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  • ObiDients, ObiDiots and ObiTuary.

    ObiDients, ObiDiots and ObiTuary.

    I am ObiDient but not unreasonable, egoistic and utopian.

    May 2022, some days leading to People Democratic Party (PDP) Presidential Primaries, Mr Peter Obi defected from PDP as one of its presidential aspirants alleging that the moneybags have hijacked the processes leading to the main opposition selection of its standard bearer in the 2023 Nigeria General Election. A few days after, he announced on his verified Twitter handle that he is now of Labour Party (LP). A few weeks later, he won his new party’s presidential primaries unopposed.

    The emergency of Peter Obi took on a twitterstorm. The netizens who are yawning for a break from the two main political parties who have but wrecked untold miseries on Nigerians took his emergence as their project hence they nicknamed themselves ObiDients.

    Before we know what is happening, the opponents mainly of the ruling All Progressives Congress (APC) presidential candidate camp, Babatunde Ahmed Tinubu (BAT) codely tagged BATists started making jest of the ObiDients telling them they have no structure to win a presidential election in the country. Soon the jestings denigrated into personal insults, mockeries, threats to lives and properties, arguments and counterarguments among ObiDients and BATists. Occasionally drawn into the battle are PDP presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar’s camp known as Atikulates.

    The ObiDient called the BATists, agbadoist. BATists replied by calling them ObiDiots. They called them thieving structures, they said they are structureless. They said anybody who isn’t ObiDient is a national enemy and tribalistic, they replied that Peter Obi is a regional candidate and that they will announce the obituary of their ambition next February at the presidential poll bla bla bla.

    Now, let’s get down to business. Who are the real ObiDients, ObiDiots and whose ambition’s obituary will be announced next year? First of all, as I have said, I am ObiDient but not irrational, egoistic and unrealistic like many of my fellow ObiDient especially of Igbo extraction who see anyone not supporting Peter Obi as tribalistic. Two, why am I ObiDient? I am ObiDient based on fairness and equality. Since the end of the 1963 Nigeria civil war, nobody of Igbo descent has ever held the number one seat in the country despite having qualified personalities from that region and tribe. The Gentleman agreement of power rotation between North and South has always been between majority Northern Hausa-Fulanis Muslim and majority Yorubas Christian down south. I believe it’s the turn of our Igbo brothers and sisters. Γ€won lΓ³kΓ n.*

    Still, on fairness and equality, the 2023 General Election presents Nigerians with the choice of picking either a devourer, an armed robber, or a petty thief but I will leave you to decide who is the former, the middle and the latter.

    Three, will Obi win? I doubt it. Political parties and political alliances matter in Nigeria’s kind of politics. But why are you still voting for him? I am voting for him because I will not use my hands to endorse evil. Obi is not a messiah but Peter is better. Nevertheless, I believe in miracles.

    Nevertheless, who are the ObiDients people? I believed ObiDients are people who believe in the presidential ambition of Mr. Peter Obi and are doing everything within the ambit of the law to make sure that that dream comes to pass without threatening any BATist or Atikulate. I have four people who are very close to me that are registered members of PDP and APC.

    A real ObiDient is a person that believes in the freedom of speech, choice, and association of every Nigerian and will make sure that those rights are upheld irrespective of the person’s tribe, religion, and political leaning. Gbogbo wa o le sun la kori sibi kanna**.

    If you believe otherwise as a Peter Obi’s supporter, then you are an ObiDiot. For example, if you as an Igbo believe that anyone not supporting Peter Obi is tribalistic, then you are an ObiDiot. Are all Igbos ObiDient? Are all Yorubas, BATists and are all Hausa-Fulanis, Atikulates?

    L-R: Peter Obi of LP, Babatunde Ahmed Tinubu of APC and Atiku Abubakar of PDP.

    If you are threatening anybody from opposing camps either on or offline, you are ObiDiot.

    If you believe Obi is the messiah and he no dey give shishi***, you are an imperial ObiDiot. Obi is no messiah neither is he a devourer nor an armed robber. πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

    If you break any ship that has been of any help to you in past, be it relationSHIP, courtSHIP, mentorSHIP, parentSHIP, memberSHIP, siblingSHIP, etc., because of Peter Obi (or any politician), you are a full-blown ObiDiot. The eventual losers are not losing anything per se.

