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  • Should partners check each other phones?

    Should partners check each other phones?


    One of those debates we have on social media that are laughable is this.

    Some women engaged in this silly act because they want to ‘know’ their husbands or fiances.

    Furthermore, some have an axiom that say, men’s phones are onions, the more you look, the more the tears hence some ladies completely abstain from their partner’s phone.

    Dear, if you go about checking your partner’s phone behind his/her in order to gather some info about him/her or you completely abstain because you don’t want to see what may ill your heart, may I tell you that the phone, chats and or the messages are not the problem, your partner, you and the situationship you are calling relationship are the problems and you all have problems.

    You have the problem of trust. Had it been, you won’t be looking for what is not lost.

    There is problem of misplace priority because that is a case of leaving leprosy to treat ringworm.

    You have a problem of communication because reading chats and checking message are not the wisdom routes to knowing your partner. Wetin happened to prayer, observation and communication?

    You have problem of love. If there is one, your phone is the least thing your partner will have access to.

    Therefore leave the phone and go and work on your relationship. Leave the symptoms, go and treat the disease.

    And lastly men’s phones are not onions. If you believed contrarily, you have been lied to.

    #dadkylexy #christiancourtshipanddatingadvices

    Afterthought 1

    By norms, I don’t check my partner’s phone not because I don’t want to see what will ail me but because I trust my wife. Two, my wife’s place of work deals with confidential data of people.

    Afterthought 2:

    Some partner’s phone may not be easily accessible for their partner because of the nature of their works, e.g., bankers, big data company employees, counsellors, pastors, policeman, etc

  • Tales of A Nursing Dad 9 – How to Raise A kid Within Your Means.

    Tales of A Nursing Dad 9 – How to Raise A kid Within Your Means.

    The beautiful thing about life is the power of variety and of choice.

    As in a single product may be for the rich as well as for the poor.

    For example, the baby formula in this post was on the high side for many nursing parents but we have many baby formulas in the market that are far cheaper than this one.



    Kyle-XY uses Peak Milk 0 – 12 which goes for 3900 Naira only, and my baby is increasing in stature and knowledge receiving favour in the sight of God and men.

    That’s what our purse can carry now and we are staying within our lane as I am pleading you to do too.

    If SMA is too costly for you, there is Peak Milk and there is also Nutriborn that is cheaper than Peak Milk. Pap is cheaper than all.

    If you can’t afford pampers, go for napkins. Nothing will happen to your baby.

    If you don’t have money to put him in daycare, go and drop him with his grandma or look for a good neighbor ( no be all of them be witch).

    There are good schools for the rich and there equally many good ones for the poor.

    There are thousands of expensive toys for the Rick kids. There are also millions of toys for the not-so-rich.

    Gbogbo atotonu is that raise your child within your means and remember breast milk is still the cheapest, safest and best food for your baby.

    Ire oooo

    What brand are you using for your baby?

    breast milk is still the cheapest, safest and best food for your baby.’

  • October Challenge Day 31 – What I have been working on.

    October Challenge Day 31 – What I have been working on.

    Waoh!!!! 31 good fantastic days down. Thank for all your likes, reads, views, follows.

    You have been amazing for so far! But let me put you into some of the things I have been working with lately purposely for the remaining of this year and the next one.

    First, my scheduled Talk With Me Episode 2 with @tonified that was unable to hold due to unforseen circumstances, will now hold on Sunday 5th November, 2023 by 6pm WAT.

    Also, I will also be living with Damilola, Founder of Praise Foods in December for Third Episode of Talk with Me. We will discussing our preparing your family for Christmas in food matters. Watch out!

    The original BigMary and I are also cooking big things for you. Feminists and plagiarists, make una run for your life ,🏃🏃🏃🏃

    In addition, next year, February I will be launch a new digital book (with plenty bounces) titled HOW TO MEET AND MARRY WITHIN 3 MONTHS. Watch out too!

    You can preorder here on Selar.co via Here or via Amazon through Here

    Furthermore, my annual Blogmas is starting on December and it runs for 25 days.

    This year’s theme is The Essence of Christmas and we are studying from the book of Gospel according to Dr. Luke which has 25 chapters.

