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THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULD READ YOUR BIBLE DAILY

Hey friends, how are you today? Wellโฆ we have welcomed the second week of a brand-new year. Already week number two is upon us; how are you doing? My friend says, โwill this be a new year, where we implement new plans to draw us closer to the Lord, or will it be the same [โฆ]
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Should We have Friends?
From L – R: Tunji, I and Odunola, back in 2015.
Let me tell you a story that happened to me in my final year in University. It is a story of how a firend make my final year, easy and smooth-free.
Getting to 500l is already tiresome but being in that last lap with a laptop is stressful and here I am without one and with no money to buy one.

My prayers for my friends. But a friend gave me her laptop at a very reduced price after a brief chit-chat with her on a general issue which veered off to laptop’s matter.
You purchased the thing now? If she didn’t sell at that giveaway price, I wouldn’t be able to afford one. I count it as her parting gift and that gift made the final year awesome for me.
For doing that, I won’t forget her.
Now, ask yourself the following questions:
Should I have friends?
Must I have friends? Talkless of having close-knit friends?
What are the essences, benefits and usefulness of friends?
Do I have friends? Are they good friends?
Are mine a good friend?
You may be surprised that I am asking you all those questions. Of course, you have a friend(s) – some casual and some deep. I too have friends across religious, cultural and tribal divides that have spanned more than 20 years.
Recently, I was reading the portion of the Bible where a paralytic man was taken to Jesus Healing and Teaching Crusade and they couldn’t find a way to get him to Jesus but they did something that always amazed me about friends and friendship. Instead of returning their friends home, they did the impossible and the unexpected.

The paralytic man being carried by his friends to Jesus teaching and healing crusade. When they could not find a way to do this because of the crowd, they went up on the roof and lowered him on his mat through the tiles into the middle of the crowd, right in front of Jesus. When Jesus saw their faith… So he said to the paralyzed man, โI tell you, get up, take your mat and go home.โ Immediately he stood up in front of them, took what he had been lying on and went home praising God. Everyone was amazed and gave praise to God. They were filled with awe and said, โWe have seen remarkable things today.โ Luke 5:19 – 26 NIV
Because of this man’s friends, 4 things happened:
- He was healed
- He was forgiven of his sin
- He praised God.
- People praised God.
And that is how God wants your friendship to be.
A friend in need, is a friend indeed.
God made us want and need friendship. But some friendships got entangled in comparison and competition. Some friendships lack healthy boundaries while some friendships need a tune up and some need to be cancelled. (How to have healthy friendships’ devotional plan emphasis mine) but first who is a friend?
Fun-fact: The word friend was mentioned 155 times in the Bible.
According to Advanced Oxford Dictionary, a friend is a person you know very well and regard with affection and trust.
Secondly, why should we even have friends? The purposes of friendship are numerous, some of them are:
1. Friends are useful for carrying us.
Like the paralytic man in Luke 5, we all need friends who will carry us in prayers, words of encouragement, helps, supports and advice like most of David’s friends.
2. We are Relational Beings.
God did not create anyone to be stand-alone. He created us to have a relationship with Him and fellow human beings like us (father, mother, brother, sister and friend). So one of the channels of fulfilling that purpose of God is through quality friendship.
3. To solve problem together.
Since you can’t be alone courtesy of the fact that you are a relational being, God doesn’t want you to tackle the problem alone. He doesn’t want you to bottle up the feeling. He wants you to talk to someone who is in the best position to hear your real and unreal cries and who is the best position, if not someone you regard with affection and trust?
4. Friends are constant lovers.
Like that age-long proverb that says that a friend in need, is a friend indeed. A good friend loves you like Jonathan loves David. He/she also desires and strives to have you as a better individual.
A friend loves at all time… Proverbs 17:17 (AMP).
5. Even God have friends.
God have friends. Abraham is God’s friend, so is David. So therefore if we have friends, we are God-like.
Jesus even called us His friends, if we obey Him (John 15:14-15).
The cloud of witnesses about us have friends while they are in these mortal bodies.
6. Friends help our ‘visions.’
I needed a friend to see what I couldnโt. The truth. So often we look at the details all over the landscapeโthe millions of trees. And we miss the forest. Those overarching truths that cover us and provide shade and security and keep us grounded.
