One of those debates we have on social media that are laughable is this.
Some women engaged in this silly act because they want to ‘know’ their husbands or fiances.
Furthermore, some have an axiom that say, men’s phones are onions, the more you look, the more the tears hence some ladies completely abstain from their partner’s phone.
Dear, if you go about checking your partner’s phone behind his/her in order to gather some info about him/her or you completely abstain because you don’t want to see what may ill your heart, may I tell you that the phone, chats and or the messages are not the problem, your partner, you and the situationship you are calling relationship are the problems and you all have problems.
You have the problem of trust. Had it been, you won’t be looking for what is not lost.
There is problem of misplace priority because that is a case of leaving leprosy to treat ringworm.
You have a problem of communication because reading chats and checking message are not the wisdom routes to knowing your partner. Wetin happened to prayer, observation and communication?
You have problem of love. If there is one, your phone is the least thing your partner will have access to.
Therefore leave the phone and go and work on your relationship. Leave the symptoms, go and treat the disease.
And lastly men’s phones are not onions. If you believed contrarily, you have been lied to.
#dadkylexy #christiancourtshipanddatingadvices
Afterthought 1
By norms, I don’t check my partner’s phone not because I don’t want to see what will ail me but because I trust my wife. Two, my wife’s place of work deals with confidential data of people.
Afterthought 2:
Some partner’s phone may not be easily accessible for their partner because of the nature of their works, e.g., bankers, big data company employees, counsellors, pastors, policeman, etc