    I won’t tell you lies, there are loads of activities slated going forward. All you need is to stay tuned to this page.

    Thanks you for being here but before you go, check the comment section and do accordingly. Loveeeee!

    #dadkylexy #octoberchallenge

  • October Challenge 29 – How to strengthen Your Family through Food – Damilola Àlàó, CEO Praise Foods

    October Challenge 29 – How to strengthen Your Family through Food – Damilola Àlàó, CEO Praise Foods

    A personal story quickly; during courtship, while we were discussing conflict resolutions, we agreed to demarcate how far our anger or reactions will go. One of those demarcations, is that no matter the gravity of our disagreement, family food must not be affected.


    Staying aloof or alone, being angry is permitted, occasional malice can be done for some time but the family cook, must not say she is angry, she will not cook neither should the eater, which is definitely me, should not reject the food.


    One, an healthy food promotes family well-being which drugs and some medication will not be able to, to an extent.

    Remember an adage that says, ‘ Eat your food as you would eat your drug.’


    Also Good foods can be avenue for the family to appreciate the goodness of the Lord over your affairs. After all, Deuteronomy 8:10 says, ‘when you have eaten and are satisfied, Praise The Lord your God for the good He has given you.


    A hungry family can hardly praise the Lord.


    Food also helps to create indelible family moments. Eating at the same time tells you, you are valued. Eating at the same table connotes that you are part of the family system. Eating from the family pot shows that unshakeable love binds us together.


    Tell me, who wouldn’t want a bonded family?


    Fourthly, Family food is a reenactment of Marriage of Lamb. Jesus at the end of age will gather all his family for an unparalleled feast of foods, fruits, and wines. By eating together now, we are simply rehearsing our future endeavors.


    Furthermore, Good family delicacy also boosts the happiness of the family members, as this will in turn, eventually strengthen the cord of the family.


    On addition, through quality food, we are confirming the covenant. Notice why there is always a state banquet after the signing of the treaty? Of course, it’s to reaffirm and establish the covenant.


    Moreover, this boils down to how each family will combine and manage the different classes of foods and what each supplies to the body system.


    The family can have a food time-table/meal plan consisting of all the classes of food according to their availability in their locality. This will save time and money.


    Also the mother of the house should know how to prepare some sweet and healthy delicacies that will make the family to stay sane and mentally okay and there should be once-in-while eat-outs.


    Lastly, we should allow the situation of this country to determine the intake of the food but as a family you can adjust your food time-table. Good food are not costly to made and they are easy to make.

    Thanks for reading. Have a food day


  • October Challenge Day 28 – How to spot a Godly Sister For Marriage.

    October Challenge Day 28 – How to spot a Godly Sister For Marriage.

    Make sure you share this post after reading. It will save your destiny from wreakers of purpose via Marriage.

    You know the Bible talks about a man obtaining favour from the Lord by marriage a good wife in Proverb.

    Furthermore, Bible still say a good wife is from the Lord.

    Therefore, a good wife is from the Lord and He can only give godly ones and I believed you want one for yourself.

    A godly sister is first of all a Christian. A believer in the Lordship and Saviourship of our Lord and Saviour. Any acclaimed godliness asides that, is a filthy one and an affront on the Lord that leave me alone, I can live my life anyhow.

    Her born-againability is the first proof of godliness.

    Two, godliness sister don’t have their nudes on their phones talk less of sending them about. They don’t reduce themselves to that gutter behaviour.

    Three, a godly sister won’t test you. She will not test you whether you care about her or not. She won’t test you to know whether you are sexually okay or not. Christians are tempters

    Moreover, a Godly lady won’t pressurize you for sex. Not only that she won’t seduce you. Our sisters are not seductresses.

    A godly sister is not a feminist. Godly sister don’t have problem with problem with submission. Such fellow doesn’t hate men.

    She won’t be comparing you with the other guys for she is not unwise. If she is pushing you towards desperation, know that she isn’t from God.

    In addition to that, a Godly Sister is not using you as poverty alleviation scheme. She is in a relationship with you not in business transaction.

    Less I forget, a Godly Sister have credit on her phone, can hold meaningful conversation, have transport fare to visit and can take care of her personal bills.