Now to answer, our question, we should have friends albeit good ones.
In conclusion, the question before you and mine now is; are mine a good friend to my friend or not? Do I even have good friends?
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How to worship God.
What most of us called worship is 5-minutes song singing and dancing during church services or listening to so called Worship leaders like Joe Houston, Micheal W. Smith, Hillsong, etc., whereas the concept of worship is more than that.
Worship is all inclusive.
By the way of definition, Worship is any thing that we do that’s pleasing to God in order to acknowledge His Godliness.
ย So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God.
1 Corinthians 10:31
(Christian Standard Bible (CSB).For a repeat, Worship is anything you do to glorify God.
Here are some of the ways, you can actually worship:
1. Accepting Jesus Christ as Lord.
The first and foremost act of worship is to acknowledge righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.
Any intended worship devoid of God is in vain.
2. Living a holy life.
The second act of worship for any Christian is to live a holy, sinless life – i.e., shunning anything that have appearance of evils.Therefore, brothers and sisters, in view of the mercies of God, I urge you to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God; this is your true worship
Romans 12:1
(Christian Standard Bible (CSB).3. Prayer.
Prayer is first a medium of communication between God and His children; not neccesarily a request/problem solving arena.
We don’t pray because we have problem, we pray to worship our God – who is also our teacher.Prayer means acknowledging God in all your ways and leaning not on your understanding because the folly of God is still wiser than theย highest wisdom of man.
4. Being Just in your dealings.
You are worshipping God if you’re just i.e., you do unto others as you want them to do to you.
A husband is just if he loves his wife and a wife is just if she submits to her husband.
A congregant is just if he/she supports his pastoral ministry.
A just Christian brother prays for his sister.
An employer is just if he/she pays his/her employees as at when due and the employee perform his job diligently.
5. Singing, dancing and Merry-making.
The Bble accurately told us God required praise songs and offerings/sacrifices of our lips and legs as a means of worship of Him.
So, when we sing to God, we are joining the angelic in their daily job whereas Numbers and Ecclesiastes are pointer to the fact that God wants to merry in His presence in moderation and sober reflection because He is the Creator of festivals.
6. To be contented.
To be contented means to be satisfied with the stations God is currently keeping you and to avoid covetousness.Godliness and contentment is a great gain.
7. Open hand and pocket.
You can’t called yourself a true worshipper if you are stingy. God is generous and He expected us to be too.
True worship is taking care of the fatherless and the orphans.8. Lastly, you worship God in spirit and in truth.
May our hearts of worship be acceptable to God.
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Four things that you should continue to do during difficult times.
Davidโs example suggests four things that you should continue to do during difficult times:
How long will You forget me, O Lord? Forever? How long will You hide Your face from me?
But I have trusted, leaned on, and been confident in Your mercy and loving-kindness; my heart shall rejoice and be in high spirits in Your salvation.I will sing to the Lord, because He has dealt bountifully with me.
Psalm 13:1,5โ6 (Amplified Bible)1. Keep praying
David continues to cry out to God, โLook on me and answer, O Lord my God. Give light to my eyesโ (v.3). He pours out his heart to God. Donโt give up praying even when God seems far away.
2. Keep trusting.
โBut I trust in your unfailing loveโ (v.5a). โIโve thrown myself headlong into your armsโ (v.5a, MSG). It is relatively easy to have faith when things are going well, but the test of faith is when things do not appear to be going well.
3. Keep rejoicing.
He does not rejoice in the trials, but in Godโs salvation. He says, โmy heart rejoices in your salvationโ (v.5b). โIโm celebrating your rescueโ (v.5b, MSG).
4. Keep worshipping.
In spite of everything he has been through, David is able to see the goodness of God: โI will sing to the Lord, for he has been good to meโ (v.6). He remembers all that God has done for him.
As you begin to praise and worship God, it brings perspective to your problems. Sometimes, I find it helpful to look back on my life and thank the Lord for bringing me through so many of my own personal struggles, disappointments and bereavements, and to remember how, through it all, โhe has been good to meโ (v.6).