    Lastly, anyone [the politicians and willing citizens] who they use you as a thug, money sharer, e-bandit, fake new distributor, e-terrorist, election disrupter, vandals, rigger, etc., during this election period, they will have an obituary of their ambitions on that day in Jesus name and may God announces the obituary of ambition of anyone who plans to subject us to further miseries in Jesus name. Amen.

    Thanks for reading.

    * it is their turn. ** All of us can not sleep and put heads in the same direction meaning we can’t think alike. *** Obi don’t give anybody money to support him.

  • Day 13 – Do

    Day 13 – Do

    What’s time are we? (Please tell me the time in your place right now in the comment section. I am publishing this at exactly 1pm, Nigerian time)

    Welcome back. Right now it is #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge O’ clock.

    How far with spreading complements across 5 different hours yesterday? Hope you did it?

    Today, in order to revive or strengthen your relationship, do chores together with your partner or help your partner in doing chores especially the one he/she hates doing.

    Take the dirty clothes outside to the washing machine.

    Take the trashcan out.

    Go to his/her wardrobe, go and help iron or arrange all those scattered clothes.

    Help her to clean the kitchen.

    Mop the floor together.

    Set the table.

    Mow the lawn.

    Take the kids out.

    Walk the dogs out.

    Go grocery shopping.

    Etc.

    Just do a chore together and have opportunity to communicate, profess love for one another, plan together and pray together while doing chores.

    I love you.

  • Day 12 – How to Make Tiger nut drink

    Day 12 – How to Make Tiger nut drink

    There is a popular assertion that goes this; family that cook together, stay together bhet (as Nigerians will pronounce but) today, we are not cooking, I want to teach you how to make a TIGER NUT DRINK popularly called Kunnu in Nigeria.

    The Recipe.

    • Tiger nut
    • Coconut
    • Date palm (optional)
    • Honey (optional)
    • Sugar (optional)
    • Spices like ginger, tumeric, etc (optional),

    Methods

    1. Soak your tiger nut for 24 hours with a pinch of salt.
    2. Drain and rinse.
    3. Add your drained tiger nut, coconut, date palm (and other things you desire to add) into the blender with 3 cups of water
    4. Operate your blender on high for 1 minute.
    5. Sieve the blended mash.
    6. Enjoy your drink.
    Source: All Nigerian Foods websiteAll Nigerian Foods website

    I know you will what to ask me about the benefits of the wonderful drink. Here are the benefits as listed by All Nigerian Foods on their website:

    1. Tiger nuts contain over 15 different elements and nutrients including fiber, calcium, potassium, Zinc, Iron, and Vitamins. Fiber is good for an easy bowel movement and may help with food digestion and also prevent constipation in kids and adults.

    2. We have used this milk historically to boost libido and increase sperm count. It acts as a natural aphrodisiac.
    It could just be what you need to get back your sweet sex life. 😍😍😍πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

    3. The most important tiger nut milk benefit is surely the fact that it tastes so good and quenches your thirst.

    4. Certain researchers found out that tiger nut extract could fight some harmful bacteria in the human body.

    Hence, drinking this milk helps your immune system and ultimately helps in establishing a defense against bacteria like E.coli, staphylococcus and Salmonella

    Nota bene; Try it with your partner and while trying it, communicate, discuss, appreciate and tell yourselves sweet nonsense.

    Also note that if you don’t have a refrigerator, please do what you can consume at a go for avoid fermentation.

    Thank for following and commenting.

  • Day 11 – ComplΓ©mentation.

    Day 11 – ComplΓ©mentation.

    First of all, scroll down and click follow button so that you can be enjoying all my thought-provoking gentlemanly articles.

    Today’s episode is called Complementary episode and here is what we are going do to;

    • Think of 5 complements for your partner, e.g., I love you, You are the most beautiful/handsome person I ever met, etc.
    • Divide today in 5 parts, e.g 12am, 10am, 12pm, 3pm and 8pm.
    • Assign a complement to a particular time hour.
    • Send the complement either through SMS, DM, Short note to be hidden where LOML can see it, sweet whisper to ear, verbal, etc. Just make sure your partner has 5 Complementary messages from you today.

    For example:

    12am – I love you (short note to be hidden in the bible/dinning room/planner/etc.