    Christian sisters doesn’t cohabit for it’s an act of great ungodliness. Aunt, go and pack your bags, have small shame now oooo, go home!

    He doesn’t have any zaddy somewhere.

    Because she fears the Lord, her loyalty is to one man, you. She isn’t a side chick to anyone.

    And lastly, she is not a baddie and she covers herself appropriately

    May God helps you to find a godly sister for marriage in Jesus name

    #dadkylexy #octoberChallenge

  • October Challenge Day 27 – How To Spot A Godly Man for Marriage

    October Challenge Day 27 – How To Spot A Godly Man for Marriage

    First of all, thank you for celebrating my mum yesterday. She sends regards.

    Also welcome to day 25. I am happy having you here and sharing this.

    Like I said, this is the last week of the challenge will be focused on relationship. Therefore, let’s dig in

    I believed as a woman you are looking for a Godly Man for a husband because I know you love God and love a happy home plus being loved by a good husband.

    And who could be a good husband if not a godly man whose delight is in the laws of the Lord.

    Now this how to differentiate between a Godly brother and ungodly one;

    My sister, he is not godly if he agrees to no-sex-before-marriage with you but he is having it somewhere and or his room is the slaughterhouse for his fornicating friends. Godliness must touch all his relationships.

    He is ungodly if he practised abstinence with you then encourages unfaithfulness. His actions must encourages faithfulness and godliness.

    He is not godly if he treats you well but very unkind to others, especially those beneath him. He is expected to be kind to you but everyone deserves respect because we are all created in God’s image.

    There is no single iota of godliness in him if he is asking for your nudes or pressuring you for sexting and you too won’t have any naked pics of you on your phone if you too are godly.

    He has a consistent records of being abusive and not for once seek help, he is ungodly. Godliness must touch his hand and emotions.

    But he is nice, is not a sign of godliness. There are nice demons.

    Lastly Godliness is far from him if he doesn’t have Jesus as his Lord and Saviour.

    That is how to spot a godly man because Godliness with contentment is all encompassing and it must reflect in every area of one’s life.

    Thank you reading. Make sure you share this.

    May God direct your path in Jesus name. Amen.

    #dadkylexy #Octoberchallenge

  • October Challenge Day 26 – To My Mother.

    October Challenge Day 26 – To My Mother.

    Today is my mom’s birthday and I am using this moment to wish her happy birthday.

    May you have long life, good health and greater prosperity in Jesus name.

    Help me to wish her graceful birthday.

    #Dadkylexy #octoberchallenge

  • October Challenge Day 25 – A call for Worship

    October Challenge Day 25 – A call for Worship

    Dear friends and followers,

    With great joy and high regards I am write to letter to you from my heart. Hope this meet you well?

    The purpose of this letter is to invite you to partner with us – Ogbomosọ Rehoboth Baptist Association to help spread and put the World of God inro every house as we go out for the Great Commission at Òkín Apa.

    We want you to donate a Bible which cost $3 (₦3000) for the outreach and we will be glad to have you on board.

    For more enquiry, contact me via 08125446603 or JOELALADE2018@GMAIL.COM.

    Yours in Christ

    Joel Alade

  • October Challenge Day 24 – Roles of Technology in Education

    October Challenge Day 24 – Roles of Technology in Education

    BEING TEXT OF A LECTURE DELIVERED AT DOTWORLD ACADEMY, OGBOMOSỌ NEW SESSION SEMINAR ON 16TH SEPTEMBER, 2023 BY 9AM AT THE SCHOOL AUDITORIUM.
    THE ROLE OF TECHNOLOGY IN TEACHING.


    INTRODUCTION
    All protocols duly observed. I thank the management of the school for the opportunity granted to me to be the deliverer of this important topic, the Role of Technology in teaching.
    It is no longer news that we are 21st century and it won’t sound well that any 21st century teacher is not technological savvy or simply put, is computer illiterate at its basic level.
    Now, let’s define the key words Technology and teaching. First, what is Technology? Technology is the application of scientific knowledge to solve man’s problem while Teaching can be defined as the processes of transferring knowledge from more knowledgeable person to a less – knowledgeable one. Therefore, the purpose of this presentation is to highlight the roles, benefits to both the teachers, school and the well as the students, tools, means methods needed in transferring knowledge from the one who know much to the one who knows less using modern technological means, tools and methods to solve man’s problem of ignorance

    THE ROLE OF TECHNOLOGY IN TEACHING
    The major role of technology in teaching is to make teaching and knowledge transfer possible in a never- ending manner for both the teacher and the students.


