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Today’s episode is called Complementary episode and here is what we are going do to;
Think of 5 complements for your partner, e.g., I love you, You are the most beautiful/handsome person I ever met, etc.
Divide today in 5 parts, e.g 12am, 10am, 12pm, 3pm and 8pm.
Assign a complement to a particular time hour.
Send the complement either through SMS, DM, Short note to be hidden where LOML can see it, sweet whisper to ear, verbal, etc. Just make sure your partner has 5 Complementary messages from you today.
For example:
12am – I love you (short note to be hidden in the bible/dinning room/planner/etc.
5am – You are the most beautiful/handsome bae/guy I ever seen (verbal to be said while he/she is dressing up for work 😍😍😍)
10am – Thank you for providing for this family❤️❤️, I appreciate your effort in making sure this family is in great shape, Thank you for joining me in planning for a great future, etc. (SMS)
3pm – You are the best husband/wife/fiancee/fiance in the world (DM)
8pm – I love you (sweet whisper)
It is not compulsory to use my time division or time just use it a template for yours.
Lastly, thank you for joining me (and for following me as well as liking my post) and commenting on today’s episode of #ReviveYouRelationshipChallenge.
Everybody has a phobia. Something he/she is afraid of.
Some are afraid of losing their spouses either by way of heartbreak 💔, divorce 😠 or even death 😭.
Some are afraid of losing their job, career opportunities, etc.
What of possibilities of falling health, drunk driver, loneliness, accident and many unforseen circumstances.
Today, share your fear with your partner. The fear may even be the fear of losing him/her or the fear of how your Relationship might look like in the nearest possible time.
Don’t be afraid, just say your mind.
Rather should you panic or ask accusingly. This moment of asking is not to confirm whether you are right and your partner is wrong or vice versa. It is a time to clear all confusion.
Meanwhile, ask your partner, his/her fear too. Maybe for two of you, it may be False Experience Appearing Real. Two, perfect love casts out fear for God has not given us the spirit of fear but of sound mind.
That’s all I have for you today on day 10 of #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge. Make sure you comment, like and follow me.
It’s another beautiful day! And it is a glorious day already.
Wherever you might be reading this, good day.
Today, I want to teach you how to serve your love partner breakfast in bed.
But before that let read our Bible. Turn your Bible to Song of songs 2:20
Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom. NIV
What ruin most beautiful Courtships or Marriages are not lack of love but negligence of little foxes and little flowers until the little foxes feed on little flowers.
Such little flowers are service especially serving our partner.
I may ask you, when last did you draw chair for your babe to sit down at the restaurant?
When last did they wake up to a credit alert for ice cream from you?
When last did you serve them breakfast in bed? (My Nigerian brethren is thinking of heart break sha !!! 🙄🤣💔).
You don’t know what to do serve? Ok.! That’s why I’m here!
Oya! Go into the kitchen and prepare pap! Eba! Hot Amala? Done abi?
Oya go and wake your spouse and lead him to dinning table!
You don’t know how to make any of these, I hear? What about a cup of tea ☕☕
I am not married yet? You can prepare a steaming bowl of noddle to be dropped at his/her workplace or way-billed.
I’m in a long distance relationship, how can I do this? Transfer a token for a cold ice cream 🍦🍦 and pop corn 🍿🍿
My spouse don’t eat early? Do it in the evening.
I don’t have time to do this but I want to do it? That is why @vicpraise1010 is there for you if you are within Ogbomosho metropolis. She can be reached via 0703 233 8012
What I prepared for my wife in the comment. LoL 😄😁😃
Welcome to another day in our #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge. I hope you are practicing and applying all the principles we have been highlighting since August 1.
Today, Write a sweet note for your partner and hide for them to his/her to find it.
Write it from your heart with a pen. In your own handwriting.
Think about the joys he has been giving you.
Think about the help she has been rendering to you.
Think about the moment of trials that you guys have weathered together and he/she did not ran away.
Think about the food she prepares every day.
Think about the money that bought the food.
Think about how she carried your baby for nine months.
Think about how he has been a responsible father.
If you can remember anything, think about him/her agreeing to marrying you.
What about his handsomeness? Her sparkling beauty nko?
Oya, pick a pen and a tear a sheet of paper and write by starting with something like this, ‘Dear wiffy… ‘
If your partner is not around, still write with your hand, snap and sent it to him/her via DM.
Drop your handwritten note in the comment section. I will drop mine too. Let’s see the best handwriting and the most romantic.
About two years ago, Coca Cola Plc., started a #Shareacoke campaign with the aim of improving relationship between consumer to consumer.
Moving on from that, on today’s episode of #ReviveYourRelationsgipChallenge, the work before us is Share a Goal with your partner.
The goal may be spiritual, academic, physical, familiar, career goal. Just share the goal with him/her during your chitchat.