Prayer for the day: Lord, I worship you today. Thank you for your goodness to me. For all the battles ahead, I trust in your unfailing love.
Culled from Bible in One Year 2022 with Nicky Gumbel – Youth โข Devotional
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โLordโฆ Give Me Success Todayโ – YouVersion

How to Be a Huge Success is a little book of quotations and tips from a variety of well-known โsuccessfulโ people. The back cover asks, โAre you on a collision course with fame, fortune or greatness?โ This is so often how โsuccessโ is perceived in our society. Perhaps because of some of its negative connotations, sometimes in the church we are a little wary of the word โsuccessโ. However, โsuccessโ is not a dirty word in the Bible. It occurs at least five times in our Old Testament passage for today (Genesis 24:12,21,40,42,56) โ each time in a very positive light. Success is a blessing from the Lord (vv.31,50). Success is a good thing. However, the ministry of Jesus and the message of the Bible redefines success.
Psalm 8:1
Praise God for the success of his creation
In our galaxy there are probably over a hundred-billion stars like our sun. Our galaxy is one of a hundred-billion galaxies. When we consider the vastness of the universe it is easy to feel small and insignificant.
David starts and ends this psalm by worshipping God for the success of his creation (vv.19).
As he stares into the night sky, David says, โI look up at your macro-skies, dark and enormous, your handmade sky-jewellery, Moon and stars mounted in their settings. Then I look at my micro-self and wonder, Why do you bother with us? Why take a second look our way?โ (vv.3โ4, MSG).
David marvels at the fact that human beings are the pinnacle of Godโs creation โ a masterpiece โ made in his image. Not only does God love you and care about you (v.4), but he has given you extraordinary privileges: โYou made them a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned them with glory and honour. You made them rulers over the works of your hands; you put everything under their feetโ (vv.5โ6).
We have been put in charge of everything God has made. Knowing this, Christians should be at the forefront of the protection, preservation and care of Godโs amazing creation.
Of course, Godโs original plan for our dominion over creation has been distorted. However, in the New Testament, we see these verses are also applied directly to Jesus (Hebrews 2:8). In Christ, creation is restored (Ephesians 1:19โ23; 2:5โ6), and one day it will be complete and we will see everything under his feet (1 Corinthians 15:24โ26).
Lord, I see the vastness, beauty and success of your creation and proclaim: โO Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!โ (Psalm 8:9).
Matthew 9:35
Pursue success modelled on Jesus
Jesus redefines success. If you want to know what true success looks like, study the model of Jesus โ his vision, life and teaching. It is the kind of success that is not universally recognised as such.
Jesus was both admired and hated. Success does not necessarily mean popularity. Some admired him: โThereโs never been anything like thisโ (v.33, MSG). Others hated him. The Pharisees said, โItโs nothing but hocus-pocus. Heโs probably made a pact with the Devilโ (v.34, MSG).
As followers of Jesus, you also may be both admired and hated. For example, because of his campaign to end the slave trade, it was said of William Wilberforce that he was the most admired and the most hated man in England.
In his Gospel, Matthew sets out the success of Jesusโ ministry (ch.5โ9). He summarises, โJesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and illnessโ (9:35).
In word and action Jesus ushered in the kingdom of God, bringing the reality of Godโs rule and presence into the lives of those around him. This is what Jesus-style success looks like and this is what you and I are called to emulate.
To achieve Jesus-style success you, like the twelve disciples, need to model your life on Jesus and share his vision:
1. The need is urgent
Jesus saw that โthey were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherdโ (v.36). Today, we see millions who donโt know Jesus and are spiritually lost. In addition, we see millions who are starving, homeless, suffering from preventable diseases and without even the most basic education.
2. The motive is love
Jesus had compassion (v.36). This is the strongest word for love in the Greek language (derived from the Greek word for โgutsโ). It is used only of Jesus. It could be translated โhe was guttedโ โ his heart broke.Jesus was unconcerned about worldly categories of importance or success. Here we see him helping two very different classes of people โ an important โrulerโ (v.18) and a woman whose menstrual bleeding would have made her unclean and left her on the fringes of society (v.20). Yet Jesus had compassion on them both.
