I’m angry. Very livid about the attitude of some of us.
You are a killer! Yes I say you are a killer and God is going to judge your for using your child to fulfill your own failed dreams. Are you her? Is she you? Are you talented and gifted the same way?
I am angry about one bad behavior by modern parents of rushing their children through school into emergency adulthood by enrolling them very early (probably by age 1) and helping them to skip classes along the ways chiefly because such kid is performing brilliantly in his/her academics.
Many people have suggested the causes; Nigerian government unstable education policies, private schools owners, parents, society, etc., but the chiefest culprit are parents especially mothers because they want to do BRAGGING in church and their age grade groups that their kids finished University at 18 not knowing the damages they are inflicting on those kids.
One thing parents should know is that that your kid skipped and he/she is still performing well in school doesn’t mean he/she is emotionally and morally okay.
And rushing your kids through life is stealing their childhood away from them. Live and let your child live peaceably!
Furthermore, that it’s not showing physically doesn’t mean damages are not being done to those rushed kids. It will show sonner or latter, morally and emotionally. What is the essence of having academically sound but emotionally and morally bankrupt individuals?
Thirdly, there is no single advantage in rushing your child through pre-tertiary schools. I left my mates at primary 4 then to go J.S.1 skipping primary 5 to do so. Despite that, I am not richer, more educated or famous than those I left behind then. Infact one of them is my ward councillor now.
Good morning, Masters. Cristiano Ronaldo’s return to Manchester United is no news again but like always, there are lessons to learn here and there:
1. Success always attract success. Why Manchester United and not Watford? Why the Red devils and not the hammers? The choice of Manchester United is because successful people will always go for and with successful people.
If you wanna go far in life If you wanna be a master in all, Then move with those that are succeeding like you. Their mindsets, mentalities and manners will help you.
2. Reputations over money. Manchester City FC was preparing contract for CR7 but it will be scandalous for Ronaldo to play for MCFC after all he has done for Manchester United.
If it money, he will earn more money in City than in United. If it fame, trophies or accolades he had all that in abundance. But his reputation and goatiness is at risk playing for Pep’s side.
Fellow Master, I am urging you in all your dealings, guard above all your reputation, names and identity diligently. Part of guiding your reputation is to know your mates here on Facebook even though you attracts likes that those other than you. Facebook is not a leveller. That is also protecting your identity is behaving civicly here too. All these ‘Wu Wu not take it’ e-holiganlisms won’t take you anywhere.
3. Not to late. CR7 broke a record yesterday. He also set a record yesterday All at 36. Only few players perform well at over 30. There is no early or late date for marriage, education, property acquisition, etc. God make everything beautiful in his own time.
4. Start early. CR7 as well as Messi is near retiring but do you know that both of them start playing since there pre-tennagers day. Not late date in God’s agenda but make sure you start early too. Messi started at 13. Ronaldo started at 18. They start earlier untill they became world renowned. Write your book now. Start that business, podcast, blog, etc now. Make your mistake now.
5. Yours can be better. Messi stole the headlines some weeks ago. Ronaldo upset all those transfer records of Messi in less than a day. Your wedding can be more glamorous than your mates’. You can be more successful than you thought. Your life can be better than than of your parents. It can. It should. It must. And it will.
The famous Bible writer said, ‘ The one who watches the wind will not sow and the one who looks at the cloud will not reap.’
The Preacher called King Solomon David also said
There is time for everything under the sun.
A time to be given birth to and a time to die.
A time to love and a time to hate.
A time to have someone who calls you daily to tell you sweet nonsense and a time when nobody even ‘flash’ you.
There is a time, a moment and a place for everything in life.
But most of us make some silly mistakes while we are waiting for our dream man or woman and these 5 seemily harmless mistakes can cause sleepless nights in marriage.
Here are the five mistakes you should never make before you marry:
1. Waiting for a romantic relationship before having a profitable relationships.
Immediately, most of us heard the word, relationship, what came to our minds, is having a boyfriend, girlfriend, fiancee or fiance but let it be known to all that romantic relationship is just one kind of relationships for us to have and that there are many types of responsible and godly relationships that should precede romatic relationship because building and fortifying those relationships will help us to have a good and happy romantic relationship. There are
a. Parents-Child relationship.
b. God-man relationship. He hates God and anything that has to with God and you think God-centered Marriage will be achievable with him?
c. Friendship
d. Sibling-sibling relationship
e. Fellowshipand Discipleship
f. Employee-Employer relationship
g. Mentoring, etc
Not having all these types of relationships before romantic relationship is setting oneself up for self-destruct.