You know what this do for your spouse?
It beautify him/her.
It tells him/her, he or she is valued.
It shows that he/she is not an afterthought but a regular member of the team.
It creates an avenue of deep communication and commitment.
It opens up channel to receive wise counsel.
Furthermore, when the LOML arrives from work today, after relaxing, during his free time, gently intrude to share a moment, a goal and if possible a coke with the person your heart has chosen.
It’s day 3 already in the #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge.
I hope you have been seeing the results of rekindled love and refired commitment. ❤️❤️🥰😍
If you haven’t. Relax!
Let’s stay today discussion with a question; when last did you ask about your partner’s day?
I know you are busy but when last did you ask him/her about his/her job?
If you haven’t or you have never, take time to ask your partner about his/her day, about his/her business or any worthwhile endeavor going on in his/her lives.
Caveat: Dear men, it’s likely ‘how are you and how was your day,’ may generate 5-hours answer🤣😍😍🥰. Ask and listen attentively. Two, what she may tell you may be meaningless to you but still listen lovingly and without interruption.
And to our ladies, the question may elicit just two or one answers of ‘good, I am fine.’ 😁😁😁😁. We are all wired differently.
But whatsoever the likely answer, ask about your partner’s day, today.
Today’s the 2nd day of #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge and it runs for 30 days.
Very many of us have been caught up in our daily activities that we forget to cut more woods in the fireplace of love, courtship, relationship and marriage.
Thus, love of many have waxed cool and freeze.
Many have abandoned their children and spouse as a result of pursuit of daily job.
Today, I am imploring you to unplug from your busy legitimate schedule for at least an hour and plug yourself to hear your spouse/fiance/fiancee.
Unplug. Unplug. Unplug.
Plug. Plug. Plug.
Listen. Listen. Listen.
At least an hour just to hear your LOML speak with interruption.
Drop your phone somewhere. You can even put in it flight mode and listen to the one you can your life and love.
I am sure, doing so we bring positivity, joy, optimism, hope to that relationship, Marriage and Courtship.
Today is the first day of 30-day #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge and I want you to be practical in doing it. I have no doubt that your relationship with experience a refreshing look after this challenge.
Today, send a romantic good morning/afternoon/night message to your partner.
Draft a message – SMS, WhatsApp or DM and make the Love of Your Life (LOYL) happy.
Now, these are some examples of goodwill messages for your partner:
1. I love you, (insert his/her name).
2. As the sun make the day brights, you make my life brights.
3. I wonder what I can do without you by my side. You are the best to happen to me.
4. You are my star girl/boy.
5. I love you with the love of Christ.
6. You are the best thing that ever happened to me in this world. No other will ever come close.
7. Thank you for modeling the love of the heavenly Father to us/me by being perfect example of true father/mother.
8. I love and appreciate you.
9.As long as we’re together, our future is bright. Here’s to another new day. Good morning, my love!
10. Mornings are beautiful, but they are especially satisfying when I get to wake up beside you and that sweet smile of yours. It’s the best way to start the day.
11. I love every morning that you are with me. It makes me feel so close to you and so blessed in this life of ours. Good morning!
12. As I open my eyes to witness the beautiful sunshine, it feels like the warmth of your love is embracing me. Good morning my love.
13. The beauty of the morning sunshine is nothing compared to your natural glow. You truly are the most gorgeous ever!
14. Good morning! Another day of thinking about you. Save me some good morning kisses; I’ll take them later in person!
15. Good morning, my love. May you find lots of reasons to smile today!
16. Only the fortunate ones get the chance to wish their loved one a good morning when they wake up. I’m so lucky.
17. You are the first person I think of after opening my eyes each day. Sending you kisses and hugs for a wonderful day ahead!
18. Good morning to the one who rules my heart! Every day I feel blessed to spend my day with you. I love you!
19. You will be the last thing I think of before I fall to sleep and the first thing to remember when I wake up.
20. Every day I spend with you is the new best day of my life. Can’t wait for the morning. Good night.
21. My days are worth it if I can end them with you by my side. Good night.
22. Sleeping is impossible when all I can think about is you. Good night! 23. The brightest thing in this world are your eyes when you look at me. I don’t want to see stars, but your eyes. Have a good night.
24. Before I fall asleep, I always picture what it would feel like to fall asleep in your arms. It’s the best feeling in the world. I’m in my bed, you’re in your bed. One of us is in the wrong place.
25. Every night I love coming back home. Because home is being in your arms. Good night.
Now, new season is here and for the next thirty days starting from August, you and I will embark on journey of reviving and rekindle both old and new love in the 30-days #ReviveYourRelationship Challenge.
It is practical! Encouraging! Entralling! Enriching! Reviving! And it is for all!
Thank for reading. Make sure you comment your lover’s name.
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