3. The trigger is prayer
Jesus said to his disciples, โAsk the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest fieldโ (v.38). Pray for more people to be raised up who will follow Jesus and reap the harvest.
4. The potential is vast.
Jesus said, โThe harvest is plentifulโ (v.37). Jesus has modelled what success looks like โ proclaiming the kingdom and demonstrating its in-breaking into history. Now he calls you to follow his model โ to share in his mission, multiplying its reach.
Lord, there is so much need in our world yet it seems that the workers are few. I pray that you would raise up and send out more workers to go out into the harvest field and change the world.
Genesis 24:12
Pray for success in guidance.
Abrahamโs servant was not embarrassed to pray for success. He prayed a prayer that we can all emulate: โGive me success todayโ (v.12). It was not a selfish prayer. It was a prayer that God would bless someone else, โshow kindness to my master Abrahamโ (v.12). He asked to be guided by God.
This is one of the most remarkable stories of Godโs guidance. On Alphaยน, we talk about five ways in which God guides us, under the heading of โthe five CSsโ. In this passage, we can see an example of all these working together and especially the fifth one, โCircumstantial Signsโ.
Commanding Scripture
Obviously, Abraham did not have the Scriptures that we have โ but he did have the commands of God that later became part of the Scriptures. God commanded his people to only marry other believers in him. Abraham told his servant he must not get a wife for his son from the Canaanites, but from his own people (vv.3โ4).
Compelling Spirit
The Holy Spirit leads us as we pray. Although the words โHoly Spiritโ are not used in this passage, it is clear that all the participants are in a position to be guided by God, listening to him and being led by the Spirit. Abrahamโs servant prayed from his heart (vv.12,45), Rebekah appeared โbefore he had finished prayingโ (v.15), and when Rebekah appeared, Isaac was out in the field where he had gone to meditate (v.63).
Common Sense
The choice of Rebekah made sense. She was clearly someone who was appropriate for Isaac. It so happened that she was โvery beautifulโ (v.16). She was also โa virgin; no man had ever lain with herโ (v.16). Most importantly, she was clearly generous, gracious and kind. Her immediate response to the request for water was not only to offer it, but also to say, โIโll draw water for your camels too, until they have finished drinkingโ (v.19).
Counsel of the Saints
One of the ways in which God guides us is through godly advice (โsaintsโ is used here in the New Testament sense to describe all Godโs people). Although Isaac and Rebekahโs marriage was very different from the modern western marriage, in that it involved a large element of arrangement, there was also an element of choice. Rebekah was asked, โโWill you go with this man?โ โI will go,โ she repliedโ (v.57). Isaac chose to marry her and โloved herโ (v.67). They were following the counsel of the saints in the sense that everyone around, especially their parents, recognised, โThis is from the Lordโ (v.50).
Circumstantial Signs
This is one of the clearest cases in the Bible of God guiding through circumstantial signs. The servant asks for a sign and was given exactly what he asked for (vv.12โ26). However, as we have seen, the sign was not random. It was a test of Rebekahโs character, which she fulfilled.
As a result of being guided by God, not only was their meeting a great success, but more importantly, so was their marriage.
Lord, I pray that you would multiply this wonderful example of successful guidance amongst us. May there be more and more couples coming together and being able to say, โThis is from the Lordโ (v.50).
Pippa Adds
Genesis 24
I have always loved this story. It is very romantic. Isaac was heir to great wealth, but he was possibly rather lonely. His half-brother had been sent away. His mother had died. But God provides this brave woman. She leaves her family. She marries someone miles from home whom she has never met. But God answers very specific prayers to guide them to this decision. Isaac goes to a lot of trouble to find a woman who shares his faith, which is so important in marriage. And I love the fact that Isaac loved her at first sight.
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24 Tools to Resolve Conflict in A Christian Home.
When I was newlywed (still newlywed though), my wife and I used to have a lots of disagreements due to our differing backgrounds. I was afraid of the constant bickerings not until our family mentor told us that the conflict is normal and that it is part of adjustment to one another.

Conflicting couples. Pexel.com. So if yours look like mine as newlywed, don’t panic and if long-wed, still don’t fear, conflict and disagreement are inevitable in family, Christian homes inclusive as a result of our various backgrounds and experiences.