A person who doesn’t fear God, disregard his/her parents, always have one issue to settle with his/her sibling(s), sees opposite sex as plaything and is not under any authority is a walking weapon of mass destruction in romantic relationship.
Dear readers, make sure you build all the mentioned relationships before thinking of having boy/girlfriend and date, court person with such solid foundations.
2. Not Praying About Marriage Because You think you are not ready now.
One of the biggest mistakes you could ever make maritally is preparing for battle at the battlefield, you are surely bound to be defeated. Same thing with delaying prayers about marriage – both its purposes and the partner because you think you are small in term of age or have a long way to go in other areas of human endeavors before thinking Marriage.
Nooooo! Start praying now even if it is ten years to come.
Pray for yourfuture spouse now.
Pray for your future kids now. Pray about their births, schooling, Marriage, etc. now.
Pray! Pray! My dear, pray oooooo! Don’t wait till when hormones are acting funny and pressures are mounting on you to settle down.
Prayers are deposit and they work assuredly because God still answers prayers and the prayers of the righteous work.
Pray for why, who, where and how of your Marriage.
Pray about your in-laws.
Pray about anything and for anything. Just make sure you start praying about your Marriage now even if it 15 years to come.
3. Being Romantically involved with too many opposite sex.
I made this mistake but God saved me.
In as much as it right to build right qualitative platonic relationships here and there with opposite sex but being Romantically linked with too many opposite sex may lead to confusion when it is time to marry.
Too many exes is damaging and show irresponsibility.
To many opposite sex friend is not okay. That’s my exact mistake. They thought I was dating one of them whereas I don’t even have a girl.
Consistent chatting and calling, visitation, etc to opposite sex who is not your potential spouse can create illusions.
Make friends. But be careful to strike a balance.
4. Suspending life purposes because you are waiting for Me/Miss Right.
Simply put, putting your life, purpose, dreams, aspirations, yearning on hold because you want to marry or devoting all your time, resources, energies, vibes, prayers to finding a marital partner.
Dear brothers and sisters, you don’t have to suspend life purpose because you are waiting for marriage, infact your partner should meet you in purpose fulfilling purpose.
You don’t have to devote all your time and energy to partner ultimate search , infact the right one should meet you doing other profitable and godly things with your time, talent, resources, etc.
Marriage is just a part of our lives that have impact on all parts of our lives. So don’t dare to suspend you because you want to marry.
Run that blog now. Start that business now. Write that book now. Organise that webinar now. Just do something worthwhile now.
5. Doing ‘Marriage’ before Marriage.
Apart from the fact that doing Marriage before marriage will hamper your chance of happy Christian family, it will lead you to hell.
Cohabitation, premarital sex, one night stand, prostitution, sleep overs and doing many wifely or husbandly duties often ungodly duties at ungodly hours, while single will seriously affect your chances of happy home.
My fiancee (soon to be my wife on the 4th of September, 2021) and I birthdays is on 7th September and we wish to donate to an orphanage as a celebration of God’s goodness to us and fulfilment of one of our family values.
The average age of marriage in the Arab world ranges between 20 to 28 among women and 25 to 32 among men, but prior to them making things official and the big celebrations that follow, they were merely sons and daughters, with no knowledge of how to run a household.
When you think of marriage, your mind automatically goes to spending your life with someone you love so dearly, the beautiful celebrations and the carefully-planed honeymoon. It is not often that someone thinks of the immense responsibility that comes along with it.
You go from being treated like a child to becoming fully responsible for a household. You got bills to pay, cleaning to do, laundry to get done, a mortgage to worry about, and so much more.
The idea of marriage is pushed onto us before we’re even old enough to comprehend it. A family friend visits and notices how adorable you are and suddenly, you’re her son or daughter’s significant other.
Girls grow up playing with kitchen appliances and baby dolls and boys grow up constantly hearing the phrase “the man of the house,” without ever understanding what it really means.
