The new year is the season where there is so much fun in the air and it could be a perfect time for you to find another woman’s son to find you or to look for another man’s daughter for friendship and marital settlement in 2022.
If you are game, primed and ready to roll then follow this guide to find or to be found (as the case may be):
1. Open your social media DM.
Who knows maybe your significant other has been waiting for you for two years. Love can happen anywhere, including your DM.
Do you reply to every message in there? Absolutely no! Carefully select anyone with the sensible message while ignoring all ‘hello angles.’
Click the link to read exciting stories of those who met their spouses in their DMs and timelines.
2. Start sharing values on your social media page.
Where there is a carcass, there the vultures gather.
By starting to offer values on your social page, group, blog or weblink, you will eventually attract a crowd. Maybe your future spouse may come with the healing to your singleness in his/her wing. Who knows.
Read the story of Ayosolas below.
3. Be a commenter.
First of all, make sure you comment your marital status and contact info in the comment section if you are ready to mingle and settle this year.
Apart from commenting here, don’t just be a values sharer, be a value encourager by commenting, liking and sharing other value givers’ and content creators’ creative works.
You can even tailor your comments to the person that you are developing feelings for provided the ‘feelee‘ values aligned with godly principles. I bet it with you, people can be known through what they read, write and say.
Facebook posts are the written form of our thoughts, beliefs and ideologies.
The caveat here, don’t just comment casually, comment intelligently and argue respectfully. Maybe the person that will find you is also a fellow commenter.
Did you know why I hammered so much on your social media? Because it is the easiest means for baby boomers, millennials and Gen Zs to find love.
4. Owambe is a goldmine.
If you are seriously considering marriage this year or the year after, do not joke with parties and any avenues that put you amid opposite sexes.
Such parties include wedding parties, burial parties, chieftaincy ceremony and various festivities.
Even if you are not invited to one make sure you volunteer to attend one or look for one to attend in the neighbourhood. All that you need is boldness, a good phone to exchange contact, neat clothes preferably native wears and perf so that you can appear nice to your would-be suitors.
You can’t attend five in a row without seeing love.
5. Now, let’s go to church.
If you have been skipping church before, this ain’t the best time to do so.
This is the time to make church and churchy activities serious and be serious with them for life because there is joy in the presence of God.
There are thousands of single men and women in the faith but they don’t go to clubhouses, you can only find them in the choir, youth meetings, camp meetings, church volunteer groups, etc., plus the fact that some of them are not active on social media and you know what, they are serving God sincerely.
If you don’t marry from the church, where will you?
6. Listen to recommendations.
Like I said yesterday, somebody knows someone that he/she thinks can make a good spouse to you. If you got that opportunity please don’t belittle it. Check the recommended person out first.
After all, there is nothing sinful about matchmaking.
7. Prayer is the master key.
Let’s sing this song:
Prayer is the key,
Prayer is the key,
Prayer is the master key,
Jesus started with prayer,
And end it with prayer,
Prayer is the master.
The whole process of searching, looking and finding should start with prayer and continue in prayer.
Why prayer? People can be wicked and fake what they are not. So you will need prayer to separate the chaff from the wheat.
Praying means you are saying to God, ‘my father I can’t do this in my power but you can help me.’
This, we are sure of, He never fails.
Finally, do you want to settle down this year, drop your contact info in the comment section?
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