    5am – You are the most beautiful/handsome bae/guy I ever seen (verbal to be said while he/she is dressing up for work 😍😍😍)

    10am – Thank you for providing for this family❀️❀️, I appreciate your effort in making sure this family is in great shape, Thank you for joining me in planning for a great future, etc. (SMS)

    3pm – You are the best husband/wife/fiancee/fiance in the world (DM)

    8pm – I love you (sweet whisper)

    It is not compulsory to use my time division or time just use it a template for yours.

    Lastly, thank you for joining me (and for following me as well as liking my post) and commenting on today’s episode of #ReviveYouRelationshipChallenge.

    I love you

    ❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️❀️

  • Day 10 – My fear.

    Day 10 – My fear.

    Everybody has a phobia. Something he/she is afraid of.

    Some are afraid of losing their spouses either by way of heartbreak πŸ’”, divorce 😠 or even death 😭.

    Some are afraid of losing their job, career opportunities, etc.

    What of possibilities of falling health, drunk driver, loneliness, accident and many unforseen circumstances.

    Today, share your fear with your partner. The fear may even be the fear of losing him/her or the fear of how your Relationship might look like in the nearest possible time.

    Don’t be afraid, just say your mind.

    Rather should you panic or ask accusingly. This moment of asking is not to confirm whether you are right and your partner is wrong or vice versa. It is a time to clear all confusion.

    Meanwhile, ask your partner, his/her fear too. Maybe for two of you, it may be False Experience Appearing Real. Two, perfect love casts out fear for God has not given us the spirit of fear but of sound mind.

    That’s all I have for you today on day 10 of #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge. Make sure you comment, like and follow me.

  • Day 9: Share a vision.

    Day 9: Share a vision.

    It’s day 9 of #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge already!

    Did you have a family vision and values?

    As in what is guiding your family or what will be the guiding principles of your when you marry?

    Abi, is it when we get to the bridge, we will know how to cross it?

    My family’s vision and values.

    If you have like my wife and I, why do you go over it to analyse your progress.

    If you guys, don’t have one, why can’t you just sit down your partner lovingly and jointly plan how to live your home.

    Thank you for reading. I love you ❀️❀️❀️

  • Day 8 – How to serve your partner Breakfast

    Day 8 – How to serve your partner Breakfast

    It’s another beautiful day! And it is a glorious day already.

    Wherever you might be reading this, good day.

    Today, I want to teach you how to serve your love partner breakfast in bed.

    But before that let read our Bible. Turn your Bible to Song of songs 2:20

    Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom. NIV

    What ruin most beautiful Courtships or Marriages are not lack of love but negligence of little foxes and little flowers until the little foxes feed on little flowers.

    Such little flowers are service especially serving our partner.

    I may ask you, when last did you draw chair for your babe to sit down at the restaurant?

    When last did they wake up to a credit alert for ice cream from you?

    When last did you serve them breakfast in bed? (My Nigerian brethren is thinking of heart break sha !!! πŸ™„πŸ€£πŸ’”).

    Click here to reed 7 ways to cope with original breakfast

    You don’t know what to do serve? Ok.! That’s why I’m here!

    Oya! Go into the kitchen and prepare pap! Eba! Hot Amala? Done abi?

    Oya go and wake your spouse and lead him to dinning table!

    You don’t know how to make any of these, I hear? What about a cup of tea β˜•β˜•

    I am not married yet? You can prepare a steaming bowl of noddle to be dropped at his/her workplace or way-billed.

    I’m in a long distance relationship, how can I do this? Transfer a token for a cold ice cream 🍦🍦 and pop corn 🍿🍿

    My spouse don’t eat early? Do it in the evening.

    I don’t have time to do this but I want to do it? That is why @vicpraise1010 is there for you if you are within Ogbomosho metropolis. She can be reached via 0703 233 8012

    What I prepared for my wife in the comment. LoL πŸ˜„πŸ˜πŸ˜ƒ

  • Day 7 – Walk in love.

    I am very happy seeing you for another episode of #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge.

    Today, to deepen your love life, take a walk with your love in the neighborhood.

    The walk could be in the morning or in the afternoon.

    Take a walk of love. Take a walk of joy. Take a walk of laughter around the neighborhood.

    Now, what are the benefit?

    1. You make your territory from unscrupulous individual that may have eye on your spouse. πŸ€£πŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜
    2. It helps to create bond.
    3. It strengthen the relationship.
    4. It helps to exercise the body.
    5. It helps to appreciate the awesomeness of Yahweh in creation.
    6. Etc.