In those days, as the disciples were increasing in number, there arose a complaint by the Hellenistic Jews against the Hebraic Jews that their widows were being overlooked in the daily distribution.
Acts 6:1
The only antidote to it is EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.
But what is Communication? Communication is the art of sending out thoughts, feelings, ideas, visions and belief by speaking in a manner that is understandable by both the speaker and the listener.
A communication is said to be effective if it’s understood by all the participants.
Furthermore, total Communication is 7% words, 38% tone of voice, and 55% nonverbal.
Tools for Effective Communication.
1. Conflict is bound to happen, denial is not the best course of action.
2. Agreed from onset that your partner (and children) is not your enemy.
You are on the same team. You both want the best for the family.
4. So therefore, depersonalize the problem. It is the the problem that have problem not your spouse.
3. Prepare for conflict and disagreements. To shock you, what causes fights in the house are inanimate objects. Phew!
Agreed from onset that your partner (and children) is not your enemy.
4. Do not assume that the offender offends you if you haven’t let him/her know that he/she does. The offender may sincerely not know. Therefore, speak.
5. If the offender is a man, resolve it by telling him straight. Men are more rational being (speak about 15,000 words per day) than women.
6. If a woman said, ‘you offended me.’ Be it your mother, sister, friend, colleague or wife, let her talk because women are more emotional ( speak 25,000 per day) and just say sooooory.
7. Do not sweep any disagreement under carpet.
8.Therefore RESOLVE ALL CONFLICTS IMMEDIATELY AND TACTFULLY.
9. When resolving a conflict, communicate in such a way that you are understood. Big grammars blur effective communication.
10. Don’t exaggerate. Statements like ‘you always fumbled,’ ‘you are up to no good,’ ‘you are this,’ ‘ you are that’ are all silly exaggerations. Your spouse (or kid) may have truly offended you but that doesn’t mean he/she is such a complete idiot (in Arthur Pendragon’s voice).
These exaggerations arenโt helpful or truthful and put your spouse on the defensive. (Proverbs 25:18)
11. Choose a proper time to engage.
Wanting to resolve a conflict during a hot Premier League march between Chelsea FC and Manchester City FC or NBA match may not produce desired result for football lovers. Same goes to women too.
12. When your spouse is registering his/her grievance, please LISTEN (we men should abundantly take note of this).(James 1:19).
RESOLVE ALL CONFLICTS IMMEDIATELY AND TACTFULLY.
13. Don’t become irresponsible because of the action of your offender.
If it your wife is the offender, don’t stop being a good husband.
Peradventure, the offender is your husband, don’t renege in performing your wifely duties to him.
At work, don’t reduce productivity.
14. Say SORRY and ACT SORRY; whether you are right or wrong. Saying sorry and not acting sorry is tantamount to playing on someone’s intelligence.
15. Don’t deny yourselves of your conjugal rights.
16. In case of recurrent disagreement bordering on illegality, report to higher authority.
17. No yelling, foul language, or name-calling. (Ephesians 4:29; Colossians 3:8).
18. Don’t transfer aggression to innocent people.
19. Don’t physically, emotionally, physiologically abuse one another.
20. Stay on topic. No bringing up past unrelated issues. (1 Corinthians 13:4-5; Philippians 3:13-14) ย
21. Allow for โtime outsโ (where you take a break from the discussion) when things are getting heated before one of you loses your cool. If either one of you calls a โtime out,โ both of you respect that. (Psalm 37:8) ย
22. Take turns talking. Do not interrupt each other. (Proverbs 1:5) ย
23. Take a break to pray together when it seems like you arenโt getting anywhere. (Psalm 32:6) ย
24. Donโt threaten divorce. (Matthew 19:6)
With all these points and steps, I believed that conflicts can be resolved.
A quick question: who is supposed to say sorry first between husband and wife?
Reference
Points 17 and 20 – 24 from YouVersion 4 ways to fight fair in Marriage Devotional Plan
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A marriage lesson from cooking.
My husband is a great cook, and he loves to cook too, and I share that simply to get your attention.
