4 Things That Are Not Needed For A Happy Home.

When Grey and Tacha were courting. As a lover-in-arm, they used to imagine many beautiful things and scenarios.

A perfect, never annoying partner!

Breakfast in bed!

Cute kids!

Annual vacation in Hawaii!

24/7 romance, catch-up, love SMSes

Infact, their courtship is one of it kind and the love, the care and the attention, are both mutual and obvious, to all and sundry.

Theirs was a perfect man and woman planning, strategizing, praying and hoping for a perfect ‘happily lived after’ experiences in marriage.

Who wouldn’t want a good thing? But their imagination soon turned into realities two weeks in marriage when Grey shouted at Tacha.

Pardon me for a little digress but most singles nowadays is majoring and planning on things that aren’t needed for a happy and bliss home.

Permit me to say, YOU DON’T NEED A PERFECT SPOUSE TO HAVE A HAPPY HOME. Number one, we are all faulty. By nature, no one is perfect. Therefore, your search will be long and 99.99% fruitless but perhaps, you mistakenly find one, trust me you don’t need to marry such one for you to have a blissful union and you won’t ever have one with him/her.

Your sure ticket to a godly home is still with an imperfect human being.

Caveat; imperfection doesn’t mean you should roll up with the ungodly and unbelievers.

Two, YOU DON’T NEED A PERFECT WEEDING.

Elaborate wedding parties, floral flower girls, exquisite men in suit, live music band, ambient lighting and hall, etc are all good but with or without all of these, your marriage can still be great, funny and Godly.

Therefore, prepare for marriage than for wedding and LOVE IN ACTION – 31 PRINCIPLES FOR COURTSHIP AND BEYOND and THE TEARLESS COURTSHIP were written to prepare you for a glorious, easy and happy marital journey, post wedding.

Furthermore, THERE IS NO PERFECT TIME TO MARRY. You will always have one excuse or the other not to marry.

Gas prices will always go up. Mortgage will not down. Cost of living will always appreciate and people in capitol don’t allow bothered.

Time will never be prim and proper for you to marry but once the timing is right and the necessary things have fallen into the right places. Go and marry*

And lastly, YOU DON’T NEED STRONG PENIS AND TIGHT VAGINA for a happy home.

Many aspiring couples think sexual enjoyment in marriage is by how long the instruments for it is. What you need for a joyous sexual experiences in marriage is someone with a healthy and faithful private parts.

An active penis or a tight vagina without the fear of God attached to it, will make you cry, if it didn’t give you STDs.

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*I’m a staunch supporter of early marriage