Matthew 5 unveils what many call the “Constitution of the Kingdom.”
Jesus teaches not just about doing right, but being right from the heart.
The Beatitudes show us the kind of life He blesses:
The humble
The pure in heart
The merciful
The peacemakers
LIFE IN HIM is a transformation of character, not just conduct.
We are also called:
The light of the world
The salt of the earth
Meaning: Life in Him influences everything around us.
Reflection:
Which Beatitude do you need grace to grow in today?
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DAY 5 – Kingdom Life, Kingdom Heart (Matthew 5)
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DAY 4 – The Wilderness Before the Ministry (Matthew 4)
Before miracles, teachings, and crowds, Jesus went through testing.
The wilderness is not punishment — it is preparation.
Jesus overcame temptation by the Word, showing us that life in Him is sustained by truth, not feelings.
Then He called His first disciples with the invitation that still stands today:
“Follow me…”
Reflection:
LIFE IN HIM is a journey of trust. Are you ready to follow even when you don’t have all the details?Share this:
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Day 3 – The Wilderness Before the Ministry
Before miracles, teachings, and crowds, Jesus went through testing.
The wilderness is not punishment — it is preparation.
Jesus overcame temptation by the Word, showing us that life in Him is sustained by truth, not feelings.
Then He called His first disciples with the invitation that still stands today:
“Follow me…”
Reflection:
LIFE IN HIM is a journey of trust. Are you ready to follow even when you don’t have all the details?Share this:
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Day 2 – PREPARE THE WAY
Welcome to Day 2 of Annual Blogmas. This year’s theme is LIFE IN HIM.Matthew 3 opens with John the Baptist crying out in the wilderness. His message was simple yet powerful: Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.
LIFE IN HIM means preparation.
Before Jesus began His ministry, the hearts of people had to be made ready.
John reminds us that the life God wants to build in us begins with a turning:
— Turning from sin.
— Turning from self.
— Turning toward God.
When Jesus stepped into the water to be baptised, Heaven confirmed Him with love:
“This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.”
Reflection:
Are there areas God is calling you to prepare? LIFE IN HIM begins with a heart open and ready.Share this:
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Day 1 – Unlocking the Miracle of Matthew Chapter 1 & 2.
Explore the rich narrative of Matthew chapters 1 and 2 in this insightful video! Uncover the genealogy of Jesus, the fulfillment of prophecies, and the mysterious visit of the Magi. Dive into and discover the significance of the events leading up to the birth of Christ.
See you tomorrow!
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Blogmas Idea 2025 – A Journey Through the Gospel of Matthew.
Matthew-A-Thon Announcement
Greetings on the commencement of a new month!
I extend my sincere gratitude for the continuous support over the past 11 months, expressed through views, follows, shares, and subscriptions.
I am excited to announce the beginning of Season 5 of Annual Blogmas, a 25-day event dedicated to celebrating Christmas. This year’s theme is LIFT HIM UP, and the format this year will be video-based. Each day, leading up to Christmas, I will be reading a chapter from the Gospel of Saint Matthew.
A short overview of this writer – Matthew, a disciple of our Lord Jesus Christ, called by Christ Himself from his tax collecting booth, serves as the focal point for this year’s exploration. Despite being one of the quieter apostles, Matthew’s prolific writing shines through.
Today being Day 1, I will delve into Chapter 1 and 2 at 6 pm here and on my Facebook page, as we collectively embark on this journey to LIFT HIM UP.#Matthew_a_thon #2025Blogmas #lifthimup
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To All Teachers
I am using this hour to wish colleagues all over the world #HappyTeachers’day
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Welcome to House of J&V — Our New Beginning!
Dear friends, family, and beloved readers,
I am beyond excited to introduce to you my latest God-inspired journey — House of J&V!
Join Victoria and I, every week on our YouTube channel as we shared our marital journey via House of J&V
Why House of J&V?
Because we believe that marriage is blissful — when Christ is at the center.
We’ve cried. We’ve laughed. We’ve prayed. We have fought. We have won. And now, we’re creating a space to share it all — not just the polished moments, but the real, raw, and redemptive ones.
House of J&V is our online family where faith meets fun, where biblical truth meets real talk, and where singles, young couples like us, parents, and the soon-to-wed can find love, encouragement, and hope.
House of J&V want to tell you that you are not the only one passing through the relationship challenges. You are neither the first nor the last
🎥 What You Can Expect
We’ll be sharing content across:
📖 Devotionals & family prayers
💍 Marriage & relationship insights
👶 Faith-based parenting tips
🙌 Testimonies, stories, and laughter❌❌ Our mistakes and errors
🎥 On YouTube and TikTok, with occasional drops on our Facebook pages
We are building a digital home that blesses hearts and strengthens homes.
📌 Join Us!
Subscribe to our YouTube channel: House of J&V
Follow us on TikTok: @HouseOfJandV
Together, let’s prove that with Christ, love still works. Marriage still stands. Homes still thrive.
Welcome to the House of J&V 🏡
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5 Relationship Lessons from Chelsea’s Club World Cup Triumph
Chelsea winning the first edition of the expanded Club World Cup tournament against PSG is not news anymore.
They are going to hold that trophy 🏆 for the next four years — but more than the celebration and the headlines, there are powerful relationship lessons hidden in that football victory.
1. Your Relationship Choice Affects Future Generations
Chelsea played in the 2025 Club World Cup because the 2021 squad won the UEFA Champions League. Guess what? Only two players from that team are still in the current squad — yet, they’re benefitting from the decisions of the past.