There is so much that we don’t even think we need to learn until we become grown-ups overnight. You have to call one of your parents and ask them how to turn on the washing machine and google what is the easiest dinner recipe that can be cooked with the handful of ingredients you have in your pantry. READ MORE:
Budgeting, taxes, grocery shopping and homeownership are just a fraction of the things getting married and moving out entail. We usually have a false sense of independence when we start earning our very own income, but that entire income is often fully wasted on luxuries like shopping and going out.
We never had to budget because even if our wallets are empty, we still have food in the fridge, the house bills paid, and both parents to “lend” us money that we both know will never be paid back.
Marriage should be between two adults, who each can hold their own. Not an experiment where both parties are having their first taste of adulthood.
Parents believe that by making their kids’ lives easier, they’re shielding them and protecting them, when in fact they are raising them to be codependent adults, who can’t get a task as simple as cooking a meal done on their own.
Our attitude toward marriage needs to change. It’s not just a joyful occasion in which two families are joint (and in some cases, a single-family is joint even further but that’s a whole other story). Marriage is a responsibility, which both parties need to know how to be homeowners and how to live on their own.
A Letter to Goat without a yam and Yam without a goat.
Dear Goat with a yam and Dear Yam without a goat,
With upmost joy, I am writing this short epistle to you and I am happy because you are one of the luckiest category on Earth and well as those with goats and yams. Singleness is blissfulness. Enjoy it.
Now, I will advise you
To stay on the farm. It is still the safest place to live and get a goat or yam and even after getting your goat or yam, stay there.
Look for your goat/yam on the farm. You will definitely see your specs on the farm.
While waiting for the yam, engage in profitable foraging and while waiting for the goat do make yam omelette, porridge, òjòjò†, etc with your life.
Continue doing what your Farmer-owner asks of you to do and
Let His decision overwrites yours. He alone knows what is fitting and suitable for you.
If you can do all these, I can confidently say that your singleness will be blissfulness and your engagement will be heavenly.
Signed
A former goat without a yam for 8 straight years now with the sweetest yam on this side of heaven.
† òjòjò is a cake made from grating yam and mixing with condiment and then fry with either palm oil or vegetable oil.
It was said in Ancient parchment that the association between the farmer, the goat and the yam is not easily broken and as such each got its uniqueness to differentiate the other from other farmers, goats and yam. Now let’s see the characters of the much talked about Farmer-owner who is both the rearer of the goat and planter of the yam.
First of all, let me tell you that there are many wannabe farmers out there. Infact, their master is one short ugly guy who was a former labourer in the farm. The Farmer-owner gave him so much power until he thought it in his heart to have a more grander farm than his employer using the Master’s resources.
He even co-opted lesser labourers into his rebellion.
This former labourer and his minions do stole from goats, yams, vegetables, flowers, water, etc from the original Farmer-owner’s farm, changed their DNA to RNA – Rebel Now Acting, can even taught them language of the heavenly farm and released them to come and fellowship with the fellow goats and yams. So beware, not all bleating goats and fine yams you came about speaking the language of the farm are actually from the farm.
Now, the characters of the Farmer-owner are:
The Farmer-owner is ancient. Therefore, He has sure banker experiences on cultivation of goats and yams. You can trust Him to give you the best from his barn and pen.
He has brought many goats to yams and vice versa through diverse means. He even promised in His ancient manual that no goat will lack a yam and vice versa. Rest assured, yours is being prepared.
Furthermore, this Ancient Farmer has a farming manual which he called ancient parchment. In there, you know his dos and donts on how to find a goat, a yam, be a caterer, engage in productive foraging, made yam sauce, relate with other goats and yams and many more things He want to tell you. If you don’t read this parchment, your life may be trial and error.
Also know this and know peace, your Farmer-owner is not a giver of the following to any products from his farm:
A goat/yam disturbing you for frying.
A goat/yam overuser. A goat that only know how to benefit from yam without being a benefit to yam and vice versa.
A hitter and an abuser of grace, gifts, body and words.
Community goats and yams.
Or any goat/yam behaving contrary to what was written in the Ancient parchment.
If you supposed goat/yam has those behaviors, then know for sure that it is either s/he is probably drifting from the farm or s/he is originally from former labourer’s farm.
Don’t mind that he/she joins other goats and yams to jollificate weekly and probably speak the language therein. The stealer of their souls has done that before to falsely accused a real GOAT.
In addition, this Farmer-owner is firstly concerned about finding forages for goats, fertile soils for his yams, bringing goats to yams and yams to goats. So if you are not of his farm, go and meet you father, he too has your specific specs in barn and pen.