Now that I have it, imagine my husband and I were to cook a very delicious stew. We both contributed to making it very tasty and inviting to the eyes.
Itโs supposed to last us a whole week, and we know we ought to preserve it, but we are really busy people, with work, parenting and other religious and social obligations, you know how it is. By the third day, our stew has gone sour.
Neglect is what makes a sweet relationship turn sour.
You and your spouse may be inherently good people, and the things that takes the most of your time and drains your energy are most likely legitimate needs.
However, like I learned this week,
The only way to make your relationship a priority is toโฆ
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How to have No Sex till Marriage Relationship.
This is a chapter from my incoming new Ebook titled Sexual Purity in A Sexually Crazed World. Enjoy and download for reading when it comes out hopefully by June.
We live in a sex crazy world. Almost everything now has been sexualized as if human beings cannot survive without sex.
Sex is between a biologically male human being and a biological female human being who are married.
Whereas, it could have been better, if the world encourages marital heterosexual sex but lo and behold, our campaigns, billboards, soaps, protests, etc., focus on same-sex, premarital sex, unbridled and casual sex, abortions, bestiality and all sorts of immoralities.
But in all these, God in the Scripture commanded us to abstain from all forms of sexual immoralities as the only form of sex He approved of is sex between a biologically male human being and a biological female human being who are married.
So God created man
in his own image;
he created him in the image of God;
he created them male and female… The man was intimate with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain. She said, โI have had a male child with the Lordโs help.โGenesis 1:27, 4:1
But before we discussed how to abstain, let us understand these four facts.
Four facts about No Sex till Marriage Relationship.
1. We abstain from Premarital sex not because one’s partner says so, we don’t want pregnancy or are afraid of venerable diseases but because we want to GLORIFY AND WORSHIP GOD.
2. It is 100% possible to do No Sex till Marriage relationship in this sex-crazed world. I repeat, it’s highly possible. My significant other and I did it and didn’t regret doing it.
‘For nothing will be impossible with God.’
Luke 1:37
3. Forget social media noise, many people are abstaining – you won’t be the first to do it and neither will you be the last. Many more will do it.
4. You lose nothing by abstaining from Premarital sex and gain many things by abstaining.
Now, to our discussion.
How to have No Sex till Marriage Relationship.
1. Praying:
we live in a world that is in so much loved with sex. You see sex and it’s related stuff everywhere, even the church is not spared but prayers can help safeguard you from all temptations.
โTherefore, you should pray like this:
Our Father in heaven,
your name be honored as holy.And do not bring us into temptation,
but deliver us from the evil one.Matthew 6:9,13
2.Have fear of God:
That He meant well when He told you to abstain and that He has your best interest at heart for giving the command.
No discipline seems enjoyable at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.
Hebrews 12:11
3. Guard what you see, hear and read:
Unless, you want to deceive yourself, you can’t be listening to shedibalabala,touch my bum bum, lemme touch your bress music, videos and articles up and down and expect to keep yourself.
How then do you guard yourself? Start away from any sex inducing acts, blogs, environment, situations, etc., Any appreance of evils should be done with.Guard your heart above all else,
for it is the source of life.Proverbs 4:23
4. Replace negativity with positivity:
As you are shunning negativity, make you replace it positive habits like Bible reading, reading edifying books, watching motivational videos and blogs, being busy, attending church services, volunteering, etc.
All these activities will naturally make you think less of sex.
Let the thief no longer steal. Instead, he is to do honest work with his own hands, so that he has something to share with anyone in need.
Ephesians 4:28
5.Be busy:
As a normal human being, you will fell horny but productive busyiness can de-stress horniness. Once you notice that you body is beginning to act as a human being, take a walk around the neighborhood, mop the floor, write your thoughts, take a book and read, visit your friends and family, go to church, go on evagelism, pray, sing, etc.
6.Don’t tempt Satan:
Lead us not into temptations is better than deliver us from evils. Most of us are deceiving ourselves.
You said you want to do abstainance but you pack to your boyfriend’s house, Is he wood?
Uncle, shebi na you tell us say you wan keep yourself, why the kissing and plate licking?
Tempting Satan is sleeping overnight in your fiance’s abode and saying that nothing will happen, many things will happen.Tempting Satan is always staying indoors with opposite sex .
