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Dear sister, come around.

When my parents gave birth to me, I automatically became their son, likewise my brothers and sisters. None of us did anything to prove sonship or daughtership.

No test was administered to me to determine whether I will be a good son or not and none will be ever administered.

How does this concern you, one of the signs that you are not welcome in that family is by testing you.

Once you perceive that you are being asked to prove your daughters-in-law, slow down and tell the butterflies in your tummy to calm down.

Once you are being subjected to some inhumane traditions to prove wife materialness without even being married to their ward, calm down first.

For if you prove yourself now, you will have to be proving yourself to them as a worthy sister-in-law, mother of the grandkids, family member, and so on.

For how long, are you going to do that?

Two, they are questioning their child’s decision-making process.

In conclusion, this doesn’t mean the right questions won’t be asked about you, which you must answer.

No parent asks his son/daughter to prove his/her sonship/daughter.

Have a nice week ahead.