    During your walk;

    1. Appreciate nature – the sky, the leaves, the trees, etc.
    2. Take photography.
    3. Pray under your nose.
    4. Gist as you go.
    5. Visit a friend in the neighborhood.
    6. Find a shade to sit down and tell yourselves, I love you.
    7. Read a book under a tree.
    8. Make short video and post it online.
    9. Etc.

    When done, bless us with the outing pics. Mine on my Facebook page.

  • Day 6 – 5 Things I love about my wife.

    Day 6 – 5 Things I love about my wife.

    How are you! Hope you are good?

    It is #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge’ O Clock. Day 6 to be precise.

    Today, we are writing 5 things about our partner. 5 things that make us love them.

    We are not just just writing it, we will also  make video, record, podcast of it and we are posting it on all our social media handles.

    We won’t keep calm again of the in-house blessing God has granted.

    We will show it so that people will know that lovely Marriages are still existing.

    But before I round up today’s episode, let me tell you five reasons I love my wife:

    • She loves God more than she loves me.
    • She is my wife. Did I even have any choice if I don’t?
    • She is human being! πŸ˜„πŸ˜ƒ.
    • She is a fantastic cook. My wife can cook a storm. I confident of her winning any food competition.
    • She is hardworking and industrious .
    • She is CEO of Praise Food and Craft (a bag and food making industry).

    I said 5 but I mentioned 6. Sorry my wife is just amazing.

    Now, tell me why do you love your spouse?

  • Day 5 – Write a Heart β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

    Day 5 – Write a Heart β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ

    Welcome to another day in our #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge. I hope you are practicing and applying all the principles we have been highlighting since August 1.

    Today, Write a sweet note for your partner and hide for them to his/her to find it.

    Write it from your heart with a pen. In your own handwriting.

    Think about the joys he has been giving you.

    Think about the help she has been rendering to you.

    Think about the moment of trials that you guys have weathered together and he/she did not ran away.

    Think about the food she prepares every day.

    Think about the money that bought the food.

    Think about how she carried your baby for nine months.

    Think about how he has been a responsible father.

    If you can remember anything, think about him/her agreeing to marrying you.

    What about his handsomeness? Her sparkling beauty nko?

    Oya, pick a pen and a tear a sheet of paper and write by starting with something like this, ‘Dear wiffy… ‘

    If your partner is not around, still write with your hand, snap and sent it to him/her via DM.

    Drop your handwritten note in the comment section. I will drop mine too. Let’s see the best handwriting and the most romantic.

  • Day 4- Share A Goal.

    Day 4- Share A Goal.

    About two years ago, Coca Cola Plc., started a #Shareacoke campaign with the aim of improving relationship between consumer to consumer.

    Moving on from that, on today’s episode of #ReviveYourRelationsgipChallenge, the work before us is Share a Goal with your partner.

    The goal may be spiritual, academic, physical, familiar, career goal. Just share the goal with him/her during your chitchat.

    You know what this do for your spouse?

    It beautify him/her.

    It tells him/her, he or she is valued.

    It shows that he/she is not an afterthought but a regular member of the team.

    It creates an avenue of deep communication and commitment.

    It opens up channel to receive wise counsel.

    Furthermore, when the LOML arrives from work today, after relaxing, during his free time, gently intrude to share a moment, a goal and if possible a coke with the person your heart has chosen.

    Thanks for reading.

  • Day 3 – Ask.

    Day 3 – Ask.

    It’s day 3 already in the #ReviveYourRelationshipChallenge.

    I hope you have been seeing the results of rekindled love and refired commitment. ❀️❀️πŸ₯°πŸ˜

    If you haven’t. Relax!

    Let’s stay today discussion with a question; when last did you ask about your partner’s day?

    I know you are busy but when last did you ask him/her about his/her job?

    If you haven’t or you have never, take time to ask your partner about his/her day, about his/her business or any worthwhile endeavor going on in his/her lives.

    Caveat: Dear men, it’s likely ‘how are you and how was your day,’ may generate 5-hours answer🀣😍😍πŸ₯°. Ask and listen attentively. Two, what she may tell you may be meaningless to you but still listen lovingly and without interruption.

    And to our ladies, the question may elicit just two or one answers of ‘good, I am fine.’ 😁😁😁😁. We are all wired differently.

    But whatsoever the likely answer, ask about your partner’s day, today.

    T for thanks and C for comment.

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