    TECHNOLOGICAL TOOLS EFFECTIVE FOR TEACHING.
    – Radio
    – Video / Audio Recorder
    – Electric board
    – Computer
    – Smartphone
    – Flash drive
    – Projector/video casting
    – WiFi/internet service
    – Etc.


    TECHNOLOGICAL MEDIA FOR TEACHING
    – Social media
    a. Facebook – e.g Arojinle , Science in Yoruba, Naira Academy
    b. Telegram
    c. WhatsApp
    d. Zoom for video classes
    – Microsoft package like Excel, Word, etc
    – Google Packages like Search, Map, Translate, Calendar, YouTube, Classroom, etc.
    – Endozzier app for automated results generation
    – Canva app for designing infographics
    – Web/Blog
    – Educational Tablets
    – Amazon kindle, Selar.com, Okada.com (to buy reference materials)


    TECHNOLOGICAL METHODS FOR EFFECTIVE KNOWLEDGE DELIVERY.
    – Gamefied lessons
    – Recorded lesson
    – Website/ blog creation for assignment and class
    – Virtual tours.
    – Live Videos
    – Internet-based submission of Assignments
    – Online classes
    – Etc.

    BENEFITS OF APPLICATION OF TECHNOLOGY IN EDUCATION.
    – It saves time
    – It eliminates space barriers
    – It makes learning and teaching fun
    – It makes teaching and learning continuous and easily available e.g during COVID – 19 shutdown in 2020
    – Technology enhances knowledge availability for all classes of people.
    – It eliminates Language barriers, e.g., Google Translate.
    – It make knowledge delivery planning, and feedback possible
    – Avenue for money making for both the teachers through knowledge sharing and free advert for school.
    – Using Technology to deliver knowledge to students positions both the teacher, the school and the students for global relevance.
    – It can be a springboard for teacher into career e.g., graphic design, web design, UI/UX, IoT, etc


    PROBLEMS ASSOCIATED WITH APPLICATION OF TECHNOLOGY IN TEACHING.
    – Pace of change and financial cost of change is alarming.
    – Destruction of social dynamics
    – Limited perceived effectiveness of technology.
    – Security of data issue
    – Technology misuse and abuse
    – Lack of infrastructure and skills
    – Illiteracy

    CONCLUSION
    Colleagues, you may be wondering; where are we going to get all these technological tools that can enhanced your knowledge delivery? Well, still thank God for technology, because most of these tools, methods and means can be gotten or done via our smartphones .

    With these few points of mine I believed applying tech in our knowledge delivery will position our great school, our students, and we the teachers for global relevance and I am urging the management to please our upgrade computer laboratory and making it functional and to those of us who are not tech-savvy to make sure they did and to who are tech-savvy, that we should upgrade our skill .

    Thanks.

    #dadkylexy #OctoberChallenge



  • October Challenge Day 23 – How to be You

    Welcome to the last week of October Challenge. I am gonna dedicated this week to relationship stuffs. Make sure you watch this video, like, share and comment.

    How To be You.

    #OctoberChallenge #dadkylexy

  • October Challenge Day 22 – How to have a happy Saturday as a Couple – Marypeace Metumara.

    October Challenge Day 22 – How to have a happy Saturday as a Couple – Marypeace Metumara.

    Sometimes, you could find yourself unnecessarily angry, bitter, unfriendly, depressed, withdrawn and sober, and you think it’s because of the challenges you are facing at the moment, family issues, lack of finance, or maybe your ‘village people’ are after your success.

    The simple problem may just be because you probably have not reached orgasm in a while.

    Making love and reaching orgasm while at it, are two different things. Please, never confuse activity for productivity.



    There is a way that your husband/wife will handle you in the other room, and you find yourself smiling sheepishly throughout that period; especially when you cum.

    It’s another weekend, ensure you collect effectively today. Don’t stop until you ‘cum’ to the promised land. You need it!

    Marypeace Metumara

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