Likewise, the choice of your life partner goes beyond today.
You are not just choosing a spouse — you are choosing a co-parent.
Your children, your home, your legacy — all will feel the impact of who you choose.
Genes and values run deep.
2. Don’t Be Afraid to Start Afresh
After winning the Champions League, Chelsea went through:A transfer ban
Ownership change
Firing and hiring of four coaches
Rebuilding a squad from scratchThey signed and sold players. They experimented. But in all this, they were never afraid of rebuilding. Why? Because the best is born through change.
In relationships too, don’t cling to someone just because of time spent.
Don’t be afraid to break off and start again.
The “better” may have to step aside so the “best” can come.
3. You’re Not in Courtship to Impress Anyone
Before the tournament, analysts and fans wrote Chelsea off.
Did Chelsea fight them on Twitter?
Did they argue with bookies or trend on social media?
No. They simply showed up and played their game.
Your courtship should never be to live anyone’s dreams, aspirations and experiences. Custom-made your relationship for God’s glory.
Stop trying to impress the crowd — live to please God.
Let your courtship glorify Him, not Instagram algorithms or friend group expectations.
4. Long-term Sacrifice Pays Off
Chelsea didn’t win by luck. It was a culmination of years of discipline — from recruitment to training to staying focused through a long season.
In relationships, you may not “win” instantly. But with faith, patience, prayer, and effort, your investment in each other will pay off.
Just like Chelsea, your relationship must endure seasons of growth, pressure, and restructuring — until victory comes.
5. You Need the Right Coach and a Shared Game Plan
Chelsea’s new coach had only spent 12 months with the squad, yet they succeeded. Why? Because they shared a clear vision and executed it as a team.
In your courtship, you don’t just need love — you need:
Godly counsel (a spiritual “coach”)
Mutual purpose (a shared game plan)
Willingness to play your roles
Don’t just vibe. Align.
You both must be submitted to God’s plan for your relationship.
This is not just about football. It’s about your future.
Like Chelsea, your choice of partner, your willingness to rebuild, and your refusal to impress others will determine whether you lift the trophy — or sit on the sidelines of life.Share this:
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Bitterness in Singleness, Chaos in Courtship
Sade had always been bitter — even before Cole came into the picture. She was constantly complaining. Always moody. Frequently dissatisfied with life for no clear reason.
When she met Cole, their relationship quickly became a cycle of bickering, nagging, and emotional unrest.
She never stopped reminding Cole of his inadequacies — real or imagined.
But here’s the thing:
Cole was actually trying.
He treated her with respect.
He never shut her down.
He helped pay some of her bills, bought her thoughtful gifts, and was committed to growth.
Still, Sade remained bitter. Unhappy. Always frowning. Always frustrated.
Eventually, Cole walked away — not because he hated her, but because he realised something deep:
“Doing life with an ungrateful, unhappy and bitter person is a journey of torment.”A toxic single life will only produce a toxic relationship — and eventually, a toxic marriage.
Courtship won’t make you happy.
Marriage won’t fix your bitterness.
If you’re not whole before love comes, love won’t magically make you whole.
Why It Matters:
1. Humans are not your source of joy.
Only God is — and should be. No one can carry the burden of your unhappiness.
2. If you’re emotionally unstable, you’ll project it.
Your pain, fear, and insecurity will land on someone who simply wants to love you — and it will crush them.
Therefore, live before you plan to live with someone else.
Become whole in God, find joy in your own journey — then share that joy with someone, instead of making them responsible for it.Share this:
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When Red Flags Are Loud in Courtship
Single sisters, let’s talk.
There’s a growing pattern of defending the obvious — even when the red flags are slapping harder than the brother himself.
You’ll hear things like:- “He’s born again but he’s asking for my nudes… Can I still marry him?”
- “He’s born again, but he drinks one or two bottles… Is it bad?”
- “He flirts with other ladies, but he’s caring. What should I do?”
- “He slapped me twice because I made him angry… I don’t want to lose him 😅”
- “He’s born again but doesn’t go to church.”
Ah ah! My sister, who born am again?🤷🤷
And many more radarada justifications like that.
But let’s be honest — if you trace the root of most of these excuses, it’s usually because:- He buys data
- He pays for your pad
- He orders you food
- He sends you urgent 2k
So, out of pressure, you start building tolerance for things that your spirit already knows is wrong.Hard Truth:
If a particular behaviour is bothering you now — abort mission!
Marriage doesn’t hide red flags, it magnifies them.
Don’t mistake provision for character.
Don’t confuse gifts for godliness.
Don’t call brokenness “love” because he’s doing boyfriend charity.
🗣️ To Every Single Sister:
If it’s a red flag now, it will be a blazing banner in marriage.
Run early. Abort mission. Save your soul and your destiny.Share this:
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Parenting Reality Check
This Is Just a Rant from #DiaryOfANursingFather
Marriage is a funny affair — especially parenting a kid.
Before we became parents, our neighbours hardly knew when we left for work or came back. Once we were inside, the door was shut — except for the occasional outing or errand.
But once parenthood entered the chat? Everything changed — drastically.
- If we’re not shouting “Leave that place!” × 300 times,
- We’re yelling “Joojoo!”,
- Or trying to decode a vicious cry for something… invisible,
- Or running after this boy like it’s a daily Olympics.
Now? Everyone knows when we’re in and when we’re out.
And honestly, that’s been burdening me lately.
“How are those parenting alone coping? If you know, yarn me in the comment section.”
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- #ChristianParentingReality
- #MarriageAndParenthood
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