress.com