Tempting Satan is doing foreplays like passionate kissing, smooching, licking, carousing, blowjob and thinking sex won’t happen, you will be highly playing with fire. You can mock God, what a man sow, he will reap.
Donโt be deceived: God is not mocked. For whatever a person sows he will also reap.
Galatians 6:7
7. Be determined like Lion:
That come what may this No Sex before Marriage will be done by me through the help of Holy Spirit.
The wicked flee when no one is pursuing them,
but the righteous are as bold as a lion.Proverbs 28:1
8. Double date:
Don’t be surprised that I say you should double date. Before you castigate me, check the meaning of double Dating first.
Having two partners simultaneously is not double Dating, it’s called unfaithfulness. Double dating means going on a date with other courting couples.
This double Dating (or even triple dating) of a thing will serve as a charepon for you and your intending spouse. The caveat here, double date with couples who are also No sex before marriage practitioners.
With all these steps, I believe a child of God can escape the sexual filthiness of the world.
Thanks for reading and staying sexually pure.

Unless otherwise stated, all Scripture quotes from Christian Standard Bible (CSB).

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How to study the Bible consistently: 4 hacks from YouVersion
The start of a new year brings many possibilities, which makes it the perfect time to create new Bible reading habits. But, busy schedules, family obligations, and conflicting priorities can make studying Scripture feel challenging at times.

Person reading Bible. Source: YouVersion website. Thankfully, there are steps you can take toward consistently reading Godโs Word.
Here are 4 Bible habit hacks you can do with YouVersion:
1. Make it stick
The easiest way to create a new habit is by linking it to something you already do consistently. So if the first thing you do in the morning is reach for your phone, try reflecting on YouVersionโs Verse of the Day. When you combine a new habit with an already established one, it gives your new habit more โstickiness.โ
Tip: Make YouVersion the first app you see, and get instant access to the Verse of the Day, by enabling the Verse of the Day widget on your phone. Learn how to enable widgets here.
2. Make it automatic
The best way to build a habit is just to start. And as you get started, donโt focus on the amount of time youโre reading or listening to Scripture, just focus on doing it regularly. Once you complete two days in a row, go for three. Once you complete three days, try for five, and keep going until youโve built a Bible streak.
If youโre starting to build a consistent Bible habit, pick a time to study that works for you, and set up daily reminders to spend time in Godโs Word.
Tip: Keep up your momentum by viewing your Bible streak on your YouVersion Home Feed. You can also set up Plan, Prayer, and Verse of the Day Reminders here.
3. Stay connected.
Youโre more likely to keep studying your Bible if you do it alongside someone who cares about your spiritual growth.
Plans with Friends offers a simple, easy way to make sure you continue building your Bible study habit.
There are thousands of Plans in YouVersion, so simply pick a Plan that interests you, and start it with Friends. At the end of each Plan day, youโll be given a space to chat with your Friends about what you discovered.
Tip: You can do a Plan with anybody! Simply share a Plan link on social media, or share a Plan with someone within the app. Get started by choosing a Plan, and follow the prompts to invite Friends to join you.
4. Make it feelย new.
Sometimes, the reason we get in a Bible reading rut is because what weโre doing feels too familiar. Switch up how you engage with the Bible.
If you typically read Scripture, try listening to an audio Bible. If you tend to study Scripture in one specific version, switch to a different version for a month and see if anything new stands out to you. Or, try reading in a new order to gain a fresh perspective.
Tips: To easily compare Bible versions, tap a verse, and then select the โCompareโ button that appears. And, you can listen to any portion of Scripture with audio Bibles.
Making the Bible a part of your everyday life doesnโt have to be dauntingโand thankfully, we donโt have to do it alone. God loves to come alongside us to encourage and empower us by renewing and transforming our minds. He reveals Himself to anyone searching for Him.
The more you build your habits, the easier it becomes to recognize Godโs voice and understand what His will truly is.
As you commit to studying Scripture regularly, remember that the God who created you can also enable you to break through the resistance that holds you back, so that you can consistently engage with His living and active Word.
Wholly copied from YouVersion Bible App blog