Moreover, this awesome Farmer-Owner is not just a farmer. He is a vet doctor, a soil scientist, a rain maker, the rain Himself, a fertilizer, an insecticide, an herbicide and many more things. With you in his farm, your daily nutrients is guaranteed.
Whereas, this Father-farmer will not force any goat or yam on you. He brings the goat or yam that is suitable for you, you do the talking.
Lastly, this Farmer is expecting all his products back after declaring the harvest of his vineyard.
As the Worth of the goat is not in the ability to fry so also the sweetness of the yam is not in being fried. If that’s all there to you, you may probably had started spoiling.
Now, a good yam is not idly waiting for the goat to make an egg omelette with her. She is also making yam pottage with herself with expecting the real goat.
Then, a responsible yam knows she is not for any goat. There is a specific goat for her specific yam from their Farmer-owner’s farm.
Moreover, it is only bitter and rotten yams that peel themselves on soso media for likes. A real and worthy yam don’t and won’t.
In addition, a sweet yam is also o not swayed by sweet bleating from various goats, their pockets or gyms bit she is only interested in who the Father-farmer said is hers.
As far as football is concern, CR7 is my GOAT but I hope you know that CR7 is not all about football, there is philanthropy, business, husband and father’s side to this football GOAT of mine.
The real worth of a goat is not in the ability to fry yam. If that is all you are planning to do then your goatness has dysentery but the Worth and joy of a goat lies in righteousness, peace and joy of the Holy Spirit.
A real/potential GOAT doesn’t sleep off during morning devotion as a result of hangover from yesternight UEFA matches. A real goat is a priest of his pen
Furthermore, the worthiness of a goat is also reflected in this fact that he is not after every yam he sees. He is okay with his given yam because he knows that the insulating material must be kept clean. A real GOAT is a defender of purity.
…but a GOAT had a Farmer-owner…
In addition, the joy of being a goat also shows in that while other ewu gambias are playing and kicking their yams about, he is most concerned about how to wash, clean, beautify and make egg sauce with his yam and yam products now or later. A GOAT is a caterer.
A goat is not on social media arguing on why Bubu is taller than Ashi rather he is actively engaging in one productive foraging in order to prepare a barn for his yam. A real goat is a provider.
Lastly, I wish to tell you that the goat may or may not have six packs, beard or deep pocket but a GOAT had a Farmer-owner because he is not a lone ranger and he is traceable to a pen.
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Christian sisters should be sweet yams. Yes, they should. God is the planter and that brother that used to tell you, ‘ you are my honey,’ every blessed morning is the goat and you got to help him to become a G.O.A.T.
But how? You should know that, although Farmer-Owner which is Yahweh God has brought you to you goat or you have brought you goat to your owner, you must know that you can’t be peel, toasted, roasted, touched anyhow or boiled.
You can’t. It’s not yet time.
And I want you to also know that the desire to be eaten, boiled, peel, roasted, grated or even fried is legitimate and God-given but it is not yet an appropriate time. What should be touching you is now word of God, your pillows and or a cup of tea.
Also, forget not that though the coming G.O.A.T is a Christian, he is also with a God-given instincts to boil and fry. He may speak the languages of angels but he has godly desires in him.
Furthermore, be aware that not all goats are domesticated goats. Some are mountain goats (wild one), some are wannabes (infact baby antelope looks like goat) while some are ewu gambias* and not all goats have potential to become G.O.A.T. Only the Capra hiscus can survive all weathers and you should know that you own goat many not be in your locale.
Therefore, you must help him by not seductively peel yourself, park yourself into his barn, for the habit of sleeping in his barn, touch him inappropriately (Yes, you can’t touch him too!) or arouse the goatness in him till appropriate time.
If you want to be boiled, peel, grated, roasted, touched or even turn to yam cake (òjòjò)* , tell him to come and see the yam caterers to do the required and you too should go and see goat caterers to do the neccesary.
But a potential GOAT should have self-control? Yes, of course, so a potential Y.A.M should self-control too. Not be any of your efforts, but by the grace of thy Farmer who art in heaven.
If you can do this, you will be able to Y.A.M i.e. Yes! Am Married and be able to YAHM (Yes! Am Holly Married) before thy Father-Farmer.
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